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Wow!
I love your story. So far it is very similar to the journey my wife took. When she decided it as a matter of days before she enjoyed her first date with another man. That began a 14 year journey full of excitement, a massive upturn in the number of times my wife and I had sex and her self-confidence went through the roof.Mywarmwife wrote: āTue Feb 28, 2023 4:09 amSo Iām on a business trip and wake up to pics of my sexy wife in new matching bra and panties. Like 5 different poses.
So I saidā¦good morning, are those for me?
She she texts back ā¦. āWellā¦ā
So hot!
Ideal relationship. My wife and I enjoyed 14 years of excitement much improved communication and she received a lot of pleasure. Alanmrswarmwife wrote: āMon Mar 06, 2023 7:42 pmwhosbeensleeping Thank you! But I kind of think my hubby is the rock star! He loves me enough to give me the gift of sexual freedom. And I will repay him with honesty, communication....and hot sex whenever he wants it!
Thatās the perfect description!BallSpanking wrote: āThu Mar 21, 2024 10:54 pmWhat a beautiful experience, Mrs WarmWife!
And twice in a week, neither time with your husband ...Wow!
And the quality experience you had, must be absolutely intoxicating.
Good for you!
Are you planning on seeing them more often now?
I agree that my marriage is ideal. Thank you for saying that! Iām happy for you to have had 14 years of thisā¦thatās a lot of great sexalan137 wrote: āFri Mar 22, 2024 12:30 amIdeal relationship. My wife and I enjoyed 14 years of excitement much improved communication and she received a lot of pleasure. Alanmrswarmwife wrote: āMon Mar 06, 2023 7:42 pmwhosbeensleeping Thank you! But I kind of think my hubby is the rock star! He loves me enough to give me the gift of sexual freedom. And I will repay him with honesty, communication....and hot sex whenever he wants it!
I really appreciate you bringing this up. I do notice myself growing more and more fond of this man Iāve seen for months. It does make me wonder if these feelings will intensify if I were to continue seeing him. I have to imagine they will. Iām not sure whether to be excited or scared by that. I donāt think my husband wants me to fall in love, but the possibility of what that would feel like does intrigue me.Libertine_Lark wrote: āFri Mar 22, 2024 4:51 amI sense a genuine affection between MrsWarmWife and her long term FWB. Having enjoyed my own hotwifeās journey into a six month long affair, I fondly recall hoping she would fall in love with him. Unfortunately, we moved abroad and it wasnāt in the cards. In retrospect though, I can confidently attest to this fact: the experiences that caused me the most angst (in the moment) are the same things that most turn me on in retrospect. I hope this might offer you some confidence exploring deeper feelings for your long term FWB. Either way, Iāve thoroughly enjoyed reading about your journey! Thank you for sharing.
Thatās a great perspective leggysman. And I like your words, romantic infatuation. I think thatās more likely to happen than actual love. I canāt imagine I could āfall in loveā with a man who I only have sex with. Iāve even shared with men that one of my boundaries is if my feelings for them were to get too big, I would need to move on. They get it. I donāt want to fall in love, but I certainly enjoy really admiring the men I sleep with. The sex is just better that way.leggysman wrote: āSat Mar 23, 2024 7:10 pmI try to think about how my wife leggysandy must feel, and how it would be if the roles were reversed.
If I was having sex with some exciting new chick...
If I started to have romantic feelings towards her...
I'm honestly not sure how it would affect the intensity of my feelings towards my wife. I truly hope I could do that without affecting our marriage, but when I do the thought experiment ... ? If I'm honest with myself, I'm not so sure.
Romantic infatuation can be pretty overwhelming, even though I understand intellectually that it is usually fleeting. I think it would be difficult enough to keep it as "just sex" in my mind, without willingly surrendering to feelings.
I guess I really need to doff my hat to my wife, here. She seems to have navigated it pretty successfully, at least when it comes to "just sex".
Yes, we did have some fun for a period of time where he had to wear a condom and only my lovers could have me bareback. It was an incredible turn on for both us! So wild.
MWW - Is this NRE you are experiencing? Or something more?mrswarmwife wrote: āSat Mar 23, 2024 6:42 pmI really appreciate you bringing this up. I do notice myself growing more and more fond of this man Iāve seen for months. It does make me wonder if these feelings will intensify if I were to continue seeing him. I have to imagine they will. Iām not sure whether to be excited or scared by that. I donāt think my husband wants me to fall in love, but the possibility of what that would feel like does intrigue me.Libertine_Lark wrote: āFri Mar 22, 2024 4:51 amI sense a genuine affection between MrsWarmWife and her long term FWB. Having enjoyed my own hotwifeās journey into a six month long affair, I fondly recall hoping she would fall in love with him. Unfortunately, we moved abroad and it wasnāt in the cards. In retrospect though, I can confidently attest to this fact: the experiences that caused me the most angst (in the moment) are the same things that most turn me on in retrospect. I hope this might offer you some confidence exploring deeper feelings for your long term FWB. Either way, Iāve thoroughly enjoyed reading about your journey! Thank you for sharing.
