How have your wife's orgasms changed since she became a hotwife?

Pinks Hubby · Unread post by **Pinks Hubby** » Mon Oct 09, 2017 12:27 am

I'm curious to see how the ability to orgasm and the intensity of orgasms have changed for your wife since you began hotwifing.

ErikaPeter · Unread post by **ErikaPeter** » Mon Oct 09, 2017 3:55 am

I was not quite sure whether the questions pertained to orgasms with my husband or with other men. In general, my orgasms have been easier and more intense with my boyfriends, especially if they are well endowed and skilled in bed. (Not all men with big cocks are good lovers.) I also usually have multiple orgasms with my boyfriends, which is less common with my husband. There has been some increase in ease and intensity of orgasms when I am with my husband, but only when we are discussing my boyfriends or when I am fantasizing being with them. I answered 1a and 2a.

oldgeneroushot · Unread post by **oldgeneroushot** » Mon Oct 09, 2017 4:55 am

Nellie and I have discussed this on many occasions! It still amazes both of us at her new easy orgasms and the intensity! We attribute it somewhat to the free feelings and relaxed enjoyment as well as the overall taboo feelings she still slightly harbors! Whatever the causes, we both love it! She is still a rare and infrequent squirter, however! And we have not isolated the cause of those! Need more in depth research!

Sheli86 · Unread post by **Sheli86** » Mon Oct 09, 2017 5:06 am

My wife is similar to Erika. Since starting HW a year ago, her libido is much much higher and orgasms are more frequent and intense with her lovers. With me, she loves to accommodate and please me and it’s always with stories of her recent sex sessions with her hung lover, and it’s always during her recollections of her bf that she cums. Super sexy to me.

Des 31 · Unread post by **Des 31** » Mon Oct 09, 2017 9:57 am

Pinks Hubby wrote:I'm curious to see how the ability to orgasm and the intensity of orgasms have changed for your wife since you began hotwifing.

I had to think about that awhile. I THINK but am not absolutely sure that her orgasms with me are less frequent since she began hotwifing. What makes it difficult to say with certainty is that her orgasms weren't as seismic or frequent anyway after a few years of marriage.

But her orgasms are certainly frequent and overwhelming with other guys. That isn't to say we don't enjoy sex together; we do, but familiarity over time takes away much of the emotions whe compared to when it was all new. That seems to be true with the guys she has been with too. With one exception, she doesn't fuck the same guys for long. The exception is a guy that has grown on her and she would find it difficult to break up with him. I haven't noticed any decline in their passion over the past two and a half years. (I just wrote up her ongoing experience with him under "The Next Guy Inside My Wife.")

~ Des

bradisalpha · Unread post by **bradisalpha** » Mon Oct 09, 2017 10:53 am

There is a strong psychological/mental part that comes out when a woman is with a new guy. It includes the excitement of being naughty and the excitement she felt when she began dating .. think back to when you first had sex !! It also lets her concentrate on the Sex and not having the pressures of her marriage, household, family and finances bogging her down. She is free for that small amount of time to actually enjoy herself and live out her sexual fantasies and desires with a non judgmental person. When a woman is able to let go this way her mind and body will respond sexually and she will have very strong orgasms that she would not normally have.

My thoughts...

Brad

txhwhubby · Unread post by **txhwhubby** » Mon Oct 09, 2017 11:34 am

I voted more intense. My wife has always been easy for me to get off. And she has always been multi orgasmic with me. I think that is due partly because of our comfort level as partly because I know her body and what buttons to push. She is not as multi with her boyfriends but she normally gets off at least twice with them. She always orgasms when a man cums inside her. It just sets her off. Also she likes to take a guys cum, make him cum really fast by squeezing her muscles and grinding into him. She gets off on the fact that she can make him cum before he wants to. She once made me cum twice back to back, before one ended another began. That was intense. I believe hers are more intense now due to her being naughty and she really cums hard when I eat her after she's been with a boyfriend. She is also squirting a lot more now too. Mostly with me, but with a boyfriend on occasion.

sextiescouple · Unread post by **sextiescouple** » Tue Oct 10, 2017 5:43 am

From the moment I met her, my ex was multiorgasmic. The night I met her, we woke up a guy in the next hotel room at 3:00 in the morning.

When she started seeing other guys, twenty years later, she still had all her skills.

metrohotwife · Unread post by **metrohotwife** » Tue Oct 10, 2017 6:47 am

My vote,,,, 1b no change I've always been fortunate enough to be able to orgasm easily. When I was younger I had an affair with a very experienced man and I found out then that I was multi orgasmic.

Next vote....2a... Definitely much more intense. I think it's a combination of a couple of things,,, the fact that I'm a hot wife and I'm acting outside what is normally considered acceptable, and also because I am doing it purely for physical pleasure I expect to come harder therefore I do.
I have no complaints about the orgasms I have with hubby Rob(And I have far more with him than anybody else).As others have said the best ones with him occur when talking about events with a boyfriend,,, it's better for him too,. but there's a lot of emotional stuff goes into an orgasm with Rob which in a way make them different and, in a way, more satisfying,,,,The feelings seem to linger long after the event. But from a purely physical point of view I have to say that the screaming, arching 3 foot of the bed, pulling me down from the ceiling ones have all been with a boyfriend.!!!!

