Asking GF to watch porn went wrong!

[Fapster69]

Great update and great progress. That dildo looks huge!

This is the one I got for my wife, which she was intimidated by at first, but now loves: https://www.fukena.com/millionaire.html

We tried to use it last week but it wouldn't fit! We didn't have any lube though!

It was so close to popping in! I think it will easily fit if we get some lube!

I can't believe it! I've hidden this fantasy for years and now my GF is actively participating and taking huge black dildos! Someone pinch me!

[snoogaloo82]

Great update and great progress. That dildo looks huge!

This is the one I got for my wife, which she was intimidated by at first, but now loves: https://www.fukena.com/millionaire.html

We tried to use it last week but it wouldn't fit! We didn't have any lube though!

It was so close to popping in! I think it will easily fit if we get some lube!

I can't believe it! I've hidden this fantasy for years and now my GF is actively participating and taking huge black dildos! Someone pinch me!

pinches you!!

[trecital]

Yeah, pinch him.

[Fapster69]

Well I got some lube and we tried again! She's never had anything bigger than me so I put it in as gently as I could. The thing was absolutely drowning in lube and it was still a struggle to get it in!

Like I said before, she's very vanilla and never owned a dildo before. She doesn't even masturbate! I couldn't believe my eyes that I was watching her pleasure herself with this huge black dildo!

She said it was too big but I coached her through it and low and behold she had half of it inside of her! The dildo is moulded from a black pornstar so I told her she has officially taken another mans cock!

She told me it was rubbing her on the inside and she was close to finishing! I think I've given her a vaginal orgasm maybe once in the 10 years we've been together so to hear her say this was incredible! Other guys might have gotten jealous but it made me rock hard! I guess I am a cuckold after all!

I told her she can't finish before he does and he wants to finish balls deep, so she went as deep as she could and I watched her orgasm!

We're going to a hotel for a new year party and I said we will have a friend coming with us (the dildo)!

[snoogaloo82]

Well I got some lube and we tried again! She's never had anything bigger than me so I put it in as gently as I could. The thing was absolutely drowning in lube and it was still a struggle to get it in!

Like I said before, she's very vanilla and never owned a dildo before. She doesn't even masturbate! I couldn't believe my eyes that I was watching her pleasure herself with this huge black dildo!

She said it was too big but I coached her through it and low and behold she had half of it inside of her! The dildo is moulded from a black pornstar so I told her she has officially taken another mans cock!

She told me it was rubbing her on the inside and she was close to finishing! I think I've given her a vaginal orgasm maybe once in the 10 years we've been together so to hear her say this was incredible! Other guys might have gotten jealous but it made me rock hard! I guess I am a cuckold after all!

I told her she can't finish before he does and he wants to finish balls deep, so she went as deep as she could and I watched her orgasm!

We're going to a hotel for a new year party and I said we will have a friend coming with us (the dildo)!

It sounds like you have found your FWB's! lol And you don't have to do anything but lube it up! lol

[Fapster69]

It’s great how much progress you’ve made, but please take it slow. I have been with my wife for many, many years and have had many successes and setbacks. Sometimes I’d get carried away and take it too far, and it would shut things down for a long time.

Well I should have taken your guys advice about not pushing it too much because I have killed it stone dead again!!

We were having a good session until I brought up my fantasy of watching her with another guy again, but this time I was more serious about it!

It totally spooked her and she said that's not what her idea of a relationship is! She wants to be with one guy and one guy only! Why would I want to watch her with other men if anything I should be protecting her from other men... She's not wrong and the only response in my head is "I think it would be hot!" which I keep to myself as that would definitely not help the situation!

She said she will never have sex with another man and I will just have to accept it! She will continue playing along with everything else, just don't bring up having sex with someone else!

