Our hotwifing story by a British northern couple

[Vixenhotwifelou]

I thought I'd start a little thread about our experiences and adventures in the hotwife lifestyle.

This is written from the hotwife's perspective - my husband is not on here but knows I am and also that I post.

I'm Lou and my husband is Bruce. We're both from the North of England (myself, the Lake District and Bruce the Northeast). We now live in Harrow, London. I travel the UK for work and and still have very close ties with the northwest of England regularly staying there for a few weeks at a time.

I was a late starter but soon discovered I loved sex and didn't always need an emotional connection to enjoy it.

In the 5-ish years prior to meeting my now husband, I really got into my stride, actively refusing relationships, keeping several on the go at once - I made sure they all knew about the existence of each other (but not exactly who the others were) so none of them could begin to think we were in a relationship or accuse me of "cheating".

Then I met my husband - sex was just explosive with him - we're massively compatible! But on top of that he's hilarious, sharp, quick witted, bright, can actually hold a conversation, we both fell for each other incredibly quickly.

He had done a bit of swinging in the past and he'd fucked a LOT of women but had grown bored. We never dabbled outside of our relationship but he'd been having a fantasy on and off of watching me fuck, knowing what a nympho I am. He sat on it for a while and then began talking to me about it - firstly, only when having sex then more and more.

When I finally realised he was serious, we then discussed it all in massive detail which eventually culminated in us agreeing to try dogging first.

The first time we went out was for a pre-arranged meet at the local dogging spot. We met the guy and I sucked him off as arranged. We got back in the car to go home and a guy appeared at the window - quick as a flash my husband said "she'll suck you off mate" - it was that little nudge I needed.... so I sucked him off too. And that was it - we've never looked back and since then we've dived in headfirst (when we haven't been in Covid lockdowns of course!).

[Pufferfish]

That's very hot. I can't wait to read more about your adventures since. There's nothing sexier than a nympho hotwife.

[Nothing2see]

From your writing you sound like a lovely person. We toured the south of England before we were married, from London to Lands End. We were there 2 weeks, and went wherever BBC1 said it was not raining that day. Best trip ever.

I am curious about "dogging spots,", as in the U.S. those seem to primarily be homosexual . How do you find out where they are?

Do please continue the telling of your adventures. You and Bruce sound fascinating. Cheers.

[Vixenhotwifelou]

That's very hot. I can't wait to read more about your adventures since. There's nothing sexier than a nympho hotwife.

Thanks! I'll make sure I post more then!

[Vixenhotwifelou]

From your writing you sound like a lovely person. We toured the south of England before we were married, from London to Lands End. We were there 2 weeks, and went wherever BBC1 said it was not raining that day. Best trip ever.

I am curious about "dogging spots,", as in the U.S. those seem to primarily be homosexual . How do you find out where they are?

Do please continue the telling of your adventures. You and Bruce sound fascinating. Cheers.

Thanks!
I can only speak for my local spot (I'm no expert!) - there's a lot of men that go there and I understand quite a lot of those are bi or bi-curious.
On our later outings there we've been the only female there (couple really but my husband doesn't play, just watches and records me) hence we've attracted a little crowd but that's a story for another time!
As for finding them, I spent ages trawling the internet and looking through forums etc - we've got a little hotlist now of spots we'd like to try. We've found out about some via our fabswingers profile too - we've mentioned it as something we like and have received PM's with info on spots.

[Vixenhotwifelou]

A pivotal night in our journey......

Again, a trip to our local dogging spot which took place about 6 months after we first started and the night where we'd decided I was ready to fuck.
My husband was ready to record footage (obviously only of guys who consented and also keeping their faces off the film) to document the occasion and add to our personal porn collection. Our new night vision camera was charged and ready to go!

But first, we'd arranged to meet a guy, one on one, in a quiet secluded lane so we could both check that we were OK with me getting fucked. Would my husband think it as sexy and hot as he believed? And would my worst fear of it feeling as though I were "cheating" present itself?

We arrived as arranged, excited and nervous...waited ages, sent a text and then finally concluded he wasn't coming. We almost went home but after psyching myself up for most of the day I realised just how much I wanted to experience this new sex, I wanted to show off to my husband and I was disappointed thinking that the build up had all been for nothing and our new experience wasn't going to happen.

So we made a spur of the moment decision to go to the dogging spot anyway - we promised to check in with each other constantly, checking that we were both getting what we'd imagined we would out of the experience.

We really needn't have worried.... within a couple of minutes of arriving a guy appeared at the window, I opened it and he reached in to grab and play with my boobs. I got out, started to suck him off and before long my husband had given him a condom which he was rolling down the length of his stiff cock.

Next thing, his cock was pushing into my pussy...... The first new one in around a decade - it was so hot, I could see my husband out the corner of my eye and he was encouraging the guy, telling him to fuck me harder how I like it.

In all, I played with 8 guys that night, 4 of whom fucked me, some very quickly, others lasted a little longer. To say we jumped in at the deep end is an understatement!

