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Unread post by ocean » Sun Mar 19, 2023 6:46 am

Hi guys, I do assure you, certainly for now, if she thought I'd told anyone, I would be so dead and she would shut everything down and back into her shell. This is our first experience in the Lifestyle, it's new, exciting but just a bit daunting. As we progress and relax, I'll try to encourage her onto the site.
I find being able to write this down and tell someone, albeit relatively anonymous, is so cathartic and de-stressing, bottling it up is not good. I am trying to keep it concise but get the facts out, sorry for it being so long. So the wind down conversation when she got back;
I arrived home and went to my study to type this up, whilst it was fresh, but more to distract me till she got home and to get warm again.
She arrived home around 2-2.30am and went to the family bathroom, then she walked into the study. I was reading the online news on Sky, well that’s what I quickly switched to She was wearing her nice shorty translucent dressing gown, a huge smile, and a glass of wine for us. This is new.
How was my evening? Oh, I just watched a show, how was yours? She started laughing, held my hand and said come to bed, kissed me, and climbed into bed and on top of me, I slid into her with incredible ease as she was extremely wet and not just with her fluids, which felt strange but well...
She said her evening was ‘fucking brilliant. He really is great fun, kind and very experienced’.

D looked thoughtful and said that this was special, for us, because she didn’t have to skulk around, looking over her shoulder. She felt happy, relaxed and could enjoy the experience and those to come. She then told me everything, he was gentleman, he made her laugh and had a little feel in the restaurant and a big feel in the car. He said he likes to show her off, as a couple of his friends were at the restaurant (no one she knew and all from the next county).
After dinner they went back to his home which was lovely, and she told me about the seduction, which I thought was more of him than her (Jekyll and Hide, my wife) which tallied with what I saw. I felt re-assured that she was being totally honest, sharing very intimate things and feelings.
She said she trusted and felt comfortable with Graham to the point she had laid back on the sofa and openly exposed her open pussy to him, and frankly, was happy to do anything with/for him. She felt free and unfettered like she was floating. I just said don’t get in too deep, more of that part later.
So, he has a great body, a lovely cock and can keep going for ages, (oh good, he’s just bloody wonderful, churlish I know, I should look to my laurels). He’s 64 but she said he’s more 50, so the 16-year age gap meant nothing.
He was great at eating pussy, which he referred to as her ‘cunt’, which shocked her at first, then she bought into it, so that’s what we call it now.
While relating her evening, she slipped off her dressing gown – hmm, there was a large hickey on her left boob where he'd had his feeding frenzy, and her nipples looked like they’d seen action.
My face must have said it, she looked down, saw the hickey, and said, ‘Fuck I am so sorry, I didn’t realise.’ Did he? The wounds of war I said, my cock growing harder inside her.

She told me all about him, was keen to see him on Fridays if possible, his late wife and he were swingers, but he was glad to be out of that. He does use the blue pill.

Strangely, he insisted I was not to know about him at all and she didn't tell him of our arrangement. So, he wants an affair. 'Yes, he likes the idea of a mistress and I find that a little thrilling' she said. That’s fine, I can live with it.
She gave me the details how he fucked her missionary, then her on top and she sucked him off, and? I said. ‘I swallowed!! It just seemed so natural’. Yesss, I thought so, the future looks better.

Surprisingly, she admitted she was on top and going into orgasm when he pushed his finger up her backside. and? ‘Well, It was different’ she said,’ quite nice really’. I don’t believe this; I am totally banned from there. Still, we’ll see. I said perhaps a precursor to the real thing? She smiled, ‘Maybe?’

She doesn’t like rough sex (or I didn’t think she did), but said, as she orgasmed he pinched her nipple really hard, she couldn’t stop coming, triggered spasm after spasm. He’d like her to return the compliment next time.
All these new things she said. She gave him a blow job in the car when he dropped her off as it was dark and no streetlights in our lane. He said he would ring her 10am next Thursday to arrange the next date, as I'm supposed to be out, This will be the norm, moving forward. The future is looking great.