[Shiphead]

I think you should think things through and have a plan and some answers prepared for her when she questions your motives. To order a huge dildo without buying lube shows you are not thinking things through any further than your fantasy and enjoyment.
The way I approached it when she wanted to know why I would want to see her in a threesome with me or to watch her with someone else was to tell her that I loved watching her have an orgasm. I said that seeing her enjoying herself just makes me explode. She looks so sexy to me when she cums.
I said I wish I could continue fucking her and watching her enjoy herself but when she cums it makes me cum. Guys are at a disadvantage because we need to get hard and stay hard whereas women just needed to stay well lubed and she, like many women was multi--orgasmic. I said another woman would be useless for me because I would just disappoint her. My wife was more than I needed because she made me cum so easily.
So I thought it would be fun to have another guy to trade off and keep her coming or that I could orgasm just watching her with someone else. It was all about her enjoyment and the fact I can get my enjoyment from her.
Well, I dragged that explaination on too long so I'll stop. Lastly on the question about losing her to someone who had a bigger cock or was better in bed than me, I'd say if sex was the reason I lost her, then we shouldn't be together anyway. I have a lot more going on in life that fits with her lifestyle and needs. Most guys who are great in bed and have huge cocks aren't usually the relationship types. And if she could have my stability and get fucked silly, it's a win win.

[Fapster69]

The way I approached it when she wanted to know why I would want to see her in a threesome with me or to watch her with someone else was to tell her that I loved watching her have an orgasm. I said that seeing her enjoying herself just makes me explode. She looks so sexy to me when she cums.
I said I wish I could continue fucking her and watching her enjoy herself but when she cums it makes me cum.

Lastly on the question about losing her to someone who had a bigger cock or was better in bed than me, I'd say if sex was the reason I lost her, then we shouldn't be together anyway. I have a lot more going on in life that fits with her lifestyle and needs. Most guys who are great in bed and have huge cocks aren't usually the relationship types. And if she could have my stability and get fucked silly, it's a win win.

I already said all that and she said she gets why I like it but it's still not for her!

I said am I not good enough in bed that your scared you'd run away with the new guy? She said that's definitely not it either!

Basically it all boils down to her thinking a relationship should be between two people and that's it!

I said what if I had asked if I could sleep with other women would you have reacted the same and she said yeah they are both cheating in her eyes, even though I said I'd be okay with it it's still cheating to her!

[Bluetoed]

The way I approached it when she wanted to know why I would want to see her in a threesome with me or to watch her with someone else was to tell her that I loved watching her have an orgasm. I said that seeing her enjoying herself just makes me explode. She looks so sexy to me when she cums.
I said I wish I could continue fucking her and watching her enjoy herself but when she cums it makes me cum.

Lastly on the question about losing her to someone who had a bigger cock or was better in bed than me, I'd say if sex was the reason I lost her, then we shouldn't be together anyway. I have a lot more going on in life that fits with her lifestyle and needs. Most guys who are great in bed and have huge cocks aren't usually the relationship types. And if she could have my stability and get fucked silly, it's a win win.

I already said all that and she said she gets why I like it but it's still not for her!

I said am I not good enough in bed that your scared you'd run away with the new guy? She said that's definitely not it either!

Basically it all boils down to her thinking a relationship should be between two people and that's it!

I said what if I had asked if I could sleep with other women would you have reacted the same and she said yeah they are both cheating in her eyes, even though I said I'd be okay with it it's still cheating to her!

My wife and I only do the fantasy. Neither one of us is willing to move it into reality. But we've talked a ton about why I totally get my rocks off on this.

When I told her that it totally turns me on to think of her having sex with someone else, but it totally scares me to death to think of her making love with someone else, that really registered with her. She (and I think many women) don't distinguish between the two. But she can understand that I (and perhaps most men) see a distinct difference between having sex and making love.

You two might be talking past each other because you aren't using the same views of sex.

[Shiphead]

Others have said it many times and I agree that the fantasy can be just as much fun as reality. What is the saying about its not about the destination but is about the journey?

[Fapster69]

I’ve been laying low for a while! Trying to think how to bring it up again!

I might ask her to watch some porn during sexytime tonight.

Will making her cum while watching BBC porn train her mind into getting turned on by it?

[Statein88]

I’ve been laying low for a while! Trying to think how to bring it up again!

I might ask her to watch some porn during sexytime tonight.

Will making her cum while watching BBC porn train her mind into getting turned on by it?