We called it a night after number 8 and jumped in the car, high on adrenaline, desperate to get our hands on each other! As soon as we got indoors, we started playing back the video and were all over one another! My husband is a power lifter - very strong, I'm really tall and statuesque we've always fucked hard yet there was a new level to the strength of our fucking that night!

[mystere]

What an amazing beginning - so glad you went for it after the no-show. How did you feel as the centre of attention for 8 horny strangers?

[Vixenhotwifelou]

What an amazing beginning - so glad you went for it after the no-show. How did you feel as the centre of attention for 8 horny strangers?

Felt incredible! Liberated, powerful, confident, slutty! A huge range of things, all positive and most of all, I was excited to do it again!

[solstice]

Great thread, how frequently have you had those sessions? Do you have to watch out for patrolling police?

[Vixenhotwifelou]

Great thread, how frequently have you had those sessions? Do you have to watch out for patrolling police?

Not that frequently - we mix it up with the type of meets. We're considering another one in the next couple of weeks but haven't made our minds up yet.
We've neither seen nor heard of the police showing up at our local spot although I understand they do turn up places. With it being in London, we figure they probably have bigger things to worry about like the murder rate and knife crime rather than a bunch of consenting adults in the woods!
There's a local spot where I stay in the NW England but I've been warned to stay away from there as police know and check - to put it in context, it's a very nice, quiet area with a low crime rate there....

[SilverStag]

.....on the other hand, you might meet a nice horny policeman...

[Vixenhotwifelou]

.....on the other hand, you might meet a nice horny policeman...

Now wouldn't that be handy?!!

[milehinbi]

Great thread. Always love tales from the UK!

[Megan28_Ww]

i see so many good stories here. I'm a littel jealous

[Vixenhotwifelou]

The Leap to Solo Playing

We only ever play in the hotwife scenario - it's never cuckold either - my husband explains it as like having a supercar that you might loan to someone for them to see how good it is. Then later, when it's returned, your sense of pride is so incredibly high hearing how much they enjoyed the loan and how amazing, fast, beautiful and powerful your car is....detecting their envy as they report back.

My husband doesn't play outside our marriage and since the start has always been with me whenever we've had one of our adventures.

Me playing solo is a fairly new step - the first time was end May this year. Like everything, we talked in great detail and then during the last week of May while I was away, my husband said "I want you to try it while you're away this week"!

Obviously on this site I'd been reading lots of post from verified hotwives who date and meet solo.... I'd already started to come around to wondering what that would be like, if I could do it...... Turns out all I needed was that little nudge again!

My first solo night, I went to a nearby town with two potentials lined up.......
Met the first guy for some fun in his van in a quiet countryside car park. Dressed in mini skirt, stockings etc, I sucked him off while he filmed me on my phone so I could send back photos and video clips to my husband afterwards.

The second guy turned out to be a no-show but I soon found a replacement in a nearby town.

One of my fears had been previously that I wouldn't feel my husband was involved of I were meeting solo - I needn't have worried - we were on the phone as I made my way to the meet, as soon s it finished and when the second guy didn't show we were back on the phone selecting a replacement together - it was such fun plotting and planning in our secret little world!

So now the floodgates have opened and I'm off the leash so to speak.... except when we're feeling BDSM kinky of course in which case I'm very happy to be leashed once more ......

[Whosbeensleeping]

Phew! Getting hot in here!

[Vixenhotwifelou]

Phew! Getting hot in here!

Roasting!

[SRKnight]

That's very hot. I can't wait to read more about your adventures since. There's nothing sexier than a nympho hotwife.

Thanks! I'll make sure I post more then!

Hot story! I was waiting to see where you were from as my wife is also from Northern England.

[Vixenhotwifelou]

Hot story! I was waiting to see where you were from as my wife is also from Northern England.

I'm from the Lake District originally, now live in Harrow, London with my husband but still spend a few weeks at a time up in the Lakes.

[Vixenhotwifelou]

Lunchtime Stress Relief

I'm not sure if I'm unusual in this but for me one of the most effective ways of relieving stress is through orgasm.......

Tough meeting? Excessive workload? Pure frustration? .... All reasons for me to seek out a toy at the end of a working day for a furiously fast and effective orgasm to reset my mind and attitude. I'll even confess to occasionally fitting one in between a never-ending stream of online meetings in the middle of the day!

Well the last few weeks have been a challenge, a toy really wasn't going to cut it and so last week I took full advantage of a guy who happened to be travelling through my area on his way north.....

We'd started messaging online last Tuesday evening, there seemed to be a spark on both sides. He was from the neighbouring county to where I've been staying, he told me he was travelling north the following day and asked if we could we meet for a social/icebreaker while he was en route.

Due to my time constraints, I confess I rarely do socials - I typically message for a good few days, set out ground rules etc. Then when a meet is arranged, it very quickly progresses to full-on fun, I've rarely got the time to mess around as it could be weeks until I'm back in the same location.

For some reason, last week I accepted but explained I wouldn't meet in town or somewhere in the general public - I'm currently staying in my childhood town, its one of those "everyone knows everyone" kind of places and the last thing I want to do is set tongues wagging......

