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Unread post by stevens62 » Fri Jan 13, 2017 7:30 am

This sums it up so eloquently!

TriangleTangle wrote:I love my wife and have no desire for any other woman. We always have great sex, but it goes from great, to mind-blowing, after she has had sex with her boyfriend. I think I am simply wired that way. I once had the typical conventional boring sex life and divorced. Many years later I remarried to my present, wonderful wife with whom I am madly in love. She is the quintessential, pretty, petite, sparking-eyed girl-next-door with a perfect figure and a baby face that makes her look years younger than her actual age. She turns heads all the time and doesn't even notice.

I had been in the swinging lifestyle for several years in intervening relationships, but when swapping as couples, I could hardly keep my eyes off of my partner while she was having sex – and less interested in fucking the other guy’s wife or girlfriend. Don’t get me wrong, fucking another woman was great, and I got off, but I just couldn’t wait to get back home to fuck my own partner after another man had sexually taken her. When I met my present wife, I was open adn explained my past swinger experience, and proceeded to tell her about my desire to watch her being taken by another man. Of course she was shocked, and was highly suspect of my motives, but she soon learned that I truly wanted to be totally monogamous on my end, but her own non-monogamy was my kink.

Fast forward. We’ve had amazing experiences over the past few years. She’s had few select men, and one I’d consider her on-again, off-again boyfriend, but far too infrequent due to his own commitments. She’s now about to have a first date this week with a really good looking, well-built stud she met on a swinger dating site. It's been far too long since she's had a date. He is single, which we both prefer for several reasons. Why, does that excite me even more? Maybe it’s the heightened risk he’ll want her totally for his own, and I welcome that because I know her commitment to our marriage and growing old together is unbreakable, but I’d enjoy knowing he wants her that much; it heightens the competition, which is a huge turn on.

I love when she gets fucked by another guy, and I love fucking her after she has a date, whether she goes to the other guy’s place and they fuck there, or whether he comes to our home and he fucks her in our marital bed, or even a straight MFM with me as the third wheel. And I don’t want them to just fuck either, I want them to ooze carnal desire for one another. I want to know she’s deep into the new relationship experience (NRE) and basking in the glow of it. I want her to want him physically and emotionally, with a strong romantic connection, deep passionate kissing, powerful sexual magnetism, and frequent multi-orgasmic, convulsive fucking. The only requirement I have is that we are always open and truthful to each other, always disclose and share everything, she inform be before and after she ever has sex with another, and we have sex afterwards. I am fine if she develops some degree of emotional attachment that she can manage, and it is even better if she does. She's quite familiar with NRE, and knows how to manage it having been around that block before, and there is nothing wrong with her enjoying that to the fullest for however long it lasts. If it became a lasting relationship, that would be fine too; I've experienced polyamory before. I want her to covet his body and his cock, and crave his sperm as he frequently and repeatedly unloads his love seed deep into her pussy, making her body his, and experience her unbridled desire wanting him to own her body while they are together.

She’s pretty much beyond child bearing years, and I am cut, so there is no chance she can bear another child we me. The chances another man could impregnate her are extremely remote, virtually zilch, but I love seeing her actively try with her lover, at least in spirit. Both of us would love to have and raise another child, and the trying is fun, even if she doesn’t or can't conceive. The thought of fucking her for nine months while her belly shows the evidence of her infidelity after being bred by another man gives me a perpetual erection. I've loved it in the past when she'd come home from a date with her former BF with cum-soaked panties. I go out of my mind with desire to fuck her brains out when she pulls them down and informs me of the obvious that another man has just unloaded inside of her two, three, or four times. Revealing the evidence of her infidelity in a smug, playful, taunting way, knowing his virile seed is up in her belly - and could knock her up, is enough to make me explode even before sinking my own large and capable cock between her perfect legs. I love feeling the silky, slippery wetness of their sex as my large hard cock slips effortlessly where his just occupied. I love how his cum gushes out of her love nest as I plunge my cock deep inside my horny little vixen. I unload again and again as she tells me repeatedly how well he fucked her. When I am about to cum, she sends me over the top when she tells me, in taunting detail, how it felt when his cock stiffened up and became huge just before he came, how she felt his cock pulse as he released inside her, that she loved the felt of his warm cum filling her, and how he now owns her body as long as she carries his seed.

