ranchwater wrote: ↑Mon Jan 15, 2024 10:08 am
After 20 years of marriage, two weeks ago, I (M 54) finally got the courage to tell my wife (F 51) about the hotwife fantasy I have had for years. Even though she was surprised, she was glad that I told her. I did my best to explain it to her, and I think she finally started to understand it. At this point, I think she was fine with the idea as long as it remained a fantasy. A few days later I admitted to her that I wanted it to be more than a fantasy. She did her best to stay in the conversation with me, but she said she didn’t see any way the fantasy would ever become a reality. To her credit, we ended the conversation agreeing that we would both try to learn more about it and just slowly see here that journey would take us. As a side note, she is the most wonderful wife a guy could ask for, and at this point if she ever were to consider this, it would be her doing it for me…..which I told her I did NOT want her doing.
In the meantime, our sex life has been rejuvenated beyond imagination. Our learning about hotwifing has continued as we both have read more about the fantasy. My research brought me to this site, and we even began roleplaying her with another guy. Over the past few weeks, my conservative wife has become a sex goddess. She has more confidence, she feels more sexual, and she says that she is thinking about sex all day long. In addition, our communication has vastly improved, which we both agree only adds to the amazing sex – we both feel as if we could tell each other anything, and the added intimacy in knowing this is incredible.
On the handful of occasions that we have talked about how the fantasy might really happen, we prefer a stag/vixen type of arrangement. She would want me to be there, and I would obviously want to be there, as this has been my fantasy for years.
We are still in the learning process of seeing if this is something we would ever really do. She is clearly not there yet. But, last night as we roleplayed her with a bull, she said that she really was able to imagine fucking another guy. And this morning, she let me know how hot it makes her to think about what that first time would look like.
She knows I’ve become a new member of this forum and she has even read a few threads with me. She asked if I could find some threads where the hotwife is describing (in detail) what that first time was like. I will continue to review older threads in search of such posts, but if anyone can point us to a description of their first time, that would be very helpful.
We’re taking baby steps and hopefully will enjoy this journey together.
