How do you play?

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Question for hotwives: How do you play?

Hotwife/GF only plays with me present and that's the way she prefers it.
10
9%
Hotwife/GF has only played with me present but she is open to playing solo as well.
9
8%
Hotwife/GF has only played solo but she is open to me being present.
4
4%
Hotwife/GF has only played solo and that's the way she prefers it.
20
18%
Hotwife/GF has played both solo and with me present but prefers being solo
25
22%
Hotwife/GF has played both solo and with me present and prefers me being there.
20
18%
Hotwife/GF has played both solo and with me present and has no preference for either way
14
12%
None of the above. This is still just a fantasy.
10
9%
None of the above. This is not even a fantasy.
2
2%
 
Total votes: 114

Sub4her

How do you play?

Unread post by Sub4her » Sun Oct 04, 2020 8:40 am

A question for the hotwives. But their partners can also answer for them. Curious as to what everyone's dynamic is as well as preferences!
Last edited by Sub4her on Sun Oct 04, 2020 11:35 am, edited 2 times in total.

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Sophie
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Re: How do you play?

Unread post by Sophie » Sun Oct 04, 2020 8:58 am

Until I am confident that a lover is safe and sane, I have my husband present.

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Re: How do you play?

Unread post by 2inUPMichigan » Sun Oct 04, 2020 9:05 am

I never seem to fit exactly in poll options 🤦‍♀️

My answer would be:
"Hotwife only plays solo and that is the way we both want it"

It was a decision we made together. It would feel weird to vote "that is the way I want it" as his opinion played into the decision too.

Sub4her

Re: How do you play?

Unread post by Sub4her » Sun Oct 04, 2020 10:01 am

2inUPMichigan wrote:
Sun Oct 04, 2020 9:05 am
I never seem to fit exactly in poll options 🤦‍♀️

My answer would be:
"Hotwife only plays solo and that is the way we both want it"

It was a decision we made together. It would feel weird to vote "that is the way I want it" as his opinion played into the decision too.
Thank you for the feedback. ;) The maIn goal of the poll was to capture what the preference was for the hotwife regardless of how they actually play. So with that in mind I will change the wording slightly for the 1st and 4th choices from "wants" to "prefers". So hopefully this will help!

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Re: How do you play?

Unread post by Des 31 » Sun Oct 04, 2020 1:10 pm

As a rule, it's better for her when I'm not in the same room. Even better when she is at a guy's place.

Either way would work for me, but I prefer she gets it the way she prefers.
Our hotwife history from its beginning at viewtopic.php?f=5&t=50057

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Re: How do you play?

Unread post by Farmgirl » Sun Oct 04, 2020 1:48 pm

I pretty much, other than one time, play solo. I like it that way, and I love going home and telling my Number1 all about it!

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Re: How do you play?

Unread post by adamgunnauthor » Sun Oct 04, 2020 5:56 pm

Mary almost always plays with me present in an MFM, but has occasionally done a solo.

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Re: How do you play?

Unread post by jw_kk » Tue Oct 06, 2020 7:10 am

Our encounters vary based on KK's mood, and other factors. I participate in some form in probably 75% or so of the encounters, either directly, or as a passive voyeur. The remaining encounters KK conducts on a solo basis.

Of course, I prefer to participate, or at least be present. KK's comfortable going solo with a vetted and screened partner - pre-pandemic, she also traveled frequently for work, and almost always worked out some situation for a solo encounter during her trips.

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Re: How do you play?

Unread post by Iahotwifeshusband » Tue Oct 06, 2020 7:22 am

My sexy wife always prefers playing solo! She likes to focus on one man at a time. On rare occasions, she will treat me to a mfm threesome. However, if she had her way, her play would be a train where one guy pleases her at a time and there is another cock just waiting to be next. Once COVID slows down, we hope to make another trip to the Trapeze Club in Fort Lauderdale so she can find an endless supply of cocks for her to play with. I can't wait!

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Re: How do you play?

Unread post by Funtimecouple » Wed Oct 07, 2020 4:21 am

We only play when we are both present, other male(s), another couple or parties.

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Re: How do you play?

Unread post by toshare » Thu Oct 08, 2020 2:15 pm

Well, were kinda new to his, but she does have a date for Friday, its the first time shes made a date on her own. We dont know if they'll hit if off and have sex but if they do, it'll be the first time I wont be there. Were both kinda excited about it, as this is a new dynamic, well see if we like it if she does like him(and him her) and they have sex.

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