I don’t fear losing her. If she ever did want to leave for another man, I’d let her go, because I want her happiness above my own, and she knows that. She can start and stop playing whenever she wants, I never push her, but I open the door to make it possible, and encourage her if she so desires. That is true unconditional love, but I know her love for me, and her commitment to our marriage, as well as mine, is unshakable. That makes is all that much more amazing. Why does it turn me on so? Why do I want my wife to sleep with another man? As I’ve said many times before, compersion - the sheer excitement of knowing my wife is experiencing and enjoying extreme pleasure, sexually, and emotionally, to the greatest amount and extent possible, and experiencing her intense desire and pleasure vicariously, through her. Because I know she is getting that with another man, as well as with me, I see her as The Total Woman that she can be, and that she is - smart, sexy, fun, and loving. I can still feel the angst every time she chats with another man, every time she has a date, every time she fucks - and that is the best part of all, because that is the very fuel of my own sexual arousal. She is at once my partner, my friend, my lover, and my wife, but she can also be my submissive, my dominant and my equal at different times. She is her own woman, and I love and respect her more than words can express, because she is.

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Unread post by stevens62 » Fri Jan 13, 2017 7:39 am

Defintely one of the highlights for me as well. I travel a good deal in my work, and enjoy knowing my wife has both the hot sex and security that comes with having a lover in our marital bed with her. Sometimes night after night. I love coming home - she always invites me to bed as soon as I enter the door, and reminds me that another man's sperm is still inside her - I'd better hurry if I want to enjoy that special sensation. She's a master at pushing my buttons - a benefit of marrying wisely! :-)))) When we were younger, she loved reminding me she'd had sex with her long term lover several times in our bed while fertile, - I'd better hurry and add my sperm in case she conceived.... her telling me that was usually enough to launch me into a strong orgasm if I was inside her when she said it.

scarlettscuck wrote:Triangle... spot on and nicely articulated.

Like a good cuckold, I found a guy to be her 2nd boyfriend to make sure her sexual needs were met while I was traveling extensively. Hey, why should her sexual needs be denied just because of my job? It was very exciting being away and knowing they were fucking in our marital bed every couple days. The videos and pics were excruciating to see. But I loved to make her happy and loved the way it made me felt. Hard to describe.

I love our lifestyle and how makes me feel when she's with another guy. The battle between my guts and the addictive angst I feel and my deeply imaginative mind that manufactures and visualizes my sexy wife in another mans arms... oh man it's the best porn ever!

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Unread post by stevens62 » Fri Jan 13, 2017 7:46 am

I am really glad the term "hotwife" came along, as I hate the word "slut." I find it so ironic that guys who like lots of hot nasty sex are considered normal guys, but a woman who enjoys hot nasty sex is tagged as a "slut." If I could do it all over again (and know what I know now, of course), I'd only date sluts. They are so much more fun. From a selfish perspective: marry a woman whom others know as a slut, and you'll have twice as many orgasms.

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Unread post by ftandhubby » Wed Jan 18, 2017 6:38 am

I wish more woman were comfortable with the slut word. Hotwife just does not seem to have the connotation of the other word but I do appreciate that some woman find it degrading. I blame this on other men who use the word in that way while I would assume most of the men her find it a huge compliment. Reminds me of a guy who had good fortune to fuck y wife on a number of occasions and made the off hand remark that he could never marry " a woman like her". She took it as an insult but I appreciate what he was actually saying.......he was to insecure to have a woman like my wife for a bride. He should have chosen his words more carefully. No more hot sex for him from my wife...lol.

