Major breakthrough with my wife...

[HopefulCuckold619]

After being with my wife for almost 10 years, she's known about my cuckold fantasy about a few months into our relationship. It has always been a hard no for the typical reasons many of us have heard. Eventually she would reluctantly do things like watch cuck or interracial porn with me, dirty talk and role play, make up stories about her cheating but it would always crash and burn soon after because she can tell the difference in my arousal between vanilla sex and when we engage in hotwife fantasy.

It's been a hard long road for both of us but a few days ago during sex we were having an intense makeout session and I decided to take a leap. I asked her to tell me the sluttiest thing she's ever done and without hesitation she tells me about how she gave a mall employee her phone number and went out with him not too long after, he picked her up and took her to a park and they started to have sex. She said he had one of the biggest dicks she's ever had, so big she could barely fit it into her mouth and he had to spread her lips just to get it into her pussy. Needless to say I was so over the top horny hearing her tell me this. She even told me we drive by that park quite a bit(she naughtily won't tell me where it's at) and says she thinks about it every time. She said it felt painful but kind of good but he was so big she was afraid to see him anymore but admits she wishes she fucked him more.

I was in awe, I never heard my wife talk like this. This is the same woman that would always tell me big dicks were "gross" and I was the perfect size despite me telling her I know what that really means and of course she's had leg trembling orgasms with our huge BBC dildo that's about 9-10 inches (amazingly enough she said this hookup was BIGGER). She then told me she's been with 3 other hung guys but I'll have to wait to hear those stories. I decided to shoot my shot, I asked her for my birthday coming up in a few days if she would make an anonymous Tinder account and flirt with guys and send me screenshots, and if she'd like she can message them and share nudes while I go down on her. Amazingly enough she agreed on the conditions that she's won't meet anyone and her profile only stays up for a couple of days. I agreed and even later on told her she doesn't have to make a profile and I appreciate her telling me stories and putting up with my fantasy. She said she doesn't mind doing this for my birthday and other special occasions.

We're going to take some clothed yet slightly revealing photos in a couple of days, I even told her she doesn't have to chat with everyone, just guys she thinks are hot. If she's not feeling it then we can shut it down, she was very relieved and fully on board now. Does anyone have any advice on how to do this? Should we use Tinder? Are there better apps for chatting?

[Seekingmore12]

First congratulations on breaking through communicating!

At this point, as hard as it is, I would slow down a little and let this soak in, random park walks maybe in order. In addition read about some of the success and yes failure threads.

As for sites, tinder is more a hookup site while other like aff or sls maybe more suited…just an opinion of course.

As a baby step, perhaps post the pic here in the hotties section ( with her permission), I am sure she will get lots of comments and the audience is limited.

Adding your general location here may help as some have met the 3rd through here and if you could get her to join here, the wonderful ladies in the lounge could give her woman to woman advice.

G

[BBCfan]

After being with my wife for almost 10 years, she's known about my cuckold fantasy about a few months into our relationship. It has always been a hard no for the typical reasons many of us have heard. Eventually she would reluctantly do things like watch cuck or interracial porn with me, dirty talk and role play, make up stories about her cheating but it would always crash and burn soon after because she can tell the difference in my arousal between vanilla sex and when we engage in hotwife fantasy.

It's been a hard long road for both of us but a few days ago during sex we were having an intense makeout session and I decided to take a leap. I asked her to tell me the sluttiest thing she's ever done and without hesitation she tells me about how she gave a mall employee her phone number and went out with him not too long after, he picked her up and took her to a park and they started to have sex. She said he had one of the biggest dicks she's ever had, so big she could barely fit it into her mouth and he had to spread her lips just to get it into her pussy. Needless to say I was so over the top horny hearing her tell me this. She even told me we drive by that park quite a bit(she naughtily won't tell me where it's at) and says she thinks about it every time. She said it felt painful but kind of good but he was so big she was afraid to see him anymore but admits she wishes she fucked him more.

I was in awe, I never heard my wife talk like this. This is the same woman that would always tell me big dicks were "gross" and I was the perfect size despite me telling her I know what that really means and of course she's had leg trembling orgasms with our huge BBC dildo that's about 9-10 inches (amazingly enough she said this hookup was BIGGER). She then told me she's been with 3 other hung guys but I'll have to wait to hear those stories. I decided to shoot my shot, I asked her for my birthday coming up in a few days if she would make an anonymous Tinder account and flirt with guys and send me screenshots, and if she'd like she can message them and share nudes while I go down on her. Amazingly enough she agreed on the conditions that she's won't meet anyone and her profile only stays up for a couple of days. I agreed and even later on told her she doesn't have to make a profile and I appreciate her telling me stories and putting up with my fantasy. She said she doesn't mind doing this for my birthday and other special occasions.

