I need to write and hopefully get people to respond. Long Sorry.

[willingtoo]

Sex last night was pretty intense and focused on the possibility of another encounter with Frank. Still no definite decision, but I would be surprised if he said we were done. He gets insanely turned on having sex and fantasizing about Frank "Fucking Me."

Another gloomy day so we are just going to "Hang" together. Mike has a couple little house projects that he wants to get to and I am going to clean my closet.

One of the big problems with my closet is that I have an unbelievable number of shoes. The category that is the most ridiculous are the "Dressy Evening Heels" Mike loves me to wear them when I "Model" for him but I rarely wear them. I'm guessing (I will accurately count them later) I have 30 pair in that category alone. I'll never wear most of them outside the house and Mike has about 5 favorite pair that I usually wear for my little shows. The rest just sit there collecting dust and taking up closet room. Including flip flops, I bet I have over or close to 100 pair. My closet is big, but not that big.

The point is I will (again) try to get Mike agree to throw some them out or sell on like Ebay. Some of them cost over $100/pair and have been worn only a few times here in the house. Some I think I tried on to show Mike and never put them on again. He'll spend almost any amount if he decides they make my feet look sexy. I'm guessing there are close to $3,000 in dressy evening heels alone.

The last time I tried to get him to part with some, he had me put them on and decide which he didn't like as much.

After showing him 5 or 6 pair, he got so turned on that we ended up having sex. That's all we accomplished.

[stillcanhang57]

We are listening to music and I asked him to play the "Tantric Sex Music" that we find sooo sexy. During the time with Frank it played the entire time. Mike and I discovered it a year ago or more. I am really into my senses especially during sex. Music, aromas, room temperature and lighting all have an effect on me and Mike too. Mike said it sounds like it should be called "Your Wife Fucking Another Man" music. I said my title would be, "Being Fucked by a Dominant man" music!

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Carrie

Carrie and Mike. A few questions if you don't mind.
Carrie, do you occasionally masturbate Mike with your feet around his cock? Ever to completion? Are you limber enough with the help of yoga, that you can bring your toes in contact with your vagina? Carrie have you ever found yourself sexually attracted to another woman's feet?

Mike, Carrie uses alot of exciting adjectives when describing her fuck session with Frank, his amazing cock, bis amazing sexual talent . She's repeatedly state that she loves that he's a domineering man. Does that make you feel a sense that you have missed something are can not provide it?

When you now play the tantric music, that you guys shared before Frank, Carrie, are you now mentally recreating the night with Frank in your head each time and Mike does it still create the same sexual feelings that it did before Frank?

As to the couple of questions you asked about our experience.
I have been fortunate in that both my ex-wife and my current SO have always played together. That I am aware of an aside from ex affair. Both have had strong exhibitionism desires that match perfectly with my voyeur kink. Guess I have a type. So when we play with another, those little electrical charges are like mini orgasms. She loves them. I on the other hand have to suppress them. Sucks to get to a play night and then cum just minutes into play. Lucky I have an attentive partner and she knows the signs and what to do to control them. It still happens occasionally but I have been blessed with a short recovery time and can just excuse myself for a few minutes.

Mike, I can honestly say that there's nothing more visually, emotionally and physically exciting in this kink then watching your SO get fucked from behind while she awkwardly tries to suck your cock. Watching her suck or attempt to, her own nipples while on her back with ither guy fucking her is a close second. My problems always happen ehen during these moments she likes to look me straight in the eyes and whisper or mouth that she loves me or thank you. She knows its a trigger and I have accused them of doing it to end play early.

Frank took my foot and used it for a "Footjob" I described it in my account of the first date. He did it exactly the way Mike does so I knew, and Mike confirmed that he told Frank how to do it. He (Mike and Frank) grabs a foot with both hands, one hand around my toes and the other around my ankle and rubs his cock on the inside of my arch where the skin is very soft. Mike uses lubricant but has only cum on my foot maybe twice. Mike likes "Footjobs" but doesn't ask for them often. The only thing I like is seeing large masculine hands controlling my foot and using it for sexual pleasure. My foot looks small in their hands almost like a little girl's foot. Almost like a "Foot Rape"

Don't know if I can touch foot to Vagina but I am pretty flexible and if it can be done, I probably can.

I am not into male or female feet but I am aware of mine and other women since I have been with Mike.