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Unread post by ArizonaGuy » Wed Jan 18, 2017 1:26 pm

[quote="ftandhubby"]I wish more woman were comfortable with the slut word. Hotwife just does not seem to have the connotation of the other word but I do appreciate that some woman find it degrading. I blame this on other men who use the word in that way while I would assume most of the men her find it a huge compliment. Reminds me of a guy who had good fortune to fuck y wife on a number of occasions and made the off hand remark that he could never marry " a woman like her". She took it as an insult but I appreciate what he was actually saying.......he was to insecure to have a woman like my wife for a bride. He should have chosen his words more carefully. No more hot sex for him from my wife...lol.[/qu


Unfortunately there are some knot heads who just don't understand the situation that's been handed to them. I don't like the word "slut" but have no issue with the word "hotwife." I always have considered my wife as a hotwife before we started playing with other men. I remember a time when women both single or married were called " lose" "easy", these words have disappeared. I'll will stick with "hotwife",because that's what she is for me..

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Unread post by thecuckoldscave » Thu Jan 19, 2017 4:08 am

A lot of the lingo we use seems backward. I also really like the word slut. In my mind, it always meant a woman who enjoyed sleeping with a lot of men simply because she really liked sex. I know some women who wear it as a badge of honor and others (like my wife) who don't like the word at all.

I agree that the term "hot wife" doesn't seem to sum it up, does it? I may post in the Hotwife Forum and see what women think would be a better descriptor?

I know a lot of guys don't like the world cuckold because of its connotations as well. The word originally referred to a guy who was married to a woman that was screwing around on him without his permission - cheating. The term was meant to be degrading to the man.

Since everyone here wants their wife to sleep with someone else, its seems a really odd word to use. I think that's why some guys prefer the label "hotwife husband." But that doesn't really capture it well either, does it?
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Unread post by TriangleTangle » Sun Jan 22, 2017 11:49 am

thecuckoldscave wrote:A lot of the lingo we use seems backward. I also really like the word slut. In my mind, it always meant a woman who enjoyed sleeping with a lot of men simply because she really liked sex. I know some women who wear it as a badge of honor and others (like my wife) who don't like the word at all.

I agree that the term "hot wife" doesn't seem to sum it up, does it? I may post in the Hotwife Forum and see what women think would be a better descriptor?

I know a lot of guys don't like the world cuckold because of its connotations as well. The word originally referred to a guy who was married to a woman that was screwing around on him without his permission - cheating. The term was meant to be degrading to the man.

Since everyone here wants their wife to sleep with someone else, its seems a really odd word to use. I think that's why some guys prefer the label "hotwife husband." But that doesn't really capture it well either, does it?
And of course, there are two X-Y axis, each on a continuum - one axis is the hotwife-cuckold continuum, and the other axis is degree of dominance vs submissiveness - with preferences in each of the resulting (at least) four quadrants (I made a rough attempt to graph that out here a while ago here: http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=8&t=29492 ). So not even those labels are sufficient due to the variety of possible combinations.

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Unread post by aspmroikle » Tue Jan 24, 2017 3:27 pm

For me:

1. Because I love her and want her to be satisfied. I'm not the worst lover in the world, but not the best either. I realize my limitations. He is significantly larger than me but more importantly he has the stamina to satisfy her. This was apparent the very first time I watched them. I knew right then it was the right decision.

2. She is a beautiful woman. She deserves a big cock and to be satisfied by it. She could have any cock she wanted anyway.

3. I no longer have any sexual angst. No worries about whether I am satisfying her. With that taking a back seat our lovemaking is better than ever. We make love.

4. It is sexy as fuck watching a beautiful woman being satisfied. But more than that, it is my beautiful woman. She is my wife. As I watch I am jealous as hell at what he can do to her. I wish I could make her respond to me the way she does with him.

5. Sometimes after he has satisfied her multiple times she gets on her knees and sucks him until he cums in her mouth. But it is not just sucking him. It is like she is worshiping his cock with her mouth. We are married so she has sucked me hundreds of times, but not like that. I know she worships it because of how it has just pleased her.

