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My darling wife (D) and I have been married almost 25 years. She a lovely BBW in her mid-50s with a sparkling personality, incredible intellect and natural leadership skills. I am 19 years older. My diabetes has caused a significant decline in my ability to have PIV sex. The usual medications cause side effects that make it impossible for me to use them.
About five years ago we had a lengthy serious conversation about our situation. During the conversation I told her that I want her to have the pleasure of sex with other men as she chooses. She said she would try it.
The previous spring we had our house painted by a crew of men led by an attractive Hispanic man (R.) He had been flirty with D while working and D flirted back. While nothing further took place then D had never forgotten their interest in each other and now after our discussions decided to call him. They met several times and after a few weeks ended up in our bed with my blessing. D told me that the experience was good for her and she intended to continue to see him for sex Unfortunately there were complications that made it impossible to continue. For the last 3 1/2 years D and I have had oral sex and used a variety of toys to keep our intimacy alive. However, after a nice Sunday morning session yesterday, she told me we needed to talk.
We have been using the same massage therapist for almost fifteen years. "De" is a wonderful black guy, mid-50s, with a thick muscular build He has been giving fantastic massages to D and I and, over the years, has become a great friend. To my knowledge there has never been any attraction between De and my wife. However, D told me that in the past few weeks he has intimated that he would like for thier friendship to move into sex.
I had wondered over the years if their friendship had progressed but D assured me that in hadn't But now, she wants to have sex with him. I have over the years told her that she has my blessing to be with other men as long as she tells me before and after. I know De to be a good man and a great friend and that he would never hurt D or abuse her in any way, so I told it would make me happy for her to pursue this and I encourage her to make this happen. So on Friday, four days from now, she's going to his home, where he maintains his massage practice, to be with him. For real, this is going to happen.
As you might expect I am going through a wide variety of emotions, not the least of these being a great sexual excitement knowing that in 4 days he will, after all these years, be fucking my wife all afternoon. I welcome your comments and thoughts about this situation.
About five years ago we had a lengthy serious conversation about our situation. During the conversation I told her that I want her to have the pleasure of sex with other men as she chooses. She said she would try it.
The previous spring we had our house painted by a crew of men led by an attractive Hispanic man (R.) He had been flirty with D while working and D flirted back. While nothing further took place then D had never forgotten their interest in each other and now after our discussions decided to call him. They met several times and after a few weeks ended up in our bed with my blessing. D told me that the experience was good for her and she intended to continue to see him for sex Unfortunately there were complications that made it impossible to continue. For the last 3 1/2 years D and I have had oral sex and used a variety of toys to keep our intimacy alive. However, after a nice Sunday morning session yesterday, she told me we needed to talk.
We have been using the same massage therapist for almost fifteen years. "De" is a wonderful black guy, mid-50s, with a thick muscular build He has been giving fantastic massages to D and I and, over the years, has become a great friend. To my knowledge there has never been any attraction between De and my wife. However, D told me that in the past few weeks he has intimated that he would like for thier friendship to move into sex.
I had wondered over the years if their friendship had progressed but D assured me that in hadn't But now, she wants to have sex with him. I have over the years told her that she has my blessing to be with other men as long as she tells me before and after. I know De to be a good man and a great friend and that he would never hurt D or abuse her in any way, so I told it would make me happy for her to pursue this and I encourage her to make this happen. So on Friday, four days from now, she's going to his home, where he maintains his massage practice, to be with him. For real, this is going to happen.
As you might expect I am going through a wide variety of emotions, not the least of these being a great sexual excitement knowing that in 4 days he will, after all these years, be fucking my wife all afternoon. I welcome your comments and thoughts about this situation.
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You bet you will have a wide variety of emotions, emotions you can grow through if you learn to manage them well.Reinhold 1947 wrote: ↑Mon Feb 19, 2024 6:28 pmAbout five years ago we had a lengthy serious conversation about our situation. During the conversation I told her that I want her to have the pleasure of sex with other men as she chooses. She said she would try it.
As you might expect I am going through a wide variety of emotions, not the least of these being a great sexual excitement knowing that in 4 days he will, after all these years, be fucking my wife all afternoon. I welcome your comments and thoughts about this situation.