God, had I really become that vanilla. This has opened our eyes to so many opportunities, which I am going to take full advantage. Graham, well he is obviously good for her (and me) so carry on as if it’s normal. But I’ll keep a weather eye open as he’s very keen on Dawn.

Now the tough question – how serious are you on Graham? Possible problem? Veto?
‘I’m very fond of him, but there is nothing to worry about. If you’re OK, I want it to be regular, if not I'll finish it whenever. Who knows, there could be others, but a step at a time, I’m enjoying the ride for now. We are the priority’ I started to breathe again.
She said, ‘I feel so alive, why didn’t you suggest this sooner?’ I knew it would be my fault.

To summarise; the jitters have gone. My wife has had more than her eyes opened and her friend has shown her new things, from which she and I will only practice and benefit, she has been completely honest, held nothing back - let the adventures continue. And she seems sufficiently detached to end things if it starts to get emotional.
I have had a major wakeup call and a kick up the backside. I have a good feeling all round.

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Unread post by tit4atat » Sun Mar 19, 2023 8:14 am

Wow, can't wait to hear the continuation! This is a hot story and I'm glad you were able to convert something perhaps bad into something good. Nice patients on your part by not judging her and jumping all over the cheating thing!
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Unread post by ocean » Sun Mar 19, 2023 8:32 am

Hi tit4tat, thanks for the comment. Our 25 year relationship would withstand a cheating situation, although it would be uncomfortable for a while, but had I kicked off then any options or opportunities would been destroyed and put back another 5 years. That's how long I've been quietly suggesting this road, and in 3 weeks it looks as if we're off and running. As I say softly softly catchee monkey. It's been a great weekend.

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Unread post by superb101 » Sun Mar 19, 2023 8:46 am

How long was it between the time you got home and she arrived? Hot story, by the way! Thanks for sharing!

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Unread post by ocean » Sun Mar 19, 2023 12:03 pm

Hi Superb101, I left just after 1am and got home about 1.40 she arrived back about 2.20.

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Unread post by superb101 » Sun Mar 19, 2023 12:31 pm

Thanks! SO happy your story turned out all right. Most cheating doesnt.

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Unread post by superb101 » Sun Mar 19, 2023 12:32 pm

Now that things are out in the open, have you asked her about getting togehter again with the guy from the gym? Does she have a lot of NRE?

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Unread post by ocean » Sun Mar 19, 2023 1:36 pm

during the Friday evening conversation, this was discussed. She said that she got caught up with the momentum of her friend's pushing and gym guys pulling added to the wine. In my view excuses for something a bit deeper not being right, which I think is probably my neglect and her puritanical upbringing; which caused more than enough trouble during our years together. It sounds awful but they have both passed away a few years ago and I've been sucking lemons since to take the smile away. I suspect they're looking up at me now.

They say it's not the act but the coverup which gets you, as such she expressed remorse for both and has decided to carry on going to the gym, but not gym guy, which she feels is a mess and he's not a particularly nice person, I agree with. This is a fresh clean start, with 'someone she actually likes' and which I am involved. She's also said she will not be telling her friend about our arrangement.

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Unread post by ocean » Sun Mar 19, 2023 1:39 pm

The NRE I'll discuss with her after her next Friday liaison.

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Unread post by Long Lurker 34 » Sun Mar 19, 2023 2:10 pm

O - A thought. As the new fellow desires a regular get together on the same night of the week, especially a Friday, it occurs to me your wife needs an excuse for why you aren't around. How about you have a darts night and she can't stand them.
Oh and looks you are off to a more steady situation.