6. Because it is taboo. She is my soulmate. But in the bedroom she is his.

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Unread post by schamz » Wed Jan 25, 2017 4:45 pm

aspmroikle wrote:For me:

1. Because I love her and want her to be satisfied. I'm not the worst lover in the world, but not the best either. I realize my limitations. He is significantly larger than me but more importantly he has the stamina to satisfy her. This was apparent the very first time I watched them. I knew right then it was the right decision.

2. She is a beautiful woman. She deserves a big cock and to be satisfied by it. She could have any cock she wanted anyway.

3. I no longer have any sexual angst. No worries about whether I am satisfying her. With that taking a back seat our lovemaking is better than ever. We make love.

4. It is sexy as fuck watching a beautiful woman being satisfied. But more than that, it is my beautiful woman. She is my wife. As I watch I am jealous as hell at what he can do to her. I wish I could make her respond to me the way she does with him.

5. Sometimes after he has satisfied her multiple times she gets on her knees and sucks him until he cums in her mouth. But it is not just sucking him. It is like she is worshiping his cock with her mouth. We are married so she has sucked me hundreds of times, but not like that. I know she worships it because of how it has just pleased her.

6. Because it is taboo. She is my soulmate. But in the bedroom she is his.
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Unread post by Edwardian » Thu Jan 26, 2017 9:27 am

I went to your chart TriangleTangle.

Wow.

Thank you for all the work that went into it. I tried using the link posted but it didn't work for me. A larger version would be great.

As for this topic of this thread I think there is something very primeval involved. That fact that to many it is so irrational is, to me, a strong clue that it's been a part of our makeup since before we became Homo Sapiens. It's still with us because there's evolutionary value to it. Thank goodness.

I think that it's irrationality is only seen when this behavior is examined through the lens of our culture.

I totally love slutty women. I've been chosen by two in my life. I screwed the first chance up and am wistful about it even today forty plus years later. My second is my current wife. Her Dark Period was a long time ago too. I love her stories from that time in her life. She carries a lot of ambivalence about those events so I leave it alone mostly.

I think it's a given that if you go for girls who like to have a lot of variety when it comes to sex you've got to be comfortable on some level with them fucking other people. With or without your "permission".
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Unread post by jr284 » Thu Jan 26, 2017 9:43 am

Already plenty of great answers but I'll add my two cents.

For me it started when my first girlfriend told me about the threesome she had with two guys. At the time, I got extremely jealous and upset (I was young and naive), but later on I found myself thinking about it and getting turned on by the idea. Every girlfriend I had after that I would ask about guys they had been with before and details about their sex life. That all developed into yearning to share my wife and watch her with other men. I love the idea of her wanting to be with other men and loving sex so much that she wants it from anyone. I also like the idea of her wanting to do it for me. And of course, I want to see her absolutely fully pleased.

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Unread post by Say_Oy » Thu Feb 02, 2017 9:15 pm

odyexplorer wrote:I personally think, from reading around and a bit from personal experience, that hotwifing with only one other lover, or one who's overwhelmingly who she does or wants to see most, is one of the most or perhaps the most dangerous ways to pursue the various forms of this lifestyle.
What are others thoughts?
There is a difference between a bull and a lover. A bull does not want the wife to leave hubby - he likes the legal arrangements as is. :) Well, at least I do. It's much better if the girl is dedicated to me because I don't worry about STDs and can go bareback. If she is sleeping around I would always be paranoid about STDs and would insist on condoms. Glad I have in the past - one candidate for a #2 spot did turn out to have herpes 2. Not a killer but painful and glad I insisted on a check.

The key is to have an understanding about what the relationship is about and for.... and that the wife love the husband outside the sexual aspect. Her every day life can be with hubby, but her sex belongs to the bull.