We're going to take some clothed yet slightly revealing photos in a couple of days, I even told her she doesn't have to chat with everyone, just guys she thinks are hot. If she's not feeling it then we can shut it down, she was very relieved and fully on board now. Does anyone have any advice on how to do this? Should we use Tinder? Are there better apps for chatting?

All VERY hot.

That's kinda how my wife has agreed to potentially move forward. Special occasions and a treat once in awhile.
We'll see though/ifwhen the door opens as I know she has a sweet tooth.

Keep us informed how it ALL goes.

[CuriousHusband91941]

I asked her for my birthday coming up in a few days if she would make an anonymous Tinder account and flirt with guys and send me screenshots, and if she'd like she can message them and share nudes while I go down on her. Amazingly enough she agreed on the conditions that she's won't meet anyone and her profile only stays up for a couple of days. I agreed and even later on told her she doesn't have to make a profile and I appreciate her telling me stories and putting up with my fantasy. She said she doesn't mind doing this for my birthday and other special occasions.

We're going to take some clothed yet slightly revealing photos in a couple of days, I even told her she doesn't have to chat with everyone, just guys she thinks are hot. If she's not feeling it then we can shut it down, she was very relieved and fully on board now. Does anyone have any advice on how to do this? Should we use Tinder? Are there better apps for chatting?

This sounds really fun.
I do wish my wife would agree to something similar to this. No commitments, no actually meeting up, just some pics and flirtation via text.

[HopefulCuckold619]

[/quote]Keep us informed how it ALL goes.[/quote]

MAJOR, MAJOR update today! After another hot makeout session with a lot of rubbing and touching the subject of her profile and past experience stories came up again. After some hot talk about her cheating on me she stopped me and reiterated she would never do it in real life, just dirty talk. Normally when our dirty talk gets too real emotions will run high and we get into a heavy discussion but she was smiling while telling me this. We had the deepest conversation ever about cuckolding and I fully explained my emotions and why I'm turned on about this.

Long story short she now understands my desires and she even confessed that a few months ago during a dry spell of ours that she got hit on by a hot guy and was tempted to give her number out and possibly cheat on me. She felt bad because she wasn't satisfied and that's the only reason she would have done it. I told her I understand and I know I should be and can be better. We're going to work on ourselves first, learn and explore more about each other but she will definitely try it in the distant future. I even told her we don't need to dive in head first but if she ever finds herself in a situation where a guy she finds attractive hits on her she shouldn't miss out on a potential opportunity, she agreed and will keep an open mind. We feel so much closer than before!

[Seekingmore12]

This is very promising!

I still suggest she join here, she can learn lots here from others and may super charge things.

[HopefulCuckold619]

This is very promising!

I still suggest she join here, she can learn lots here from others and may super charge things.

I'll try and find a way to organically mention that, for now I'm going to pump the brakes a little though. We overcame a huge hurdle and I don't want to overwhelm her lol.

[Seekingmore12]

This is very promising!

I still suggest she join here, she can learn lots here from others and may super charge things.

I'll try and find a way to organically mention that, for now I'm going to pump the brakes a little though. We overcame a huge hurdle and I don't want to overwhelm her lol.

Awesome, the community of the verified hot wives is priceless as I and many others would attest.

Perhaps if you position this site as a community and not a hookup site etc, this community has been around a long time and many lessons are contained here.

I would suggest she avoids the cuck section at first, just the hotwife and wannabe maybe more appropriate….I don’t know why just sense it.

G

[wulfenus]

Hey I think you've got a hot situation going with the stories from her ! I'd love that too.
I would like to know more about how she met the guy? did she work at the mall, was
she just shopping? I think the setup to a story is hot, so that's why I ask.

Location sex is inspiring. love this random park walks comment haha. but it is true,
a good reminder for her, she has to think about it whenever she is there.

Our city has a small and really popular park with great views. Often a spot you would take visitors.
In college my wife worked at an outdoor bar/grill. One of the customers worked across
the street, he took her on a motorcycle ride up there late after work and fucked her
right there on the ground in the woods.

We'd been to the park several times before I knew the story, and since I learned
the tale, we also give each other a look, and she blushes.

random park walks maybe in order.

[HopefulCuckold619]

Hey I think you've got a hot situation going with the stories from her ! I'd love that too.
I would like to know more about how she met the guy? did she work at the mall, was
she just shopping? I think the setup to a story is hot, so that's why I ask.

Location sex is inspiring. love this random park walks comment haha. but it is true,
a good reminder for her, she has to think about it whenever she is there.