Frank is very secure in his masculinity. He knows what turns me on with Fantasies (and Frank type guys) is the domineering, assertive and controlling type of man. We have talked about this many times. Those are not the qualities I want in a husband. Frank is like an actor in our Fantasy/Reality Drama. Like a "Prop". A lot of guys could play that role, but there is only one Mike. It doesn't bother him that he is not like my fantasy men. Mike is masculine to me in a good kind of way and he know that for fact.

The Tantric Sex music is more about me. To me it is exotic, erotic and primitive and feeds into my submissiveness. It makes me feel like I am in a primitive sexual ritual in an exotic location and I am the focus of a man or men who want to have me. When I hear that music I am into my submissiveness not a certain guy. So when we played it yesterday, It made me feel like dancing or posing for Mike and making him want me.

Once again thank you Carrie for your openness and sharing your adventure with Mike here.
English teacher? Man am I in trouble!
You could probably tell we, SO and I , were attempting to get Mike engaged in this conversation with questions about his feelings and solo play. Sorry, wasn't trying to hijack your posts.
I have used SO feet to completion but I used both feet while she applied pressure. She openly admitts it's not her thing.

Totally understand not wanting to put pics on the web. Way to much risk involved. We do video some of our play on occasions but it always stays in our possession and its only because my SO enjoy watching themselves preform. Nothing is saved very long. Have a couple of gems that we use for masturbation when either of us travelling solo.

[willingtoo]

Only a few of you have commented on my writing and that's fine. But I'd like to hear from more of you and what you like or dislike about my writing.

Writing here is cathartic for me. I have always loved to express myself and get my thoughts on paper by writing. I even won a few awards for writing in HS and College.

I can say and express things here that I can't discuss with anyone in the world but Mike. Even my closest friends know very little of our private sex life. Mike for sure wants nobody to know about his "Footsie Love" and this Hot Wife thing.........I'd die if anyone knew.

So thanks to you guys that have posted and said you enjoyed my writing, but It would be nice to hear some positive or helpful criticisms from more of you.

Carrie

[stillcanhang57]

Carrie are you looking for advice or criticism about your writing or your exploration of the Hotwife kink?

[willyo]

No criticism here. You have a wonderful way of telling your story. You do a great job of describing the atmosphere without going overboard on the descriptions. I really do not see anything that you need to change, at all.

[Rag51top]

You mentioned a different feeling when Frank entered you.

One of the things my wife loved about being shared was the different feeling she would get with each new guy she had sex with. Everything from their aftershave to the differences each had while making out before sex.

While most were in the 5.5" to & 7" range she said anticipation of a strange cock getting ready to take her really got her going. She equated it to when she was in High School and going out on a date with someone new. Only with sharing or swapping she didn't have to wonder if she was going to have to fend some "handsy" guy off. Quite the opposite she loved knowing that before the night was over she was going to have that "tingling" feeling of a new cock as it slipped into her.

There were even a couple of (guy) friends of the first couple we swapped with that found out what it was like to have a horny hotwife decide that she wanted their cock for an evening. Both were 19 year old Iranian college freshmen one of whom worked with our swap friend. He befriended all 3 of the guys and Jean got the two that didn't have a girl friend in bed within 6 months of meeting them for the first time.

So now that you have broken your "maiden" in being a hot-wife it will get easier for both of you and at some point I still encourage the two of you to try a MFM. Even if Mike only plays at the start then you go off to the bedroom with the other guy. I really thing that having Mike watch you make out with someone else (he likes watching you dancing with someone else) will lesson his anxiety.

Most of all have fun.

[willingtoo]

Carrie are you looking for advice or criticism about your writing or your exploration of the Hotwife kink?

Just honest criticism, advice or praise (who doesn't like praise). Am I writing with too much detail or too often? (I post a lot of stuff) Are there questions about things I have not described or discussed clearly enough? Do I include too much about Mike's love of feet (hard to do since it's such a big part of mike"s turn on)? Are there things I dwell on too much or repeat too much.

I'm used to honest constructive criticism since I did so much writing in HS and college. That's how you improve your writing.

[Fotodom]

Am I writing with too much detail or too often?

No. Please keep going. This,you, it's all fascinating.