Not all hubbies can accept that but are they into being a cuckold because they want the wife to be happy? Or are they into only satisfying their own fantasy regardless of the cost to the wife's health - i.e. damage caused by STDs and incurable stuff?
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Unread post by Her number1 » Fri Feb 03, 2017 12:47 pm

Say_Oy wrote:
The key is to have an understanding about what the relationship is about and for.... and that the wife love the husband outside the sexual aspect. Her every day life can be with hubby, but her sex belongs to the bull.
It might be your key but, it is not the key.
It is true about understanding the relationship. For us, nothing belongs to the other guy.

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Unread post by Say_Oy » Mon Feb 06, 2017 11:20 pm

Her number1 wrote: It is true about understanding the relationship. For us, nothing belongs to the other guy.
As long as you both are on that page it's fine. But if she sleeps around a lot she risks STDs. If she sticks with one or two guys it might work really well as long as they understand and agree that you are the Alpha. Good communication and sticking with the deal all around is necessary for it to last and work well.
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Unread post by All4Jenna » Sun Feb 19, 2017 10:43 am

TriangleTangle wrote:I love my wife and have no desire for any other woman. We always have great sex, but it goes from great, to mind-blowing, after she has had sex with her boyfriend. I think I am simply wired that way. I once had the typical conventional boring sex life and divorced. Many years later I remarried to my present, wonderful wife with whom I am madly in love. She is the quintessential, pretty, petite, sparking-eyed girl-next-door with a perfect figure and a baby face that makes her look years younger than her actual age. She turns heads all the time and doesn't even notice.

I had been in the swinging lifestyle for several years in intervening relationships, but when swapping as couples, I could hardly keep my eyes off of my partner while she was having sex – and less interested in fucking the other guy’s wife or girlfriend. Don’t get me wrong, fucking another woman was great, and I got off, but I just couldn’t wait to get back home to fuck my own partner after another man had sexually taken her. When I met my present wife, I was open adn explained my past swinger experience, and proceeded to tell her about my desire to watch her being taken by another man. Of course she was shocked, and was highly suspect of my motives, but she soon learned that I truly wanted to be totally monogamous on my end, but her own non-monogamy was my kink.

Fast forward. We’ve had amazing experiences over the past few years. She’s had few select men, and one I’d consider her on-again, off-again boyfriend, but far too infrequent due to his own commitments. She’s now about to have a first date this week with a really good looking, well-built stud she met on a swinger dating site. It's been far too long since she's had a date. He is single, which we both prefer for several reasons. Why, does that excite me even more? Maybe it’s the heightened risk he’ll want her totally for his own, and I welcome that because I know her commitment to our marriage and growing old together is unbreakable, but I’d enjoy knowing he wants her that much; it heightens the competition, which is a huge turn on.

I love when she gets fucked by another guy, and I love fucking her after she has a date, whether she goes to the other guy’s place and they fuck there, or whether he comes to our home and he fucks her in our marital bed, or even a straight MFM with me as the third wheel. And I don’t want them to just fuck either, I want them to ooze carnal desire for one another. I want to know she’s deep into the new relationship experience (NRE) and basking in the glow of it. I want her to want him physically and emotionally, with a strong romantic connection, deep passionate kissing, powerful sexual magnetism, and frequent multi-orgasmic, convulsive fucking. The only requirement I have is that we are always open and truthful to each other, always disclose and share everything, she inform be before and after she ever has sex with another, and we have sex afterwards. I am fine if she develops some degree of emotional attachment that she can manage, and it is even better if she does. She's quite familiar with NRE, and knows how to manage it having been around that block before, and there is nothing wrong with her enjoying that to the fullest for however long it lasts. If it became a lasting relationship, that would be fine too; I've experienced polyamory before. I want her to covet his body and his cock, and crave his sperm as he frequently and repeatedly unloads his love seed deep into her pussy, making her body his, and experience her unbridled desire wanting him to own her body while they are together.