Bottom line: You are a very loving man. Your wife is extremely lucky to have you as her husband.
We all wish you a good journey. Handled well, this can work out well for both of you.
Keep us informed of what happens. And feel free to bring your emotional reactions here to share. Many of us have been through what you are about to undertake. You will not be alone.
Sharing your partner is a very loving act. Double her pleasure; double your fun.
Kevin Foster, The Three Marriage Enigmas: ". . . sex with a man other than her husband is simply the most erotic sex possible for a woman."
Kevin Foster, The Three Marriage Enigmas: ". . . sex with a man other than her husband is simply the most erotic sex possible for a woman."
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OMG my man, you're a great guy. First you put your wife first and she should be very lucky to have a man like you. There are not a lot of guys that will let his wife be fucked by another man. Secondly your such a lucky guy to have a wife that agree without hesitation to try the lifestyle.During the conversation I told her that I want her to have the pleasure of sex with other men as she chooses. She said she would try it.
I'm in the same boat and ED have set in due to medical reasons. So I suggested the lifestyle to the wife but it is a sure no! I really can't comment on the feelings one would get, but with the right mindset it could be wonderful for both of you. Good luck our fellow soon to be cuckold and please keep us updated. So that if it happens to use wannabe's we would know what to expect.
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My wife, Cecil, began her HW adventure when an accident
left me unable to have intercourse. So, with my permission her adventure began.
My point though is for you guys who think ED is the end of your sex life. I went through all the standard tests and meds (Viagra of varying strengths, Cialis, even injecting myself with trimix, but none proved reliable. Then, as a last resort, my urologist suggested a 3-part penile implant. I had nothing to lose at that point and, (since the procedure was covered by Medicare) I had it done. Now I have the ability to "pump one up" and enjoy penetrative sex whenever I choose, for as long as I choose. This has led to a renewed sex life with Cecil, but also being "loaned out" by my wife to h er girlfriends and other couples as a 3rd.
So, while this is a fun and sometimes easy way to ensure your wife is pleased, don't give up on remaining in play yourselves.
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My point though is for you guys who think ED is the end of your sex life. I went through all the standard tests and meds (Viagra of varying strengths, Cialis, even injecting myself with trimix, but none proved reliable. Then, as a last resort, my urologist suggested a 3-part penile implant. I had nothing to lose at that point and, (since the procedure was covered by Medicare) I had it done. Now I have the ability to "pump one up" and enjoy penetrative sex whenever I choose, for as long as I choose. This has led to a renewed sex life with Cecil, but also being "loaned out" by my wife to h er girlfriends and other couples as a 3rd.
So, while this is a fun and sometimes easy way to ensure your wife is pleased, don't give up on remaining in play yourselves.
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Hey, how did it go?
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Today is the day! She will be leaving in a couple of hours to head to his house. I've got a lot of emotions going on to deal with but I'm still happy for her to get the sexual pleasure she deserves. Stay tuned.
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Are you expecting any updates or pics sent your way, or likely radio silence so she can focus on experience without distraction?Reinhold 1947 wrote: ↑Fri Mar 01, 2024 8:36 amToday is the day! She will be leaving in a couple of hours to head to his house. I've got a lot of emotions going on to deal with but I'm still happy for her to get the sexual pleasure she deserves. Stay tuned.
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Definitely "radio silence" but I expect some information later tonight.
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Best wishes
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She just left for his place. Now the waiting begins...
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She's on the way home!
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How did things go?
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She said he ate her pussy for almost 2 hours. She has no idea how many times she came. I asked for pictures and she said she only has one that he took.
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Sounds fantastic! Did she tell you the full story. Would love to hear details.
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She didn't tell me anything else. I was very disappointed because she wouldn't say any more.
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I'm back with news.
They have met 4 times now. Last Sunday afternoon she told me was "really good!" She said he ate her pussy off and on for 3 hours. She also said she sucked his cock 3 times, swallowing his cum the last time. According to her they haven't fucked yet but that it's going to happen soon.
She has been a lot more forthcoming with the details of their times together so things seem to be moving forward nicely.