Our city has a small and really popular park with great views. Often a spot you would take visitors.
In college my wife worked at an outdoor bar/grill. One of the customers worked across
the street, he took her on a motorcycle ride up there late after work and fucked her
right there on the ground in the woods.

We'd been to the park several times before I knew the story, and since I learned
the tale, we also give each other a look, and she blushes.

random park walks maybe in order.

So she was shopping with her guy friends and he was an employee at the store she was at and he commented "I could have a lot of fun with you..." and asked for her number. She thought he was cute but she actually thought his comment was innocent, like she thought he meant fun as in dates lol. He picked her up and said he knew a spot, they went in the backseat and made out a little bit. He pulled out his huge cock and my wife said she was in shock, she was in her late teens and had only been with her ex high school BF prior to this and she said he was on the smaller side. She said he pushed her head down, she was trying to lick it and be cute but he grabbed her head and shoved as much cock as he could in her mouth but she could barely fit the head in her mouth. She said he was aggressive(in a hot way) and there was a lot of spit involved, he was also dick slapping her all over face. She's told me little bits of this experience but it gets me so rock hard hearing her talk so dirty. If you want more details please ask, my mind is a jumble so it's hard to keep everything straight because of how hot it is lol.

[HopefulCuckold619]

If anyone is curious, my wife has opened up so much more these past few days! I just found out she constantly thinks of her last ex (who I'll refer to as J) and she said he had the perfect cock and was so dominant and knew just how to fuck her. I asked her if he ever hit her up to meet would she do it and she said "I dunno...maybe?" I then asked if she thinks he would let me watch "I don't think he would. He'd definitely brag to you that he fucked me good, he always knew he fucked me good." Since then I've been bringing him up and she gets so wet and her pussy gets so relaxed, it's incredible. She likes thinking of him during sex and when she touches herself but she admitted the relationship was so toxic that she wouldn't consider hooking up with him again. She also confessed that J is the best dick and sex she's ever had and I'm on the bottom of the top 10 in every category except pussy eating and kissing (it was so hot to finally hear I don't even come close to her ex). She really enjoys talking about and thinking of other guys during sex and when she touches herself but she's still not ready to make the leap, she does like talking about how our first time will be. So far she wants a tall, cowboy type who's hung, thick and dominant.

[Jujube]

Omg, you two are close! Keep us in the loop!

[BBCfan]

Great updates.
Very hot to hear she still thinks about the big dicks and gets aroused by them.

Enjoy the fun and fantasy play. From my experience thus far, perhaps let her push the scenarios if possible.

[philxxo]

So far she wants a tall, cowboy type who's hung, thick and dominant.

This is all very hot! I can imagine that's what my wife would like too. A tall handsome cowboy who is hung well and more dominant than me.

I think your hopes are very promising. If you play your cards right, you will get there for sure.

[HopefulCuckold619]

We're still in the same spot, not complaining at all lol. She did ask if it would be a problem for me if she didn't sleep with another guy, if we just keep it to dirty talk. I told her I don't mind and I don't want to pressure her, but if an opportunity comes up and she's into it I'd love it if she took it. She said she's nervous because we've been together so long that almost forgot what it's like to be with someone else. I bought a strap on harness with a new thick dildo, she touched it and said it reminds her of J's cock...

[BBCfan]

Nice update.
Curious to hear how she likes the strap on. You should try a sheath if you haven't. It's a fun experience too. It feels like you're the bigger cock guy she's cuckolding you with, but also slightly humiliating to see her react more intensly, if that makes sense.

[HopefulCuckold619]

Nice update.
Curious to hear how she likes the strap on. You should try a sheath if you haven't. It's a fun experience too. It feels like you're the bigger cock guy she's cuckolding you with, but also slightly humiliating to see her react more intensly, if that makes sense.

I have one but I find that once I lose my hard-on during sex it just becomes floppy and useless lol. However the first time I used a cock ring months ago(before my wife started sharing my cuckold fantasy) when I first put it in she literally said "Holy fuck you feel so much bigger!" I asked her after a few pumps if she liked it and she screamed "I fucking love it, you feel so different!" So incredible hearing her say that. She said she felt so bad saying it lol.

[HopefulCuckold619]

Nice update.
Curious to hear how she likes the strap on. You should try a sheath if you haven't. It's a fun experience too. It feels like you're the bigger cock guy she's cuckolding you with, but also slightly humiliating to see her react more intensly, if that makes sense.