She’s pretty much beyond child bearing years, and I am cut, so there is no chance she can bear another child we me. The chances another man could impregnate her are extremely remote, virtually zilch, but I love seeing her actively try with her lover, at least in spirit. Both of us would love to have and raise another child, and the trying is fun, even if she doesn’t or can't conceive. The thought of fucking her for nine months while her belly shows the evidence of her infidelity after being bred by another man gives me a perpetual erection. I've loved it in the past when she'd come home from a date with her former BF with cum-soaked panties. I go out of my mind with desire to fuck her brains out when she pulls them down and informs me of the obvious that another man has just unloaded inside of her two, three, or four times. Revealing the evidence of her infidelity in a smug, playful, taunting way, knowing his virile seed is up in her belly - and could knock her up, is enough to make me explode even before sinking my own large and capable cock between her perfect legs. I love feeling the silky, slippery wetness of their sex as my large hard cock slips effortlessly where his just occupied. I love how his cum gushes out of her love nest as I plunge my cock deep inside my horny little vixen. I unload again and again as she tells me repeatedly how well he fucked her. When I am about to cum, she sends me over the top when she tells me, in taunting detail, how it felt when his cock stiffened up and became huge just before he came, how she felt his cock pulse as he released inside her, that she loved the felt of his warm cum filling her, and how he now owns her body as long as she carries his seed.

I don’t fear losing her. If she ever did want to leave for another man, I’d let her go, because I want her happiness above my own, and she knows that. She can start and stop playing whenever she wants, I never push her, but I open the door to make it possible, and encourage her if she so desires. That is true unconditional love, but I know her love for me, and her commitment to our marriage, as well as mine, is unshakable. That makes is all that much more amazing. Why does it turn me on so? Why do I want my wife to sleep with another man? As I’ve said many times before, compersion - the sheer excitement of knowing my wife is experiencing and enjoying extreme pleasure, sexually, and emotionally, to the greatest amount and extent possible, and experiencing her intense desire and pleasure vicariously, through her. Because I know she is getting that with another man, as well as with me, I see her as The Total Woman that she can be, and that she is - smart, sexy, fun, and loving. I can still feel the angst every time she chats with another man, every time she has a date, every time she fucks - and that is the best part of all, because that is the very fuel of my own sexual arousal. She is at once my partner, my friend, my lover, and my wife, but she can also be my submissive, my dominant and my equal at different times. She is her own woman, and I love and respect her more than words can express, because she is.

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Thanks for expressing this so incredibly well. I agree with every word and it was nice to see something here that rings so true for me.

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All4Jenna wrote:
TriangleTangle wrote:I love my wife and have no desire for any other woman. We always have great sex, but it goes from great, to mind-blowing, after she has had sex with her boyfriend. I think I am simply wired that way. I once had the typical conventional boring sex life and divorced. Many years later I remarried to my present, wonderful wife with whom I am madly in love. She is the quintessential, pretty, petite, sparking-eyed girl-next-door with a perfect figure and a baby face that makes her look years younger than her actual age. She turns heads all the time and doesn't even notice.

I had been in the swinging lifestyle for several years in intervening relationships, but when swapping as couples, I could hardly keep my eyes off of my partner while she was having sex – and less interested in fucking the other guy’s wife or girlfriend. Don’t get me wrong, fucking another woman was great, and I got off, but I just couldn’t wait to get back home to fuck my own partner after another man had sexually taken her. When I met my present wife, I was open adn explained my past swinger experience, and proceeded to tell her about my desire to watch her being taken by another man. Of course she was shocked, and was highly suspect of my motives, but she soon learned that I truly wanted to be totally monogamous on my end, but her own non-monogamy was my kink.

Fast forward. We’ve had amazing experiences over the past few years. She’s had few select men, and one I’d consider her on-again, off-again boyfriend, but far too infrequent due to his own commitments. She’s now about to have a first date this week with a really good looking, well-built stud she met on a swinger dating site. It's been far too long since she's had a date. He is single, which we both prefer for several reasons. Why, does that excite me even more? Maybe it’s the heightened risk he’ll want her totally for his own, and I welcome that because I know her commitment to our marriage and growing old together is unbreakable, but I’d enjoy knowing he wants her that much; it heightens the competition, which is a huge turn on.