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Unread post by Luv It » Wed Mar 22, 2023 2:42 pm

FWIW...
A cheating wife can sometimes turn out to be a great hot wife.
Initially, she may not know that her husband would understand and even approve.
When she eventually finds out her husband approves, she can make a really great HW

So, a husband must try to think of things from his wife's point of view.
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Unread post by ocean » Thu Mar 23, 2023 2:46 am

Thursday 23rd D has just phoned me at work, we chatted, and she said that ‘The morning phone call’ came at 9.30. He rang from his office in southwest London where he owns and runs a medium sized specialist engineering company,
45 minutes on the phone. She told me she felt like a teenager and had to check herself. He said nice things about their evening together, some of the comments made her blush (as if) and he was looking forward to tomorrows get together. He wanted to know if she was OK when she got home; any suspicions raised, he was concerned and was going to ring or text earlier in the week but didn’t want to risk it in case I was home. She said that I was asleep when she got in and I had assumed she’d been with her girlfriend, I hadn’t asked any searching questions. Bearing in mind he wants everything secret; She brought up the hickey on her boob and said that it was careless, and she had to cover up all week in case I saw it, no more please. He laughed and said oops sorry, great tits though, totally disarmed her.

Anyway, tomorrow is on; same time same place for the pick-up, this time they are to meet one of his business clients and his wife at a different restaurant to last week. She said in that case she would dress a little more conservatively, to which he said absolutely not, he loved her style, and besides the wife was a bit of an exhibitionist anyway.
She’s said she’d give it some thought. A bit worried about other people getting involved.
This threw her a bit, could she and I have a chat over dinner tonight.
Turns out, she’s worried about this couple she’d never met, even though it was a business meeting quite away from home with people from London. Should she be showing too much, which he wants. I told her she looked fabulous last week and not to worry. As for her no underwear leanings, it’s a huge turn on for any man (and her) and certainly wasn’t obvious, if I thought it would harm her appearance/ reputation, I would certainly tell her. Anyway, he likes showing her off.
I raised the subject of a photo or perhaps 2, not necessarily naked or in action.
Wrong question. Off she went; ‘She is a professional person, and should anything like that ever get out, the ramifications could be dire for not only her, but also the practice, and what about the children? Don’t be so stupid’.
That told me. I’ll take that as a no - for now.
She works part time 3 days as a solicitor in a nearby city. The ’children’; are mid 20’s. Talk about over-reacting.
The change in D because of this journey is remarkable, she really is a different person in only a month. Brimming with confidence and full of life, our personal life is really great now; clearly good for both of us. I have my old Dawn back with added benefits. I read ‘Luv it’s’ contribution which gave me pause for thought, step into her shoes and think from her viewpoint. Thank you, that is insightful.
Maybe the photo question was stupid under the circumstances (but you’ve got to try).

Still, I do have to figure out a way to be open about my side of things, in as much as how do I bring up that I had seen her in action, the devious, not to mention illegal methods I’d employed. I am also conscious about NRE? And other thoughts, this guy is really working hard. Nothing to rush, but to be considered.

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Unread post by ocean » Fri Mar 24, 2023 6:01 pm

I must admit, that when I sit down and take stock of where I am and what’s going on, it seems surreal. A wife/partner of 25 years who showed absolutely no interest of wanting to stray, suddenly does, admittedly with her girlfriend’s encouragement. Me trying to control and reduce the risk of a marriage breakdown, some would say weakly giving in to pressure; but the outcome is something I’ve hinted and wanted for years. She gets the freedom and adventure she secretly craved and I service my interest, just by talking and working together, who’d have thought it.

Friday arrived, bathroom off limits for over an hour. Eventually came into the bedroom.
She looked fantastic, button up middy cream dress with a collar, a few buttons undone at the skirt (after a bit of persuasion) which showed a quite bit of thigh as she walked, and several undone at the top, a hint of cleavage, the usual jewellery, and a very intoxicating perfume ‘mademoiselle’ I think. Let him run you home, we’ll collect the car tomorrow. I’d expect her home same time as last week (subliminally saying - no overnighter). Big kiss, squeezed her boob gently, confirmed – no bra, can only guess the rest.