[wagonmaker1]

hello, Carrie, i'm Paul. i put up a post a few days ago. if it sounded negative, i apologize. i asked why Mike would want you to have sex with another man, if he is insecure. i, for one,should not ask that question. my wife is a hot wife. she has been since Sept 17 of last year., & i love it. she is older than u, she is 65 & she has, i like to say a lover, she likes to say bf. he is 55, he is 10 years younger than her. he has been to our house & had sex with her twice, the last time was Nov 26 last year. in fact he is coming here tonight about 7:30 central time. i always watch, i have to see them together. believe me Mike, if u get the chance to watch, man do it, to me it is the hottest thing i have ever seen. to see my wife suck another man's cock is unbelievable. & when he penetrates her it is over the top. i love watching them 2 together they both do oral on each other. it is like watching a porn movie , with my wife as the star. to me there is nothing hotter than to see my wife make another man happy, & in turn he makes her happy. i hope u do watch Carrie with Frank next time, i think u will love seeing her being made so happy with another man. i'm sure u know that u & her will be together always, & that her with him is only temperary. she belongs to u for always. enjoy the ride buddy i do. oh & btw today is our wedding anniversary. your wriitng is so great, a person doesn't want to stop reading.

[aguy4pleasure]

Carrie,

I love your story and your writing. I appreciate your openness and honesty not only about what you are doing, but, how it feels to you and how you feel about it as it happens. I love hearing the woman's perspective on sex others.

As more of an "appreciator" of the lifestyle than an active participant, I don't feel like I can offer much in terms of the "does" and "don'ts" of what you and Mike do specifically. I do, however, appreciate hearing about the love you share for one another and how that love fosters your openness to others. I also love hearing how your adventures with others help bring the two of you closer to one another.

I also appreciate the deliberation you share about what person or persons with whom you might want to be sexual.

Finally, I find you a very good writer. Please, don't give it up.

Good luck and best wishes to you Mike and your friends present and future.

[willingtoo]

Sex last night was pretty intense and focused on the possibility of another encounter with Frank. Still no definite decision, but I would be surprised if he said we were done. He gets insanely turned on having sex and fantasizing about Frank "Fucking Me."

Another gloomy day so we are just going to "Hang" together. Mike has a couple little house projects that he wants to get to and I am going to clean my closet.

One of the big problems with my closet is that I have an unbelievable number of shoes. The category that is the most ridiculous are the "Dressy Evening Heels" Mike loves me to wear them when I "Model" for him but I rarely wear them. I'm guessing (I will accurately count them later) I have 30 pair in that category alone. I'll never wear most of them outside the house and Mike has about 5 favorite pair that I usually wear for my little shows. The rest just sit there collecting dust and taking up closet room. Including flip flops, I bet I have over or close to 100 pair. My closet is big, but not that big.

The point is I will (again) try to get Mike agree to throw some them out or sell on like Ebay. Some of them cost over $100/pair and have been worn only a few times here in the house. Some I think I tried on to show Mike and never put them on again. He'll spend almost any amount if he decides they make my feet look sexy. I'm guessing there are close to $3,000 in dressy evening heels alone.

The last time I tried to get him to part with some, he had me put them on and decide which he didn't like as much.

After showing him 5 or 6 pair, he got so turned on that we ended up having sex. That's all we accomplished.

My prediction came true. I asked Mike to help me find some shoes he could agree to throw or give away. He started to pick out shoes he might be willing to part with and I tried them on. They were all the dressy evening heels which of course make my feet look sexy.

He started to get aroused of course and we ended up not picking any to throw away. We ended up in the bedroom for quick sex and I still have 30 pair of dressy Heels !

( I just showed this post to him and he laughed)

I just told him that if he won't part with any, he could keep them in his closet. He agreed to keep some in his closet. He'll never throw them away

[willingtoo]

You mentioned a different feeling when Frank entered you.

One of the things my wife loved about being shared was the different feeling she would get with each new guy she had sex with. Everything from their aftershave to the differences each had while making out before sex.

While most were in the 5.5" to & 7" range she said anticipation of a strange cock getting ready to take her really got her going. She equated it to when she was in High School and going out on a date with someone new. Only with sharing or swapping she didn't have to wonder if she was going to have to fend some "handsy" guy off. Quite the opposite she loved knowing that before the night was over she was going to have that "tingling" feeling of a new cock as it slipped into her.

There were even a couple of (guy) friends of the first couple we swapped with that found out what it was like to have a horny hotwife decide that she wanted their cock for an evening. Both were 19 year old Iranian college freshmen one of whom worked with our swap friend. He befriended all 3 of the guys and Jean got the two that didn't have a girl friend in bed within 6 months of meeting them for the first time.

So now that you have broken your "maiden" in being a hotwife it will get easier for both of you and at some point I still encourage the two of you to try a MFM. Even if Mike only plays at the start then you fo off to the bedroom with the other guy. I really thing that having Mike watch you make out with someone else (he likes watching you dancing with someone 3 else) will lesson his angziety.

Most of all have fun.