I love when she gets fucked by another guy, and I love fucking her after she has a date, whether she goes to the other guy’s place and they fuck there, or whether he comes to our home and he fucks her in our marital bed, or even a straight MFM with me as the third wheel. And I don’t want them to just fuck either, I want them to ooze carnal desire for one another. I want to know she’s deep into the new relationship experience (NRE) and basking in the glow of it. I want her to want him physically and emotionally, with a strong romantic connection, deep passionate kissing, powerful sexual magnetism, and frequent multi-orgasmic, convulsive fucking. The only requirement I have is that we are always open and truthful to each other, always disclose and share everything, she inform be before and after she ever has sex with another, and we have sex afterwards. I am fine if she develops some degree of emotional attachment that she can manage, and it is even better if she does. She's quite familiar with NRE, and knows how to manage it having been around that block before, and there is nothing wrong with her enjoying that to the fullest for however long it lasts. If it became a lasting relationship, that would be fine too; I've experienced polyamory before. I want her to covet his body and his cock, and crave his sperm as he frequently and repeatedly unloads his love seed deep into her pussy, making her body his, and experience her unbridled desire wanting him to own her body while they are together.

She’s pretty much beyond child bearing years, and I am cut, so there is no chance she can bear another child we me. The chances another man could impregnate her are extremely remote, virtually zilch, but I love seeing her actively try with her lover, at least in spirit. Both of us would love to have and raise another child, and the trying is fun, even if she doesn’t or can't conceive. The thought of fucking her for nine months while her belly shows the evidence of her infidelity after being bred by another man gives me a perpetual erection. I've loved it in the past when she'd come home from a date with her former BF with cum-soaked panties. I go out of my mind with desire to fuck her brains out when she pulls them down and informs me of the obvious that another man has just unloaded inside of her two, three, or four times. Revealing the evidence of her infidelity in a smug, playful, taunting way, knowing his virile seed is up in her belly - and could knock her up, is enough to make me explode even before sinking my own large and capable cock between her perfect legs. I love feeling the silky, slippery wetness of their sex as my large hard cock slips effortlessly where his just occupied. I love how his cum gushes out of her love nest as I plunge my cock deep inside my horny little vixen. I unload again and again as she tells me repeatedly how well he fucked her. When I am about to cum, she sends me over the top when she tells me, in taunting detail, how it felt when his cock stiffened up and became huge just before he came, how she felt his cock pulse as he released inside her, that she loved the felt of his warm cum filling her, and how he now owns her body as long as she carries his seed.

I don’t fear losing her. If she ever did want to leave for another man, I’d let her go, because I want her happiness above my own, and she knows that. She can start and stop playing whenever she wants, I never push her, but I open the door to make it possible, and encourage her if she so desires. That is true unconditional love, but I know her love for me, and her commitment to our marriage, as well as mine, is unshakable. That makes is all that much more amazing. Why does it turn me on so? Why do I want my wife to sleep with another man? As I’ve said many times before, compersion - the sheer excitement of knowing my wife is experiencing and enjoying extreme pleasure, sexually, and emotionally, to the greatest amount and extent possible, and experiencing her intense desire and pleasure vicariously, through her. Because I know she is getting that with another man, as well as with me, I see her as The Total Woman that she can be, and that she is - smart, sexy, fun, and loving. I can still feel the angst every time she chats with another man, every time she has a date, every time she fucks - and that is the best part of all, because that is the very fuel of my own sexual arousal. She is at once my partner, my friend, my lover, and my wife, but she can also be my submissive, my dominant and my equal at different times. She is her own woman, and I love and respect her more than words can express, because she is.

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TriangleTangle,

Thanks for expressing this so incredibly well. I agree with every word and it was nice to see something here that rings so true for me.
I second that! :up:
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Re: Why would a man want his woman to fuck another?

Unread post by truther » Tue Mar 07, 2017 9:59 am

JlovesL wrote:"Why would a man want his woman to fuck another?"

