Sad to hear that. But you're right. Some wives will encounter losers like her FWB. I don't know how your wife vets her guys but can tell how my wife does it.snoogaloo82 wrote: ↑Mon Dec 18, 2023 10:21 amHello. I have some sad news to report. Marion was attacked this morning by her FWB. He was partially drunk and he started choking her and he wouldn't stop even after she asked him to stop. And no, they had never played the choking game. By some miracle he did eventually stop, but not before damage was done to her throat, and her psyche. I feel totally helpless being thousands of miles away. Not only that but she's having to move because he started harassing her immediately after she left his place. He knows where she lives so I advised her to move out and stay with family for a little while at least. This was a guy who had been nothing but the most pleasant of guys for over 8 weeks, and while drunk decided to take things into his own hands quite literally. I wish I had been there to help her. I guess what I'm trying to say is always be as careful as you can. Most guys are absolute gentlemen, but there are some rotten apples out there and you just have to sniff really close to make sure that they are true and won't hurt you.
If the guy is from an advertisement, she insists on meeting him first at some neutral place like a coffee shop. She will not give the man her last name, address, or phone number until she feels sure he's the "right guy." If he looks particularly young, she asks to see his drivers license. If she picks up hings of any suspicious behavior, she tells him she will get back to him whenever she decides he's the guy she wants to date. She then runs the name and drivers license info through a background search engine for any official records of arrest, divorce, marriage, or anything else. Those background checks are extremely inexpensive.
My wife prefers meeting men through her personal daily life. As she gets to know them better, the two usually end up fucking at our home or his. I don't mind whenever she decides to stay overnight with one of her other guys. Actually, I find it exciting as she preps and backs out of the driveway. I'm usually masturbating madly at the window as I watch her back onto the street and head for her date's home.