New and still figuring it all out

[Whosbeensleeping]

IndianaBound?

[2inUPMichigan]

IndianaBound?

very creative! And of course I like it

[Whosbeensleeping]

[BlackandKinky]

Oh My! I guess a change in location really does make a difference

I changed my location yesterday to a town in....Indiana! ,Yes we are planning on moving just a little bit south to Indiana

I have 4 or 5 men messaging me right now! Hehe
One of them I am definitely interested in

Gotta get back to chatting...yippee!!

hmm...how far from Chicago? I'll be around there in April.

[2inUPMichigan]

Oh My! I guess a change in location really does make a difference

I changed my location yesterday to a town in....Indiana! ,Yes we are planning on moving just a little bit south to Indiana

I have 4 or 5 men messaging me right now! Hehe
One of them I am definitely interested in

Gotta get back to chatting...yippee!!

hmm...how far from Chicago? I'll be around there in April.

We haven't moved yet, still figuring out the details.
Hoping to be within 3 hours of Chicago

[BlackandKinky]

Oh My! I guess a change in location really does make a difference

I changed my location yesterday to a town in....Indiana! ,Yes we are planning on moving just a little bit south to Indiana

I have 4 or 5 men messaging me right now! Hehe
One of them I am definitely interested in

Gotta get back to chatting...yippee!!

hmm...how far from Chicago? I'll be around there in April.

We haven't moved yet, still figuring out the details.
Hoping to be within 3 hours of Chicago

3 hours is a bit far but not as far apart as we are now. Can I PM you when I'm in town?

[4herpleasure89]

You can definitely remove any kind of work connection.

And although in the past I entertained the idea of playing with men from OHW on 2 separate occasions (oops - that might not have been public knowledge) 🫢 neither one was a good fit when it came to evaluating whether or not to move forward.

I have occasionally considered playing with women, but honestly I'm having fun playing with men and haven’t explored all my options yet, so no need to look elsewhere yet

The FF play sounds intriguing. My wife had FF experience last year at desire resorts and it left us both wanting more. She just needs the right woman.

[GirthBrooksBBC]

I'm in Indiana and looking for a hotwife to play with. What part of Indiana are you located?

[2inUPMichigan]

I never intended to stop posting on this thread for so long, but sometimes other roles in life take priority.

My siblings and I supporting each other through this first year without both of our parents has been challenging at times.
I have had some ups and downs with my health, but I am hopeful that I could soon have some answers
Our plans to move haven’t been going smoothly as we are having a difficult time finding what we want

I am also trying to be supportive to H whose girlfriend died a couple months ago. We had been talking about meeting prior to that happening but of course those plans are on hold. Even if his body is willing I don't want him to have any regrets. When he is ready, we will have an awesome time

I have not pursued anyone else since I have no idea the timeline for us moving. Could be 2 months, could be a year. I don't want a just for now FWB, I want someone I can build trust with.

I admitted to myself recently that I feel unfulfilled when I am not playing. There is part of me that is missing and I really miss her.

Being disabled so much in my life revolves around what I can't do . But when it comes to sex I feel alive and whole, able-bodied.

So could I ever see myself stopping? Not unless I physically can't anymore!

Looking forward to whenever my next play date happens and then moving and the search for new FWB'S

Thank you to those who still follow my story which has been a lot more talk than action lately.

[Mr1SexyGILF]

I’m sorry this has been a challenging season in your life. I do hope and pray you find the perfect new home soon, the move goes as smoothly as possible, and when you are ready, you connect with the right playmate(s).

In the meantime, Thank You for all the time and effort invested in keeping OHW functioning smoothly.

Mr GILF

[rascalnvixen]

2UP, this is real life!!! Not everything can be planned and scheduled. I find you to be an amazing woman who is sexy and loving for all your "friends", all two of them!! Seriously, you are a strong woman (which I do prefer) and you don't take or give and BS. Things do have a way of working out usually for the best or we make the best of what we have to deal with. I have followed your story from shortly after I arrived here and I plan to do just that in the future!! Keep your eyes open and good things will happen for you and hubby!!!!

Rascal

[Lookingforadventure]

I have no doubt that once this stage has passed and you are settled in your new space, you will find plenty of fine gentlemen to choose from. Then the fun will be deciding, what exactly is 2intheUP looking for? Maybe that will have changed too. I look forward to you relating that discovery. In the meantime, hugs to you on all this transition.

[Farmerj]

2UP, I wish you the best in you new journey and hope you find your destination your looking for. Life always throws us curve balls when we are trying to hit home runs. Keep your head up and you be fine!

[2inUPMichigan]

H contacted me to let me know he thinks he is ready to meet up. He sounds much better now, more balanced and not as overwhelmed in his grief.

Now I have to decide if I am in a good place to meet (schedule & health).

Because of medication changes I have gained some weight since I last saw him and am uncomfortable with it. 🫣 More so than he would be

I want my confidence to be "there" so that I am relaxed and can dive into the deep end, which is my usual approach. When I play I am all in! I don't want to half ass it.

He doesn't know it yet but there is a chance that it could be our last time together if we sell our house. If that is the case I want to make it a very memorable event

I know, a lot of pressure!

Thanks for all your support!

My OHW family has been there with me since just a few months after hubby brought up the subject and I appreciate you traveling along with me on this sometimes very bumpy journey.

[Farmerj]

Please don't let your weight get into your head, A woman's beauty is more than a number on a scale. I think woman worry to much about there weight just as men worry to much about the size of there dick. Men love curves at least this one does and you will be just fine 2UP. Let your self go and enjoy as time is too short to worry about things.