"His woman"? Wow, that's a non-starter if I ever saw one. We are two independent souls who decided to take a ride through this life together. What right do I have to limit her joy in whatever form she chooses to find it?
Well, you've got a right to limit "her joy" if it's not a good thing for your marriage, if it affects YOUR happiness. But if it brings you joy too, I think you've got a great thing going.
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Re: Why would a man want his woman to fuck another?

Unread post by truther » Tue Mar 07, 2017 10:01 am

Her number1 wrote: It might be your key but, it is not the key.
It is true about understanding the relationship. For us, nothing belongs to the other guy.
Hear hear.
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Re: "Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

Unread post by derekzoolander509 » Thu May 11, 2017 6:41 pm

Describing why I like it would be impossible. It would be like trying to describe the color blue to a blind person.

I have no idea why I love it. I just know that her loving it also, makes it 10 times better.

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Re: "Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

Unread post by wd2005 » Sat May 13, 2017 7:24 pm

My wife just had sex with a friend of ours two hours ago. I'm beyond happy. My wife says its natural for her to have sex with other men and it feels natural for me to like it.
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And deception is the only felony/So never fuck nobody without tellin' me"

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Unread post by MistressAnja » Sun Jun 18, 2017 12:04 pm

it is a fetish, a kinky, a lifestyle. my subs told me, for them it is a big turn on to see the wife to get pleased from a caucasian or a black bull. If you like porn - it is much better to see the dick coming in and out in real and not on the screen... and see the wife - that she loves it. Sure - nothing for a jealousy guys! You have to be open minded for this kind of "play". but if 2 people agree with it - than go for it. If the wife is it doing only to please the fantasy of her husband - than i think - it is the wrong way to do it.

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Unread post by isinlarsa » Mon Jun 19, 2017 7:41 am

MistressAnja wrote:it is a fetish, a kinky, a lifestyle. my subs told me, for them it is a big turn on to see the wife to get pleased from a caucasian or a black bull. If you like porn - it is much better to see the dick coming in and out in real and not on the screen... and see the wife - that she loves it. Sure - nothing for a jealousy guys! You have to be open minded for this kind of "play". but if 2 people agree with it - than go for it. If the wife is it doing only to please the fantasy of her husband - than i think - it is the wrong way to do it.

I agree. I was always open to her enjoying another man, but I waited until she wanted to do it -- and then she did! It's the hottest porn there is, with your wife as the leading lady

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Unread post by HaroldTheTuchuck » Sun Jun 25, 2017 9:23 am

Why is the sky blue? Why are male dogs inclined to urinate on fire hydrants? What makes Teflon stick to the pan? Granted there are answers to all of those questions above but, for me at least, it is what it is and we are loving it.

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Re: "Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

Unread post by HaroldTheTuchuck » Mon Jun 26, 2017 2:50 pm

isinlarsa wrote:
MistressAnja wrote:it is a fetish, a kinky, a lifestyle. my subs told me, for them it is a big turn on to see the wife to get pleased from a caucasian or a black bull. If you like porn - it is much better to see the dick coming in and out in real and not on the screen... and see the wife - that she loves it. Sure - nothing for a jealousy guys! You have to be open minded for this kind of "play". but if 2 people agree with it - than go for it. If the wife is it doing only to please the fantasy of her husband - than i think - it is the wrong way to do it.

I agree. I was always open to her enjoying another man, but I waited until she wanted to do it -- and then she did! It's the hottest porn there is, with your wife as the leading lady
BOOM!!! there it is. At least for me. There i nothing I enjoy more than seeing my lady really get off. I don't care if it's with me, a toy, or another dude that I'm cool with. We 'met' a new guy on SLS over the weekend and he is a very good looking, cut, and big dude. He and I hit it off and I'm hoping we can make things happen soon.

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Re: "Why would a guy want his wife to sleep with another man"

Unread post by eldiablo311 » Mon Jun 26, 2017 9:51 pm

To the OP....why would he not? Lol

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