As far as they are both concerned, my Friday evenings were supposedly with pals at our local pub, which tonight I did, half way through my pint I received a text – ‘in the ladies, friends are nice, but the wife had her large tits on full display with a very low-cut dress, so she felt eyes were focused on the wife and not her, ‘you would love the view’. Oh yes, and why did I not mention her dark nipples were showing through her cream dress?’ I genuinely didn’t notice. Ironically, she said both guys had despite the obvious floor show.
I left the pub about 9.30 to head up to Graham’s house, same M.O. steady drive up, I was a lot calmer this time, but excited. The weather was cold and drizzly tonight. Same parking space and the walk back. As I rounded the corner, Graham’s car was on the drive. Damn. I cautiously went to the gate. Into the garden, internal lights on. No one around. They’d gone out in his friend’s car.
About 10.30 a BMW pulled on to the drive. Heart rate raised a notch in anticipation, I assumed the usual position in the garden on my chair. I was glad I had a dark waterproof coat on, although it stopped raining, it was damp. Both couples came through the door into the living area and sat at the bar. White wine was served, D in the usual stool, not sloshed but certainly on the way and showing a lot of leg, the other lady was sloshed and showing her lovely tits. The other guy kept stroking D’s exposed legs while talking with her, I noticed more dress buttons were undone at the top than when she left home, a fair bit of her tits were on show too.
However, nothing in particular happened which was a bit of a disappointment. Then at around 11.15 the other couple got up to go, Graham helped the friends wife up, kisses and the crafty devil gave her tits a feel which she seemed to appreciate. Meanwhile D is being properly snogged by the friend and her tits are being groped, I thought, maybe not too late for some 4-some action? Alas no, they left.
Graham came back into the room and walked over to D who was standing by the sofa, gave her a huge hug, swung her around and kissed her; I assume the deal went well.
The last few buttons were undone, and her dress was draped over a stool. Just shoes again. She undressed him and as he stood there, she went onto her knees took off his trousers and took his cock and sucked him into her mouth. They were sideways on by the sofa, and I saw it all. She sucked him for quite a long time, (I usually got the excuse of jaw ache) but she saw it though and again I assume he came as his head went back and his hand rested on her head.
He lay her down on the carpeted floor in front of the sofa, kissed her whilst fingering her, again making a meal of her tits and those glorious nipples he and his friend had admired earlier, then kissed her all the down to her pussy/cunt/whatever. Very classy.
He came back up (presumably for air) and turned her over onto her front, parted her legs, knelt behind her, pulled the cheeks of her arse apart and put his cock to her pussy and slid into her. She lowered her head and shoulders and visibly pushed back. He energetically fucked her and again inserted his finger into her backside, she just kept the rhythm of the fucking going (I am definitely going to do this, maybe when she gets home).
As I’ve said she’s a lucky girl and is an easy cummer. He was clearly getting close and then he pulled out and came on her backside; I didn’t expect that. She fell flat onto the carpet.
He got to his feet went out of the room and returned with a flannel and towel and gently wiped her down. A nice touch, a proper gent. He still had a hard-on.
He made no attempt to have anal with her, again a surprise, as I don’t think she would have stopped him, in fact my impression was he could do whatever he likes with her. Perhaps an NRE chat as has been suggested.
He turned her onto her back, they kissed very gently for a while with more attention to her tits before he again lined up and fucked her hard but slowly on the floor. This time finishing and coming inside her. Huge hugging and caresses.
Then it was time to leave, Dawn wiped her pussy on the flannel and put her dress on, still looking beautiful but in need of a hairbrush, he came back in wearing a track suit, all kisses.

This was my cue. I made my way back to my car, absolutely freezing and quickly drove home. This time I was horny and excited but not anxious. She was obviously enjoying the experience, and I was getting into my stride. I could handle this.
I got home and filed my report to you. I’ll write again after D and I have reunited and she tells me of her adventure.

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Unread post by ocean » Sat Mar 25, 2023 10:29 am

Lazy Saturday afternoon discussion on the sofa, not really much to add as D’s version is virtually the same as I saw but the addition of conversation, which is great. I had to laugh as D came out with a few choice comments about (the wife) Wendy’s tits, loud, common, embarrassing and her suggestion in the ladies of perhaps some extras with the boys. D is such a snob; and I love her for it. Thursday next week’s phone call to arrange. All is right with my world, so far. So far.