Pinks Hubby · Unread post by **Pinks Hubby** » Sat Oct 14, 2017 3:03 am

bradisalpha wrote:It also lets her concentrate on the Sex and not having the pressures of her marriage, household, family and finances bogging her down. She is free for that small amount of time to actually enjoy herself and live out her sexual fantasies and desires with a non judgmental person.

My wife has used the same phrase "non judgmental" before, and I am not sure that I fully understand it. Do you think that she means a person who will not judge her for her sexual fantasies and desires?

nottscuck · Unread post by **nottscuck** » Sat Oct 14, 2017 3:07 am

Not sure it counts as a change in orgasms But she seems to have them with her lover , unlike with husband !!!

WimJansen · Unread post by **WimJansen** » Sat Oct 14, 2017 4:16 am

Yes and according to my wife it has to do a lot with feeling totally free.

nottscuck · Unread post by **nottscuck** » Sat Oct 14, 2017 4:52 am

Yes , she is doing it just for her own enjoyment , so I can see what you're saying .

I do my best but it ain't up to scratch evidently

carolinacuck · Unread post by **carolinacuck** » Fri Oct 20, 2017 2:13 am

More frequent and intense for C. We have been fortunate that she has had relationships with guys who really turn her on. After coming home from a marathon session at her favorite lover's hotel, she exclaimed "David made me cum three times this afternoon." She described each orgasm while I licked her pussy. David is a powerfully built man with a thick 7" cock. First her fucked her to an orgasm missionary style. Then she straddled him and rode his cock to another...and then she got number three while he was unloading in her from behind.

It seems to me the whole reason for the hotwife lifestyle is the lady's satisfaction...for C that has certainly be the case.

Bfb5 · Unread post by **Bfb5** » Sat Mar 07, 2020 4:54 pm

I'm the wife, after sharing with my husband how 2 of the men I had sex with made sure I had at least 1 orgasm. One interduced me to oral orgasams, and the other, in addition to giving me fabulous oral orgasms, also gave me orgasms massaging my clit with his cock filling my pussy. Love what the competitive nature has brought to our bed! He now makes sure i have an orgasams, sometimes to the point that i can't take it anymore, and have to stop him to allow me to recover. Not complaining!

iamweasel43 · Unread post by **iamweasel43** » Sat Mar 07, 2020 7:14 pm

My wife has always been a screamer and she orgasms very easily. That hasn't changed.
Her having a FB, for her, is more for her to have a little something different a handful of times a year.

Unread post by **magoo** » Sun Mar 08, 2020 6:28 am

I'm able to have them more often, and they are FAR MORE intense; I was loud before but I can be heard across the street now.

It is rare for me to orgasm with another partner, but love when I find one with which I do, but I am able to cum more often with my husband after I've been with another.

early-kink · Unread post by **early-kink** » Sun Mar 08, 2020 7:45 am

Very interesting results from the bar graph and from the ladies brave enough to post their answers.

Personally - I LOVE hearing the ladies' viewpoints and insights.

MMAN1 · Unread post by **MMAN1** » Sun Mar 08, 2020 3:43 pm

Husband if Bfb5 and way back then in our younger days we just had sex and hormones raged. I brought the thought of sharing her early on as it excited me for some strange reason.

After her second and third encounter outside our marriage she explained what other men had done and her reaction. After a few months of her telling me over several fuck sessions I realized I was not doing what I needed to satisfy her needs. Needless to say I keep her very happy now and she keeps me aroused reminding me how she fucked others and "cheated" on me several times.

MMAN1 · Unread post by **MMAN1** » Sun Mar 08, 2020 3:44 pm

Husband if Bfb5 and way back then in our younger days we just had sex and hormones raged. I brought the thought of sharing her early on as it excited me for some strange reason.

After her second and third encounter outside our marriage she explained what other men had done and her reaction. After a few months of her telling me over several fuck sessions I realized I was not doing what I needed to satisfy her needs. Needless to say I keep her very happy now and she keeps me aroused reminding me how she fucked others and "cheated" on me several times.

Cdncuck · Unread post by **Cdncuck** » Mon Mar 09, 2020 10:01 am

When we started many years ago, she had to work a bit to orgasm. She liked sex and loves men but she was inexperienced.

Not too long after getting into this, she came easily, often and they were way more intense.

Minnhotwife · Unread post by **Minnhotwife** » Mon Mar 09, 2020 10:07 am

My wife's orgasms are much more intense than before we opened up our marriage.

She also had harder orgasms when we talk about her lovers while having sex. It's really hot and erotic when my wife shakes and bucks as I talk about other guys fucking her pussy squeezing my cock knowing she would like to have it be her lover inside of her married vagina.

CoupleFun555 · Unread post by **CoupleFun555** » Mon Mar 09, 2020 12:44 pm

She has more intense orgasms now that she is a Hotwife. She also organs more easily except for one frustrating circumstance. She has a bf that is also my very good friend. She finds him very hot. She now seems to have a bit of a mental block with him on orgasms. We are trying to figure out why.

sara c · Unread post by **sara c** » Wed Jun 10, 2020 1:01 pm

My organs as better and more intense now at age 45 than ever before, largely because I mostly have sex with younger guys under 25.

sara c · Unread post by **sara c** » Wed Jun 10, 2020 1:02 pm

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Wed Jun 10, 2020 1:01 pm
My organs as better and more intense now at age 45 than ever before, largely because I mostly have sex with younger guys under 25.

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