Time to walk away

[Mr1SexyGILF]

After 13 active years on this board, and 1160 posts, I have concluded that out of respect for my wife’s total lack of interest in any form of nonmonogomy, it is time to reign in my long time ultimate fantasy.

I have been more persistently forcing the topic of her playing lately, as I have been feeling our aging is narrowing the window of opportunity. We are on a vacation, affording us lots of great communication.

She has arrived at a hard NO. I will check back on this thread a few times, but for the unforseeable future, I will be trying to abstain from OHW. I just gets me excited about something that is not going to happen.

This lady is the Love of my Life, Mother of our Children, and Grandma of our Grandchildren. We have so many shared blessings, and I am committed to keeping this small area of differing opinions from ruining us.

Mr GILF

[Topnotch]

I know what you mean. I've had to take a break from here a time or 2 myself. Hope you come back tho, enjoy your post. Good luck

[rogerbaulk]

Good for you! Don’t look back.

[SilverStag]

Do what you need to do to preserve your relationship...this is just the sprinkles on the ice cream sundae of life. You can do without them.

Best wishes for your future.

[BrunetteLover]

No means no. It's about her, not you.

Good luck to you both.

[Farmgirl]

I commend you for the willingness to put your wife ahead of self, but I will miss you if you leave.

[JeffBingham]

No means no. It's about her, not you.

Good luck to you both.

In our marriage it’s always about US. It’s not about her or me. It’s worked for us for over 35 years but maybe we’re unusual.

[iloanmywife]

After 13 active years on this board, and 1160 posts, I have concluded that out of respect for my wife’s total lack of interest in any form of nonmonogomy, it is time to reign in my long time ultimate fantasy.

I have been more persistently forcing the topic of her playing lately, as I have been feeling our aging is narrowing the window of opportunity. We are on a vacation, affording us lots of great communication.

She has arrived at a hard NO. I will check back on this thread a few times, but for the unforseeable future, I will be trying to abstain from OHW. I just gets me excited about something that is not going to happen.

This lady is the Love of my Life, Mother of our Children, and Grandma of our Grandchildren. We have so many shared blessings, and I am committed to keeping this small area of differing opinions from ruining us.

Mr GILF

The relationship you describe is an unattainable dream for far too many people in this life. You are a lucky man, indeed. If you can't have this one little thing, that doesn't sound too bad from the outside looking in.

I'm sure that you've mentioned it in your other posts, but has she been open to indulging in hotwife fantasy play (e.g., talking, toys, play acting) with the understanding that it will remain fantasy? I think most people have wild sexual fantasies that will forever remain unrealized, and that's probably for the better.

[Lookingforadventure]

Just adding that I will miss you too. Hugs.

[Farmgirl]

In our marriage it’s always about US. It’s not about her or me. It’s worked for us for over 35 years but maybe we’re unusual.

Not unusual at all, Jeff .

[jrobb]

Mr1SexyGILF,

I completely understand. You may now only be relegated to pillow talk as I have resolved for myself. I'm thankful for the romps of the past, but that was then, and this is now.

Be well, my friend. And thanks for sharing her with us as you have. She's quite delicious!!!

JR

[Parsifal]

This is really an inspiring event. I've wondered myself how it all must end one day, assuming death doesn't make that decision for us. I've imagined with the games lose their luster, and one day a couple just decides it's time to watch the sunset as a couple only. This is a surely a road map to store away for my own life.

[2inUPMichigan]

You will be missed friend

I wish for the two of you many years of happiness together hand in hand

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

I'm not even in this lifestyle, but, still and all, it sounds like you ALREADY have a great life with the woman you have.

A number of years ago, I realized that happiness was not necessarily getting what you want, but realizing what you have, and being grateful for such.

And sometimes our fantasies will remain just that....fantasies.

But all things being equal, sounds like you've got a pretty good deal right here and right now.

[Laveenguy]

Man, I totally get it. Doesn’t make any sense to screw up an otherwise good relationship. Go forth my friend, strive to be happy.

[Lookingforadventure]

A number of years ago, I realized that happiness was not necessarily getting what you want, but realizing what you have, and being grateful for such.

I love this, and agree wholeheartedly.

[Cory87]

No means no. It's about her, not you.

Good luck to you both.

In our marriage it’s always about US. It’s not about her or me. It’s worked for us for over 35 years but maybe we’re unusual.

Not unusual at all. Anyone who thinks marriage or sex is only about her is unusual.