Threesome or watch?

[Shadnaster]

It's fun to join in but sometimes it's hotter to sit back and watch them put on a porn show.

[hotfreaks]

I prefer to sit back...watch and take pics and vids. My wife is my favorite pornstar so watching her turns me on.

[Wannabecuck2468]

In general, whatever (be sure whatever) my wife did with another man (or he with her), I loved to watch.
And my wife loved me watching.

But that changed after her dream came true: me sucking a cock.
Or better expressed, without any indication, a complete stranger (in what became "our" club) pushed his cock into my mouth.
My wife saw this and began to jerk his cock, hoping that he would cum in my mouth.
He didn't want to cum because as he said to her: "I want to cum while I'm fucking you."

This happening changed our lifestyle: my wife loved to watch me sucking cocks.
With her black lover it became a habit. My wife and I pushing his cock in each other mouth.
So she and I could watch it from very nearby, often only centimeters. A better view wasn't possible.
The first time it happened she wrote me in a mail:
"You gave him a real good BJ as it should be for a cuckold. I was a bit jealous while I was imagining the future: you sucking more cocks than myself. Unfortunately I know that most men aren't bi. I love to watch men playing with each other. Especially with their cocks. Then gives me the possibility to watch too."

So there was a rather big change but in general I stayed the watching or helping cuckold.
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What a good cuck.

[BT2]

There are definite advantages for the hubby by any of the three - taking part in an MFM threesome, watching your wife in action with a guy and not taking part, or her playing alone then telling you all about it later, complete with what she was thinking, what she wanted, when she wanted "it", all which you probably cannot learn from the other two options. My wife became a hotwife during her second date, in which I was present but didn't take part. (I thought I'd have a heart attack when I first saw her full frontal naked in front of him.) I have since over the years done all three, and for me there is no right or wrong way, nor preference.

My suggestion would be to ask your wife what she prefers. After all, it is her body. Just make sure the guy is aware of her wishes.

[dinoo]

Wannabecuck2468 wrote:
What a good cuck.

My wife said the same but added "As it should be".

[Saskcple]

I will say your dynamic and how things play out will be fluid and evolve as it progresses. There are your desires plus 2 others to consider and everyone has to be comfortable and agree on the fun.
Personally I would have enjoyed reclaiming sex but Mrs was never into that, I got to lick her a little on occasion afterwards (she always tasted like a condom). I enjoyed when she was out having fun. We progressed to now we are 3 to bed and this too is fucking awesome.
Your wife is the key piece so it’s got to be all about her and her needs first otherwise there will be no fun. So she needs to dictate the main rules, if she wants you there; then you need to decide your tolerance. Going with the flow can be awkward and if you aren’t fully in tune to the vibe, more in your own space and wants than what the room is gibing then the mood can be ruined when your think you are going with the flow….careful with that.
Another discussion is the 2nd guy, it might be hard for him to do what he wants with your wife with you there if the dynamic has you 2 equal. If he was alpha and your were the cuck then he has free rein to do what is in the limits of play. The male / male contact can also be a stumbling block but I will confess once we got past the possibilities of that it really opened up our pleasure. Not saying full guy on guy but we aren’t freaked out if there is contact.

[BT2]

I forgot to add one more thing, but Saskcple referred to it. In a fantasy involving three people, it is easy to have things go your way because in a fantasy you control the actions of all three people. In real life action, such as the visit you are describing, there are two other people besides yourself involved and they are not acting according to your fantasy script. So, to repeat, ask your wife her preferences, and take into consideration the other guy's comfort level and desires.

[isinlarsa]

I've both watched and participated in threesomes. If I am the extra man with a couple, of course I want to participate. However, although I would enjoy a threesome with my wife, I would more rather watch another man fuck her.

[Blackjack4724]

It just depends with the guy for us. Some guys she’s with have performance issues if I’m there. So in those cases Tammy does just a one on one. I like being there when possible and Tammy likes me to be there but she always asked the guy before hand. Sometimes it’s one on one the first time and the second time the guy is ok with me being there.
If I’m in the room I’ll generally let them do their thing to start and I’ll sit and watch the show and jack off. Again, depending on the guy and if he’s ok with it, I’ll walk over and let Tammy suck my cock while he fucks her. I’ll switch off with the guy occasionally and I’ll try to time my cum shot with his. She enjoys watching two guys wank off and cum on her tits and in her mouth. She will finish us both off.
So with us it varies greatly but we try to accommodate the other guy as much as we can to make him comfortable so he and my wife have a great time.

[Broose411]

It's fun to join in but sometimes it's hotter to sit back and watch them put on a porn show.