It’s been said already, but women typically like a different kind of visual. I mean they CAN find the stuff we like hot, but they like more intimate and romantic settings a lot of the time. For my lady it’s about the slow buildup and anticipation, and scenes that have those elements tend to work better with their psyches. A gentle and slow approach to this is almost always going to bear more fruit. There are some “for women by women” scenes out there that she might like better but it’s still highlighting the HW elements.

[leggysman]

There are some “for women by women” scenes out there that she might like better but it’s still highlighting the HW elements.

I like those ones better myself. Not for any goofy storyline or "acting", but because the sex is sexier and more realistic, IMHO. I'm such a girl

It's easier for me to imagine my leggysandy as the woman in those scenes.

[Statein88]

There are some “for women by women” scenes out there that she might like better but it’s still highlighting the HW elements.

I like those ones better myself. Not for any goofy storyline or "acting", but because the sex is sexier and more realistic, IMHO. I'm such a girl

It's easier for me to imagine my leggysandy as the woman in those scenes.

I’m much more tolerant of them now too. Anything for the ladies in our lives.

[Abrandnewstart194]

Unfortunately, porn tends to fall into one of two camps. Either it’s instant hardcore, or it’s “woman friendly”, which usually means interminable bad acting to establish the scene and mood. My Queen and I often joke about one of the latter, in which a girl is going for one-one-one yoga instruction. The transition from mind-numbingly stupid conversation to sex occurs when one girl pouts to the other that “My BOOBS are TOO BIG!”

Lesbian commiseration promptly ensues.

This is what happens when men try to write sexy dialogue for women.

[Fapster69]

So I did what I planned and pulled it off!

We were sitting on the sofa getting handsy and when she was warmed up I suggested we put some porn on for background noise. She said okay so I carefully selected an early 2000's BBC video with a slow build up.

She never watched porn like a lot of women so I think she gets a little awkward and comments on things in the video to try and distract from the fact she's watching a porno!

The guy was worshipping her buttcheeks at the start of the video and I said, "that's what I do to you, I could play with your ass for days!!" She said, "are all guys like this?" and I was like yeah pretty much!

When she started riding him you could see her juice on his BBC and my GF commented, "is that what it's like when we have sex?" and I said, "yeah but you notice it more in this because of the contrast!"

At this point I then put a hotwife video on from hotyogawife. The video was in a hotel room and my GF says can we skip the build ups because they make her cringe! I said okay and skipped forward a little, again the guy in this video was playing with her asscheeks and my girlfriend commented on the womans pants and said they are hideous! I said, "yeah you would have a sexy bodysuit on instead" and she agreed!

Whenever me and my GF have hotel nights she either wears a g-string or some sort of sexy bodysuit.

She was still roasting the production of the video and said they must not be worth much, I was like damn she is savage! Then she seen that it said onlyfans at the bottom corner and said, "nevermind they probably have loads! " She then made a comment about how she thinks if the people in the video were people she knew in real life she would definitely recognise them even though their faces were blurred. I said, "nah you could wear a mask or something and noone would ever know! "

At this point she then said, "what do they just get some random guy to film them having sex?"

She literally never realized that it was a hotwife video or she was just in denial. I played dumb and said, "I think it's the husband that's filming, yeah, she's called hotyogawife so it must be!".

We watched a good amount of this video with the wife riding the black dude and several times my girlfriend moved my hand because "I touched a sensitive bit." She was soaking the entire time I was touching her and was on the verge of cumming several times and me "touching a sensitive bit" was her defence mechanism because she was on the verge of cumming to a hotwife video!

The final video I put on was another hotyogawife video, one of her first I think, where she is fucking a black guy in a swingers club. You can hear loads of people talking in the background while they are fucking and my girlfriend said, "where the hell are they?" I played dumb again and said, "I think they must just be in an apartment close to a club or resturaunt or something?"

The black guy was wearing a straw hat and my girlfriend kept commenting on his silly hat! I said I was going to buy one for myself!

Midway through this video the husband tells her to take the condom off and she slaps him and says no she, "doesn't want a baby!" My girlfriend couldn't hear the guy and said, "what did he say?" So I said, "he told her to take it off."