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Unread post by ocean » Mon Mar 27, 2023 4:55 am

Sun 26th March. D got a phone call from one of her friends, would we like to form a four couple table for a charity do at a very nice hotel on Brighton sea front, lots of friends and people we knew would be there, black tie. Sounds great, yes, we’ll be there. When? Friday 31st March. Looking forward to that, we haven't been socialising together for ages. I must confess, I did chuckle, (silently of course), How do I explain this to Graham she asked? There is life outside of Graham, I said trying to be helpful, You’ve let him call the shots. I’d make the call sooner than later if I was you. She said they’d talked but he was very unhappy and not a little angry. Ooh, not helpful. D not happy about his attitude.

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Unread post by ocean » Mon Mar 27, 2023 4:57 am

Sun 26th March. D got a phone call from one of her friends, would we like to form a four couple table for a charity do at a very nice hotel on Brighton sea front, lots of friends and people we knew would be there, black tie. Sounds great, yes, we’ll be there. When? Friday 31st March. Looking forward to that, we haven't been socialising together for ages. I must confess, I did chuckle, (silently of course) that's put the cat among the pigeons, let's see how he deals with that. D said, How do I explain this to Graham she asked? There is life outside of Graham, I said trying to be helpful, You’ve let him call the shots. I’d make the call sooner than later if I was you. She rang and talked but he was very unhappy and not a little angry. Ooh, not helpful. D not happy about his attitude.

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Unread post by ocean » Mon Mar 27, 2023 5:05 am

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Unread post by superb101 » Mon Mar 27, 2023 6:53 am

Wow! We see a side of Graham that we dont like! He forgot the woman he's fucking not only has a life away from him, she has a husband, too. She might need to rethink that relationship.

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Unread post by hattersfan » Tue Mar 28, 2023 10:53 am

Any updates please? Pretty please!

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Unread post by ocean » Wed Mar 29, 2023 1:17 am

Hello hatters fan and superb101 and indeed anyone else out there.
Please accept my apology for the duplicate post, I was trying to delete it and got it wrong.
Anyway, all is going way better than I expected, but I'm afraid nothing is happening probably next week as we're at a function on this Friday with me (for a change) and friends at a charity do. Much to the chagrin of D's friend Graham, who has not covered himself in glory with his behaviour. Let him cool down and we'll see. Look forward to posting soon. Many thanks.

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Unread post by Gulfcpl » Wed Mar 29, 2023 2:04 am

superb101 wrote:
Mon Mar 27, 2023 6:53 am
Wow! We see a side of Graham that we dont like! He forgot the woman he's fucking not only has a life away from him, she has a husband, too. She might need to rethink that relationship.
I agree. Graham needs to tone down. He’s not a lifestyler. He’s just a player. No doubt this is not the first time he has wooed a married lady. Dawn needs to put him in his place or move on. His behavior is unacceptable.

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Unread post by ocean » Wed Mar 29, 2023 4:27 am

Thank you for your kind attention guys, I was beginning to get disheartened because no-one seemed interested in my story. After years of lurking and yearning, I finally have something to give back.
I must admit to being super excited and surprised so far.

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Unread post by WatchinginNJ » Wed Mar 29, 2023 4:33 am

ocean wrote:
Wed Mar 29, 2023 4:27 am
Thank you for your kind attention guys, I was beginning to get disheartened because no-one seemed interested in my story. After years of lurking and yearning, I finally have something to give back.
I must admit to being super excited and surprised so far.
Don't get discouraged by comments or lack there of. Look at the views. As of my comment you have 4529 views. The alternative is you have every other comment asking if you love being humiliated yet... it gets annoying.

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Unread post by leggysman » Wed Mar 29, 2023 6:33 am

I'm following and enjoying your story - especially now that you've turned things around. I tend not to comment unless I think I have something useful to say.
our hotwife story: viewtopic.php?f=5&t=67232
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Unread post by ocean » Wed Mar 29, 2023 7:12 am

Thank you guys , I had to laugh, I'm not into humiliation, just the dog house fairly regularly.

I don't know where to view the views, so to speak, any help please?

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