I'm same. She's become my favorite pornstar. I like seeing her in action, taking pics and vids, and the more they get into it, the hotter. But i join in and and we play and romp as we get inspired to as the playdate progresses.

[Broose411]

It's fun to join in but sometimes it's hotter to sit back and watch them put on a porn show.

I'm same. She's become my favorite pornstar. I like seeing her in action, taking pics and vids, and the more they get into it, the hotter. But i join in and and we play and romp as we get inspired to as the playdate progresses.

[Funtimecouple]

First off tell the guy if he wants to get some of the best pussy he has ever had then quit being homophobic. You don’t want to fuck him or suck his cock. This threesome isn’t about him or what he wants, he is the one being invited. Yes sometimes it is hard to find the right guy but look for references on swinger sites.

[Mgcouplemn]

I am always in the room watching and masturbating, the whole idea for the two of us is to enjoy sex together even if it is some other guys cock pleasuring her. We love watching each other, her watching me masturbate to her being fucked and me watching her being fucked. I told her to go have sex without me there and she told me no, half of her fun and excitement is looking over seeing me cock in hand and jerking off watching her. there are times she is so excited she motions me over to kiss her while she cums and a lot of time I kiss her as the guy cums in her. Win Win for the two of us

[bbarnsworth]

When my wife and I first got into this, she very much wanted me involved. She didn't want me to just watch. So, the first several times I was directly involved, either in stimulating her in one fashion or another, kissing her as the other man fucked her (oh how delightful to feel her moan from him fucking her while I kissed her!), massaging her, or sometimes just holding her lovingly as he fucked her. She found out rapidly that she really loves spit roasts!

After a fair number of such experiences, she became more comfortable with me just watching. It can be absolutely wonderful just to sit back and watch your wife and another man fuck to their hearts' desires.

From all of this, I've learned I like both; I like to be involved and I like to just watch.

As for the accidental male-male touches, I don't care. It's going to happen in most MFM situations. I'm not bisexual, except for maybe 1%. But, it doesn't bother me if there's accidental touch. It's not like I'm trying to fuck him or he me. It just happens. I think of it as no different than accidental (or some sports, intentional!) contact in sports. It happens. Doesn't mean anything sexual. The only time I ever had any sword crossing was in an MFM where the other guy and I tried to do a DP with my wife. It almost worked. Some penis-penis contact happened, but so what? It wasn't our focus.

[Mr Mrs Cream]

I like when there is connection between the wife and cuck.
So when he is watching she is e.g. telling him what I’m doing.
Or that she is going to ask me for anal sex or rimm my ass.

The another level of connection is during DP.
I enjoy the moans of pleasure and excitement from DP, and cuck have oportunity to have sex and watch the face expressions of his wife during this incredible act.

There is next level which is very excited for hotwife. They both on the knees and hotwife blowing me while showing and describing to cuck from very close what she is doing and waiting to ask cuck if he would like to kiss her and then…

[Mr Right]

Bull here - in most of my relationships, the wife was a Girlfriend and the husband definitely wanted to watch. Often times I think it was more for him that it was for her. I never participated in a threesome as I am 100% straight. There was something inside me that enjoyed pleasuring her and making him happy by putting on a show for him with his wife.

Often times the husband would be required to sit in a chair nearby the bed while I made love to his wife; sometimes over an hour. After the first few sessions, perhaps he would be given permission to pleasure himself as he watched the two of us together. It’s a very complicated interaction, but it’s some level. I always knew that I was there for both of them.

[Mr Right]

Bull here - in most of my relationships, the wife was a Girlfriend and the husband definitely wanted to watch. Often times I think it was more for him that it was for her. I never participated in a threesome as I am 100% straight. There was something inside me that enjoyed pleasuring her and making him happy by putting on a show for him with his wife.

Often times the husband would be required to sit in a chair nearby the bed while I made love to his wife; sometimes over an hour. After the first few sessions, perhaps he would be given permission to pleasure himself as he watched the two of us together. It’s a very complicated interaction, but it’s some level. I always knew that I was there for both of them.

[Mgcouplemn]

Bull here - in most of my relationships, the wife was a Girlfriend and the husband definitely wanted to watch. Often times I think it was more for him that it was for her. I never participated in a threesome as I am 100% straight. There was something inside me that enjoyed pleasuring her and making him happy by putting on a show for him with his wife.

Often times the husband would be required to sit in a chair nearby the bed while I made love to his wife; sometimes over an hour. After the first few sessions, perhaps he would be given permission to pleasure himself as he watched the two of us together. It’s a very complicated interaction, but it’s some level. I always knew that I was there for both of them.

Absolutely correct for Laurie and I, I have as much pleasure watching and masturbating while she is having sex as she does having it and knowing I am watching