So background story…I kept my sexual past from my husband for over 20 years, because I did not want him to think less of me, but I recently revealed my slutty past to him when he asked, and had no idea that it turned him on so much that he would often ask me to tell him about it in details, which some are hard to recall specifics because it’s been so long.
So I had a good amount of men I slept with before I met my then BF, now husband back when I was in college. This was back when internet just started to talk off (late 90s), and I was online in chat rooms (back when it was much more innocent than it is now), I was around 19 when this all started, and would easily meet lots of men since I went to college in a college and military town. During this exploration process, I was also looking for love, but took advantage of having sex with the men even if I did not see them as BF or marriage material. I would hookup with them for sex, using them just as much as they used me, and if I enjoyed the sex, I would invite them back again for more FWB situation. If the sex was not enjoyable for me, then I would just move on and find someone else. There were times when I was so horny that after the first guy was done after he came and clearly was done, I would ask him to leave, get back online and find another guy to continue, my record was 5 different men in one day, and if I didn’t have an exam the next day, probably would have been more. Looking back now, I am still shock at what I did, especially with the online scenes these days and all the potential risk from safety to STI, even though condoms were always used then, I was less educated on all this.
Fast forward a couple of years while still in college, I finally met my then BF and now husband when I was 22, who of course was a young stud himself in the military who happened to also win my heart.
and introduced me to swinging early on, and got to to experience lots of MFM time as well. Just recent years, he brought up the Hotwife thing, and wants me to pursue this further. I honestly feel that it’s not that new to me/us from our history, but perhaps he is wanting me to be more active like I was in college, except now I have to share the juicy details. I never kept records or count on how many men I slept with before I met H during those couple of years in college, and tried to count when he asked me recently. If I were to estimate, probably around high 20s low 30s. So after sharing this, he encourages me to live out my young college years doing the same as a HW and I tell him and feel that it is different and not as easy as it was before, I think mainly because there are so many weirdos out there and I’m very selective of who gets to have sex with me these days, and unlike before I feel that the internet is not as innocent as it was back when it first took off. Anyway, hoping is to a new adventure in our sexy journey together and to another 25 years of love and more sex together!