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They have met 4 times now. Last Sunday afternoon she told me was "really good!" She said he ate her pussy off and on for 3 hours. She also said she sucked his cock 3 times, swallowing his cum the last time. According to her they haven't fucked yet but that it's going to happen soon.
She has been a lot more forthcoming with the details of their times together so things seem to be moving forward nicely.
Stay tuned.
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She left this morning to spend the afternoon with him. I have the usual angst but it's getting easier
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Any updates?Reinhold 1947 wrote: ↑Fri Mar 15, 2024 11:06 amShe left this morning to spend the afternoon with him. I have the usual angst but it's getting easier
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Latest update: last week, during her first overnight with her BBC, she sent me a picture of her sucking his cock. It absolutely blew my mind to see my wife of so many years with her lips wrapped around the large head. I immediately took out my cock and masturbated until I came all over myself. Later last Wednesday afternoon she arrived back home. I was totally aroused and spent the evening laying with her.
Tomorrow (Tuesday) afternoon she will go to his house again for another sleepover. She'll return home again Wednesday afternoon and be happily fucked and full of his cum. I'll send details when I have them. Stay tuned![😉](//cdn.jsdelivr.net/emojione/assets/3.1/png/64/1f609.png)
Tomorrow (Tuesday) afternoon she will go to his house again for another sleepover. She'll return home again Wednesday afternoon and be happily fucked and full of his cum. I'll send details when I have them. Stay tuned
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It's Wednesday morning, around 6:30am. It's foggy outside, which makes it seem even quieter than usual.
She arrived at his house yesterday probably around 8. This city's evening traffic is terrible some days. I made it through the evening okay, slept good too. The morning time seems to be the most difficult so far. Knowing that she spent the night wrapped in his arms, naked. Knowing that they probably made love most of the night and will again when they wake. They actually could be doing that right now, I suppose.
The sun will be up soon and I'll be okay until she comes home this afternoon. It's just now, in the quiet of the pre-dawn, I miss her.
She arrived at his house yesterday probably around 8. This city's evening traffic is terrible some days. I made it through the evening okay, slept good too. The morning time seems to be the most difficult so far. Knowing that she spent the night wrapped in his arms, naked. Knowing that they probably made love most of the night and will again when they wake. They actually could be doing that right now, I suppose.
The sun will be up soon and I'll be okay until she comes home this afternoon. It's just now, in the quiet of the pre-dawn, I miss her.
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O man, that seems like a great thought. I'm jealous. Be proud of what you accomplished. I hope to be where you are soon.Reinhold 1947 wrote: ↑Wed Mar 27, 2024 2:54 amIt's Wednesday morning, around 6:30am. It's foggy outside, which makes it seem even quieter than usual.
She arrived at his house yesterday probably around 8. This city's evening traffic is terrible some days. I made it through the evening okay, slept good too. The morning time seems to be the most difficult so far. Knowing that she spent the night wrapped in his arms, naked. Knowing that they probably made love most of the night and will again when they wake. They actually could be doing that right now, I suppose.
The sun will be up soon and I'll be okay until she comes home this afternoon. It's just now, in the quiet of the pre-dawn, I miss her.
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Friday afternoon we took a shower together then spent the rest of the afternoon in the bedroom. She sucked my cock for the first time in several years then she masturbated for me while I watched. I gave her a massage then we went to dinner. After dinner she left for her bbc's house for the night
She said she would be back in the morning, full of his come for me to eat out of her. I look forward to that opportunity.
She said she would be back in the morning, full of his come for me to eat out of her. I look forward to that opportunity.
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How'd it go when she returned Wednesday? I feel like we missed something there.Reinhold 1947 wrote: ↑Fri Mar 29, 2024 5:28 pmFriday afternoon we took a shower together then spent the rest of the afternoon in the bedroom. She sucked my cock for the first time in several years then she masturbated for me while I watched. I gave her a massage then we went to dinner. After dinner she left for her bbc's house for the night
She said she would be back in the morning, full of his come for me to eat out of her. I look forward to that opportunity.
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When she returned she came into the bedroom and without saying a word stripped and got on the bed, spread her legs and smiled. I started licking and hie cum began to leak out of her as I licked . It was amazing!