Thank you for your response Rag51top. I want to write you a response you deserve but I can't write now. Please be patient and I will write to you.

Carrie

[willingtoo]

Am I writing with too much detail or too often?

No. Please keep going. This,you, it's all fascinating.

Thanks for your response. Feel free to pm me or write here anytime. I appreciate it.

Carrie

[willingtoo]

Carrie,

I love your story and your writing. I appreciate your openness and honesty not only about what you are doing, but, how it feels to you and how you feel about it as it happens. I love hearing the woman's perspective on sex others.

As more of an "appreciator" of the lifestyle than an active participant, I don't feel like I can offer much in terms of the "does" and "don'ts" of what you and Mike do specifically. I do, however, appreciate hearing about the love you share for one another and how that love fosters your openness to others. I also love hearing how your adventures with others help bring the two of you closer to one another.

I also appreciate the deliberation you share about what person or persons with whom you might want to be sexual.

Finally, I find you a very good writer. Please, don't give it up.

Thanks aguy for your kind response. I will respond but can't write now. Please be patient and I will get back to you'

Carrie










Good luck and best wishes to you Mike and your friends present and future.

[willingtoo]

hello, Carrie, i'm Paul. i put up a post a few days ago. if it sounded negative, i apologize. i asked why Mike would want you to have sex with another man, if he is insecure. i, for one,should not ask that question. my wife is a hot wife. she has been since Sept 17 of last year., & i love it. she is older than u, she is 65 & she has, i like to say a lover, she likes to say bf. he is 55, he is 10 years younger than her. he has been to our house & had sex with her twice, the last time was Nov 26 last year. in fact he is coming here tonight about 7:30 central time. i always watch, i have to see them together. believe me Mike, if u get the chance to watch, man do it, to me it is the hottest thing i have ever seen. to see my wife suck another man's cock is unbelievable. & when he penetrates her it is over the top. i love watching them 2 together they both do oral on each other. it is like watching a porn movie , with my wife as the star. to me there is nothing hotter than to see my wife make another man happy, & in turn he makes her happy. i hope u do watch Carrie with Frank next time, i think u will love seeing her being made so happy with another man. i'm sure u know that u & her will be together always, & that her with him is only temperary. she belongs to u for always. enjoy the ride buddy i do. oh & btw today is our wedding anniversary. your wriitng is so great, a person doesn't want to stop reading.

Thanks Paul. I will respond when I can. Can't write at the moment. You can pm me anytime or contact
me here.

Carrie

[viking43]

I'm a Dane, and my English skills are not good enough to judge your language, but I like your writing style and the way you tell your story - it's easy to read and understand, detailed but only when relevant. I think you are a very good writer

In my opinion, you are doing this exactly the way it should be done and for exactly the right reasons - in fact it's one of the most perfect beginnings I have ever read about here. I think you have a very good understanding of the balance that's needed for this to work, so if you can keep on doing it this way, and avoid overdoing it, you and your husband can have a lot of sexy fun with it in the future without too much risk of destroying your marriage

[willingtoo]

We are watching TV (Netflix) and Mike just asked me to put my feet in his lap. He looked at me and smiled then put the ankle bracelet on my ankle.

Decision made !

Carrie

[stillcanhang57]

We are watching TV (Netflix) and Mike just asked me to put my feet in his lap. He looked at me and smiled then put the ankle bracelet on my ankle.

Decision made !

Carrie

Interesting. So do you think you guys will do anything different next time? Will you consider having Mike inthe house or actually involved? If not would you consider at least an audio recording for Mike?

[Guhunkadorn]

We are watching TV (Netflix) and Mike just asked me to put my feet in his lap. He looked at me and smiled then put the ankle bracelet on my ankle.

Decision made !

Carrie

Outstanding....love your story.

[Rag51top]

Glad to hear Mike put the ankle bracelet on for you.

Once I get on my PC I’ll detail our beginning in the lifestyle ( I couldn’t believe how easily Jean agreed)
I’ll try to explain my feelings on that first night.

[cpeater]

I think your story-telling is strong and strikes a good balance between detail and pacing. I love detailed stories with some suspense, which you have definitely given us. I wish I had the patience to write out some of the adventures my wife and I have had with such skill as you have demonstrated. Thank you!

[Mr ablondemilf]

Damn hot story Carrie. Can't wait to read more. Thanks for sharing it with us. Have you ever considered posting a few photos in the hotties section? They don't have to be nudes, just something that we can put a face with a name. Photos are better than a thousand words.

Mike just said he would only send pictures that were already on the internet so would not harm anyone.

What say you people?