I think itās NRE, combined with friendship and admiration. When you add incredible sex to all that, itās just supremely hotLong Lurker 34 wrote: āSun Mar 24, 2024 3:30 amMWW - Is this NRE you are experiencing? Or something more?mrswarmwife wrote: āSat Mar 23, 2024 6:42 pmI really appreciate you bringing this up. I do notice myself growing more and more fond of this man Iāve seen for months. It does make me wonder if these feelings will intensify if I were to continue seeing him. I have to imagine they will. Iām not sure whether to be excited or scared by that. I donāt think my husband wants me to fall in love, but the possibility of what that would feel like does intrigue me.Libertine_Lark wrote: āFri Mar 22, 2024 4:51 amI sense a genuine affection between MrsWarmWife and her long term FWB. Having enjoyed my own hotwifeās journey into a six month long affair, I fondly recall hoping she would fall in love with him. Unfortunately, we moved abroad and it wasnāt in the cards. In retrospect though, I can confidently attest to this fact: the experiences that caused me the most angst (in the moment) are the same things that most turn me on in retrospect. I hope this might offer you some confidence exploring deeper feelings for your long term FWB. Either way, Iāve thoroughly enjoyed reading about your journey! Thank you for sharing.
MWW - I hope as "G" put it "can see the signs before itās too late", that like he has with LFA and A, you with MrWW and your current squeeze are able to find that nice Goldie Locks balance. That would be outstanding to have two threads such as that.mrswarmwife wrote: āMon Mar 25, 2024 3:33 pmI think itās NRE, combined with friendship and admiration. When you add incredible sex to all that, itās just supremely hotLong Lurker 34 wrote: āSun Mar 24, 2024 3:30 amMWW - Is this NRE you are experiencing? Or something more?mrswarmwife wrote: āSat Mar 23, 2024 6:42 pmI really appreciate you bringing this up. I do notice myself growing more and more fond of this man Iāve seen for months. It does make me wonder if these feelings will intensify if I were to continue seeing him. I have to imagine they will. Iām not sure whether to be excited or scared by that. I donāt think my husband wants me to fall in love, but the possibility of what that would feel like does intrigue me.Libertine_Lark wrote: āFri Mar 22, 2024 4:51 amI sense a genuine affection between MrsWarmWife and her long term FWB. Having enjoyed my own hotwifeās journey into a six month long affair, I fondly recall hoping she would fall in love with him. Unfortunately, we moved abroad and it wasnāt in the cards. In retrospect though, I can confidently attest to this fact: the experiences that caused me the most angst (in the moment) are the same things that most turn me on in retrospect. I hope this might offer you some confidence exploring deeper feelings for your long term FWB. Either way, Iāve thoroughly enjoyed reading about your journey! Thank you for sharing.
Seekingmore12 wrote: āTue Mar 26, 2024 4:13 amVery hotā¦.NRE is obviously very realā¦.the loves can be different, what most important at least to me is that the primary relationship remains number 1 and the boyfriend not only encourages it, sometimes conspires with the hot wife on things to please him and can see the signs before itās too late.
Personally, I have left a couple when I sensed the primary relationship was in danger.
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I'm so happy for you. Enjoy it all!mrswarmwife wrote: āMon Mar 25, 2024 3:33 pm
I think itās NRE, combined with friendship and admiration. When you add incredible sex to all that, itās just supremely hot
Lookingforadventure wrote: āTue Mar 26, 2024 5:09 amI'm so happy for you. Enjoy it all!mrswarmwife wrote: āMon Mar 25, 2024 3:33 pm
I think itās NRE, combined with friendship and admiration. When you add incredible sex to all that, itās just supremely hot
No, not safety related. The night I met him, I felt very safe. But beyond that night, it was more about not being able to believe the things he was telling me. Something didnāt feel right. I need to be 100 percent sure about a person. Who knows if my safety would have been in jeopardy at some point? I wasnāt about to find out.
Trust is important in any relationship but much more so in this LS. Glad that you listened to your gut and that you bf reached out and you are planning a meeting with him.mrswarmwife wrote: āThu Apr 04, 2024 6:07 pmIāve been meaning to share that the second date with the new guy never happened. I wasnāt feeling like I could trust him the way I needed to. I listened to that feeling and didnāt take things further. Lucky for me, my boyfriend reached out wanting to see me againā¦
He's your 'boyfriend'. How thrilling.Lucky for me, my boyfriend reached out wanting to see me againā¦
venus-can99 wrote: āThu Apr 04, 2024 8:53 pmTrust is important in any relationship but much more so in this LS. Glad that you listened to your gut and that you bf reached out and you are planning a meeting with him.mrswarmwife wrote: āThu Apr 04, 2024 6:07 pmIāve been meaning to share that the second date with the new guy never happened. I wasnāt feeling like I could trust him the way I needed to. I listened to that feeling and didnāt take things further. Lucky for me, my boyfriend reached out wanting to see me againā¦