I know a quiet layby up in the lanes not far from town and although in the open, hardly anyone goes there so we should be undisturbed.

So Wednesday lunchtime rolled round and I found myself, dressed in a mini skirt with no panties, heels and a low cut top, driving to meet a guy I'd been messaging for less than 24hrs!

I pulled up next to him, got out, said hello and got straight into his car...... My inner slut was well and truely released....... within a few minutes my legs were wide open and his fingers were on my clit swiftly followed by his fingers pushing deep into my pussy. He got on my G-spot pretty much straight away with more pressure than I'm used to - it felt incredible.

What followed was a fantastically intense 30-40mins exploring each other, revealing his very impressive cock, multiple orgasms, he found out how much I love nipple fun, I learnt how deeply he sighs as I suck his cock deep into my mouth. With the space constraints of his car and both of us being really tall, full sex would be nigh on impossible but it's safe to say we had a lot of fun.

And then just like that it was time to say goodbye, for him to leave and to continue his journey! I jumped back into my car, drove back and got straight to work feeling refreshed and focused with no-one being any the wiser.......except hubby of course who would soon be admiring the newest album in our personal porn collection.......

[Vixenhotwifelou]

A couple of weeks ago I was made a slightly indecent proposal that I couldn't say no to.....a guy I'd met before knew of a couple where they both wanted some separate play at the same time as each other.

So his proposal was, I met him at his place, we have a little one on one time first, then the couple would arrive. The first guy (let's call him Y) would go downstairs to meet them, send the husband (we'll call him H) upstairs to me while he entertained the wife downstairs.

Monday evening last week we had our evening of fun......
I dressed in a little black dress, with a plum coloured basque and thong underneath, finished with black stockings and heels - I sent my hubby a couple of pictures as I was getting ready so he could see what the other guys would soon be enjoying.

The night started in Y's bedroom, with Y teasing, stroking, licking me, exciting and preparing me for the arrival of H..... I was nervous but Y soon put me at ease and before long I was soooo turned on and wet!

The couple arrived on time, Y went down to greet them while I waited upstairs. Fairly soon after I could H start to make his way up the stairs. I could tell he was nervous before I saw him by the deep breaths he was taking almost like he was trying to psych himself up.

We met, hugged and chattered for a short time, I tried to put him at ease and made him laugh a couple of times.
I knew I was going to have to take the lead to make this happen - even though I've been described as insatiable, fun, confident etc, I still usually let the guy make the first move so this was going to be new territory.....

H complimented me saying I looked nice so I took the chance and asked if he wanted a more full view then stood in front of him so he could see the full length effect. Then I got a little bolder and asked him if he wanted to see what was underneath to which he nodded. I untied and then removed my dress keeping eye contact with him the whole time, a mischievous smile playing on my face.

H stood and took a step towards me, reached out and put his hands around my waist taking me, running his hands over my lingerie. I tugged a little at his clothing, my hands running over the smooth skin of his back...... Next minute he was stripping at a furious pace releasing his already hard cock!

I encouraged him to lay back on the bed and climbed between his legs and took him into my mouth never breaking eye contact. We took some videos like that - I looked straight into the camera lens as I swallowed him knowing that when my hubby watches these back it will look as though I'm making direct eye contact with him while sucking another man.

We swapped soon after and H proceeded to eat my pussy, removing my panties in the process. He was gentle and attentive and soon had me cumming. With a little encouragement he got a bit harder and faster! It felt so liberating to be directing and asking for how Iike it.

Pretty soon he was rolling on a condom, swiftly followed by sliding into me. He fucked me harder than expected in a few different positions while we got more pics and videos for my hubby.

When we were done, H went back downstairs to his wife and very soon after Y came back up the stairs to me. Y is very sensual and makes me feel so desired. He was soon between my legs licking and sucking on my pussy - he's very skilled and it was not long before another orgasm was building. He gave me several more intense orgasms - to the point where I was almost overwhelmed! One thing's for sure... I'll definitely not be leaving it so long before I see him again!

[mastiff]

It is great you are having such positive experiences

[Vixenhotwifelou]

It is great you are having such positive experiences

I really am! I love what we do, definitely unleashed my inner slut and am very proud of it too!

[mastiff]

It is great you are having such positive experiences

I really am! I love what we do, definitely unleashed my inner slut and am very proud of it too!

As you should be. No one should ever make you feel ashamed of your sexuality. No one has that right. It is one of the most foundational aspects of who you are and you should be allowed to glory in it.

[Vixenhotwifelou]

Woke up very excited, wet and horny this morning..... Been messaging a guy on and off for a while but never managed to get a time that suited us both.... Well today's the day we've finally agreed on.

My hubby and I have been discussing me having someone round while he's out at work (permanent night shift) sending him teasing pics while he's away and him coming home in the morning to find me freshly fucked.
We've never had someone round to ours before having usually met on neutral ground or at the guy's place.
I've had all this arranged for a couple of days and surprised him with it this morning!