Do what you feel is best for you and Carrie. People here like to put a name and body together, makes is seem more genuine and less fake. However, you would not be the first to refuse to post photos on the internet. I've posted my wife's photos all over then internet but our situation was such that if outed it would have not affected our lives or jobs. I understand that everyone is not in that situation. You sir, have to do what's best for the two of you. Thanks for sharing your stories with us. I look forward to more adventures.

[willingtoo]

Good Morning Guys !

First I want to thank all of you who posted. Mike read them too. They were all encouraging and made us feel that we are on the right track and doing it for the right reasons and the right way. There were so many, I'm not sure I will have time to respond at any length to all of them. I will try but time is the issue. Just know that we read and appreciate each one.

Also Mike says he is ready to contribute to the conversation here. He thinks, especially after reading your comments, that he feels something in common with you guys and that talking with you will be cathartic for him as it is for me. Not sure when he will start but I'm glad he is willing.


We talked after the "Bracelet Ceremony" and we are both ready to continue our adventure with Frank. Mike is going to contact him and set up a meeting time and place for them to discuss the specific "activities) and time for our next encounter.

I trust Mike to set the boundaries as to what Frank can and can't do. We both think it is more exciting if I don't know exactly what is going to happen. Mike would never allow something that he knows would upset me. I think this time will involve some "Light Bondage" (as I like to call it) because he mentioned it when we finished last Tue. night.

For me, this is a great way to explore my submissiveness. I've always had submissive fantasies even when I was young. Not all were about being submissive, but many of them were. Right now it's about defining what I WON'T do rather than what I am willing to do. But Mike knows my limits and would never allow Frank to go beyond.

None of the men I had sex with before Mike tried to be dominant with me nor did I encourage them to be. The only experience I have had is role play with Mike and that was fun, but not the real thing. Mike is pretty good at playing the Dom, but it is no substitute for the real thing.

I know some aspects of BDSM are repulsive to me and I can't see me even trying them because they gross me out so bad. But how far I will go is something I am excited about exploring. The only experiences I have had are my fantasies and role play with Mike. Oh yea, I loved "50 Shades of Grey."

Frank is no more than a "Prop" in our little fantasy/Reality play. I like him as a person, but he is not the type I would choose as a lover. We did have a couple nice talks, but I only see him as a nice guy that is helping us out.

We have received a lot of great advice here. One thing is that it should be about sex and sex only. Being as outgoing as I am, I probably spent more time with Frank on a personal level not realizing how dangerous that is. We want it to start almost right away, and end the encounter when the sex ends.

We would have made a lot of mistakes.

One thing both of us are surprised about is that Frank (the right guy) showed up just as you guys advised to stay away from the guy at work. It moved along so fast that we are both surprised.

It all started about 6 years ago and took this long to get there. But once the decision was made to do it the first time with the guy at work to now has been super fast. like I said in an earlier post, right time, right place and right guy all came together.

Have to get ready for work. Not sure when Mike will start talking to you guys, but his work situation is such that he can use a personal computer and has a work schedule that will allow him to write here.

Carrie

[stillcanhang57]

Thanks for the update Carrie. Wow, one adventure and straight to BDSM play. When you and Mike were talking about all of this before Frank, was BDSM always the end goal? Have the two of you discussed aspects such as denial, collars, submission outside of play?
Still no response in regards to , Mike's orginal desires, of Mike being involved?

[willingtoo]

Thanks for the update Carrie. Wow, one adventure and straight to BDSM play. When you and Mike were talking about all of this before Frank, was BDSM always the end goal? Have the two of you discussed aspects such as denial, collars, submission outside of play?
Still no response in regards to , Mike's orginal desires, of Mike being involved?

I have a little time before I leave for work so I checked in and saw your post.

No, BDSM was not the end goal. Frank asked me if I was open to a little "Restraint" and that's what started it. Actually we have watched some BDSM porn over the years, and I had NO desire to do any of what we watched.

Our submissive role play was mostly him being in control and me having no choice. We did try something like BDSM because it fit Mike's "Footsie Love" We did it twice It's called "Falaka (sp?). I lay on my stomach and he tied my feet to the bottom of the bed. All I could do was point or flex my toes. I could not move my feet any other way so there was no escaping (which I found sexy). He dropped candle wax on my feet, tickled them and used a light whip to slap them. There was only a little pain but I must admit, the slight pain was sexy.

Mike has never expressed the desire to watch. I did bring it up, but he said, "Not yet. I just want to be nearby and get all the details after."

Have to go

Carrie
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