So she loved, loved, LOVED the strap-on!!! She said it felt very real, like it freaked her out how much she liked it. While fucking her I asked her if she'll cheat on me with a big dick and she said "I'm definitely considering it way more now!" She came multiple times and said she wants that dildo every day now lol. We went to a family birthday party at we had fun and she pulled me aside to tell me that she's randomly just getting wet!

[BBCfan]

Nice update.
Curious to hear how she likes the strap on. You should try a sheath if you haven't. It's a fun experience too. It feels like you're the bigger cock guy she's cuckolding you with, but also slightly humiliating to see her react more intensly, if that makes sense.

So she loved, loved, LOVED the strap-on!!! She said it felt very real, like it freaked her out how much she liked it. While fucking her I asked her if she'll cheat on me with a big dick and she said "I'm definitely considering it way more now!" She came multiple times and said she wants that dildo every day now lol. We went to a family birthday party at we had fun and she pulled me aside to tell me that she's randomly just getting wet!

Damn! That's awesome. Very hot update.

[HopefulCuckold619]

Nice update.
Curious to hear how she likes the strap on. You should try a sheath if you haven't. It's a fun experience too. It feels like you're the bigger cock guy she's cuckolding you with, but also slightly humiliating to see her react more intensly, if that makes sense.

So she loved, loved, LOVED the strap-on!!! She said it felt very real, like it freaked her out how much she liked it. While fucking her I asked her if she'll cheat on me with a big dick and she said "I'm definitely considering it way more now!" She came multiple times and said she wants that dildo every day now lol. We went to a family birthday party at we had fun and she pulled me aside to tell me that she's randomly just getting wet!

Damn! That's awesome. Very hot update.

I couldn't get over how she kept saying how amazing it was. She said that was exactly what she needed, afterward I even pointed out to her that I've never made her cum or react like that. I asked her if that's what it's like with J and she said "...pretty much." Lol.

[BBCfan]

Nice update.
Curious to hear how she likes the strap on. You should try a sheath if you haven't. It's a fun experience too. It feels like you're the bigger cock guy she's cuckolding you with, but also slightly humiliating to see her react more intensly, if that makes sense.

So she loved, loved, LOVED the strap-on!!! She said it felt very real, like it freaked her out how much she liked it. While fucking her I asked her if she'll cheat on me with a big dick and she said "I'm definitely considering it way more now!" She came multiple times and said she wants that dildo every day now lol. We went to a family birthday party at we had fun and she pulled me aside to tell me that she's randomly just getting wet!

Damn! That's awesome. Very hot update.

I couldn't get over how she kept saying how amazing it was. She said that was exactly what she needed, afterward I even pointed out to her that I've never made her cum or react like that. I asked her if that's what it's like with J and she said "...pretty much." Lol.

Damn, hot reaction and revelation.
How did you take that? All arousal or a bit of a knock to the ego too?

I know when I saw my wife react to the big sheath it was pretty humbling...like "damn, I can't make her moan and cum like that!" Was another level of arousal I hadn't witnessed in her before.

I'm sure with her huge dick fuck buddy it would be even more intense. Not sure I'd be ready to witness that.

What do feel now about witnessing another guy doing that too her? Still only intense arousal you think.

[HopefulCuckold619]

So she loved, loved, LOVED the strap-on!!! She said it felt very real, like it freaked her out how much she liked it. While fucking her I asked her if she'll cheat on me with a big dick and she said "I'm definitely considering it way more now!" She came multiple times and said she wants that dildo every day now lol. We went to a family birthday party at we had fun and she pulled me aside to tell me that she's randomly just getting wet!

Damn! That's awesome. Very hot update.

I couldn't get over how she kept saying how amazing it was. She said that was exactly what she needed, afterward I even pointed out to her that I've never made her cum or react like that. I asked her if that's what it's like with J and she said "...pretty much." Lol.

Damn, hot reaction and revelation.
How did you take that? All arousal or a bit of a knock to the ego too?

I know when I saw my wife react to the big sheath it was pretty humbling...like "damn, I can't make her moan and cum like that!" Was another level of arousal I hadn't witnessed in her before.

I'm sure with her huge dick fuck buddy it would be even more intense. Not sure I'd be ready to witness that.

What do feel now about witnessing another guy doing that too her? Still only intense arousal you think.

It was definitely hot and a knock at the same time, I'm pretty self deprecating and for the longest time I've told her she needs big dick so I guess I really feel vindicated if that makes sense? I forgot to mention that her old FWB is off the table, she told me she was just getting intense with her dirty talk. She doesn't mind bringing him up during sex but he's in the past and will stay there it seems. I think I can definitely take watching her same reaction with a big dicked stranger though, I feel very confident and secure with our relationship that I know she can separate our love from sex with a stranger.