Peace

[daveandjan]

Taken us a while to get thru this but what a great thread.

[2inUPMichigan]

Please don't let your weight get into your head, A woman's beauty is more than a number on a scale. I think woman worry to much about there weight just as men worry to much about the size of there dick. Men love curves at least this one does and you will be just fine 2UP. Let your self go and enjoy as time is too short to worry about things.

Peace

Thanks I needed that pep talk!

[2inUPMichigan]

Taken us a while to get thru this but what a great thread.

You made it through all 81 pages
Thanks for hanging in there it has certainly been a roller-coaster experience.


September will be Our 25th wedding anniversary
My 5th Hotwife anniversary

And the 1st anniversary of the death of my Dad (Mom was a couple weeks ago)

Not sure if I want to try meeting up with H in August before all that? Or if I will need not only a physical/sexual but an emotional release in September?

Some impact play + hot marathon sex = bliss and no worries or stress in my head

Oh, whoops! Starting to ramble again!

[rascalnvixen]

2UP, let me speak totally honest with you. Don't worry about some additional weight, he surely will not!! If he is like me, it's all about the woman's personality, her humor, her sensual being that is what makes a great sex partner!!!!! If I had a chance to be with you for a night, it would be a totally fantastic night of sexual excitement, even if you looked like a beach ball!!!!!!! It isn't about your body, it is about who you are, and you are wonderful!!!!! You are a very exciting woman. I'd love the chance to be with you!!! As far as this time being the last time.... I wouldn't bet on that either!! You may be moving away from your current location, but you won't be so far away that H wouldn't be willing to drive a couple hundred miles to snuggle and play with you again!!!! And I'm sure he could do that several times a year!!!!!!

Don't be so hard on yourself! Let H and me get the hard part done for you!!!!

Rascal

[Farmerj]

2UP, let me speak totally honest with you. Don't worry about some additional weight, he surely will not!! If he is like me, it's all about the woman's personality, her humor, her sensual being that is what makes a great sex partner!!!!! If I had a chance to be with you for a night, it would be a totally fantastic night of sexual excitement, even if you looked like a beach ball!!!!!!! It isn't about your body, it is about who you are, and you are wonderful!!!!! You are a very exciting woman. I'd love the chance to be with you!!! As far as this time being the last time.... I wouldn't bet on that either!! You may be moving away from your current location, but you won't be so far away that H wouldn't be willing to drive a couple hundred miles to snuggle and play with you again!!!! And I'm sure he could do that several times a year!!!!!!

Don't be so hard on yourself! Let H and me get the hard part done for you!!!!

Rascal

Rascal said it best, You are beautiful woman, there is more than just a Body it's about the package. Be positive. Every person at times doubts themselves but you can do this. Be strong and you will have lots of adventures ahead you!

[daveandjan]

Taken us a while to get thru this but what a great thread.

You made it through all 81 pages
Thanks for hanging in there it has certainly been a roller-coaster experience.


September will be Our 25th wedding anniversary
My 5th Hotwife anniversary

And the 1st anniversary of the death of my Dad (Mom was a couple weeks ago)

Not sure if I want to try meeting up with H in August before all that? Or if I will need not only a physical/sexual but an emotional release in September?

Some impact play + hot marathon sex = bliss and no worries or stress in my head

Oh, whoops! Starting to ramble again!

Sorry to hear about your Mom and Dad. We lost a son 2 years ago and Jan lost her mom 2 days after our son died. I understand the emotions and the need to find some sort of release. Stress is a killer and finding a release is key to surviving grief and misery. We're cheering for you. Jan and I had a long conversation in the pool yesterday about the thing we have read on here, specifically your story and Lexi's. It was a great talk and we so appreciate the shared stories. It helps tremendously.

[Farmerj]

I would have loved a forum like this to talk with people when I lost my parents, I still carry emotional pain. I am sorry for your loss 2UP I feel your pain as I lost both my parents and now my sister. And Dave and Jan to lose a son and mother back to back is so heart breaking. Life is hard , pain is real bu time does not stop. That is why I admire many of you here, you have an outlet , a way to for a short period even let go enjoy be free.

[2inUPMichigan]

Losing family close together is very difficult.
So sorry for your loss Dave and Jan

My parents died 7 weeks apart because my Dad couldn't bear to be apart from her. He stopped eating so that he could be with her again. She was always "It" for him. But the thought of facing life without her and dealing with the added burden of having Lewy Body Dementia was more than he could take. I made sure he knew that we were all OK with his decision so he could rest in peace.

[2inUPMichigan]

An interesting conversation I had with Mom last summer.

We were talking about her Oma (grandmother) and the fact that she had at least 1 child that might not have been fathered by her husband
She told me that her Opa was "not a nice drunk" and she didn't blame her Oma one bit for "finding a bit of happiness of her own".

I wondered in that moment if my sister had told her about some of the choices that I have made in life? Or if she had overheard something and had some idea what her daughter was up to? Just in case I told her Thank you for telling me.

I like to think in that moment that I got Mom's nod of understanding

Hmm, maybe I take after my great-grandmother? (except for the baby part)

[rascalnvixen]

There you go, 2UP!!! It isn't your fault... it's in your genes!!!! Like Great Oma, like YOU!! I know you are having tough times but a little humor here and there is the best I can offer to you. You are in my thoughts when it comes to losing parents, I'm an orphan now too.

Rascal