I then skipped to the part in the video where he actually takes the condom off and fucks her. Still touching my girlfriend the entire time I thought this would be a good time to finish her off so I sped up and she came watching this wife taking it raw from a BBC.

She then climbed on top of me and finished me off while you could hear the wife getting fucked in the background!

Another success among many setbacks! I forgot to mention we were stonecold sober this time which makes it even more of a success!

When we were going to sleep later that night I had a boner because I was thinking about earlier and said, "sorry if it pokes you I was just thinking about earlier!" and she said, "yeah that was good wasn't it! "

[wulfenus]

Man that is great to get such participation from her

[hwlurker88]

That is outstanding! I'm rooting for you!

[Fapster69]

So on Saturday after a few drinks we were having sex and she asked to have normal sex with no toys or anything. I said, “I’ll make you a deal, let’s have normal sex tonight and we can watch another video tomorrow?” and she agreed!

Well on Sunday morning I said, “Do you remember our deal?” and she said yeah!… ”

First I put on the following Big Wet Asses scene with Nathan Threat and Miss Lady.

https://spankbang.com/68ode/video/big+b ... iss+lady+1

It took my girlfriend a couple of minutes to get wet this time, but when she started sucking his BBC my girlfriend started to get wet!

I said to her, “Something about it just looks good doesn’t it? The black against white?” and she said, “yeah I get what you mean!” Another seed planted!

After this video it was time to plant the hotwife seed once again. I put a video on from the hotwife LaceyNorth where she is fucking a BBC in a hotel room with her husband filming, much like the HotYogaWife one we watched on Friday night.

Again, like she did on Friday, she said she definitely thinks she would recognise the people in the video if she knew them.

LaceyNorth wears a balaclava in her videos and I said to my girlfriend, "The world is a big place, noone would ever find out if you're careful enough!"

She was asking a lot more questions this time like, “How do they even find these guys? What type of guy would want to do something like this, they must be sketchy to want to do this!” and I said, “What type of guy WOULDN’T want to fuck someone's hot wife! ”

I’ve done my research on different forums, so I told her that obviously you would vet people beforehand and meet up with them first, you wouldn’t just meet them in a hotel straight away!

She said, “That sounds like a lot of hassle!” and then asked about STD’s. I told her, “Obviously you would make sure they have recently been tested!”

I continued playing with her during the video and at one point the wife starts creaming all over the bulls cock. My girlfriend again said what she said the other day, “Is that what it looks like when we have sex?” I said, “Well yeah, but I don’t get you anywhere near as wet as her! This guy is obviously doing a good job! ”

At one point in the video the bull is fucking her doggystyle while her husband has his cock in her mouth, so I said, “Do you think you could handle that?” and she said, “It looks like hard work! ”

After the video ended we started having sex and when she was riding me I put a finger in her mouth and said, “do you like sucking something while getting fucked?” and she let out a big moan! The thought of it clearly turns her on but she is struggling to get past the taboo of it all I think!

After my previous setbacks I think I’m making good progress again!! I feel like overall we’re slowly progressing despite these setbacks! The fact she is asking logistical questions is surely a good thing? It means she’s been thinking about it? She always gets soaking wet when we're watching these videos so the idea must definitely turn her on!

[hwlurker88]

I'm not a husband of an official hotwife, but from my perspective I do think you have to view the logistical questions by her as a somewhat positive sign. I wouldn't necessarily say she is thinking about doing it herself yet. Sometime questions are just questions. But I do think she enjoys your porn selections and suggestive ideas. If she is anything like my wife, enjoy this moment, but be ready for her to pull back at any moment and say "but I'd never do that ever". Everyone is different. I'm rooting for you!!

[Fapster69]

but be ready for her to pull back at any moment and say "but I'd never do that ever".

It’s happened a few times already! She said she will never do it but keeps playing along with the fantasy every time I bring it up!

She was out with one of her female friends last week and told me that she told her we had started using toys and felt guilty because of her semi-religious upbringing.

Her friend reassured her and said she knows a few long term couples in the same position who are spicing up their sex life!

Thank you friend!!

I said I hope you didn’t tell her about my fetish and she said absolutely not that is between us!

[leggysman]

The fact she is asking logistical questions is surely a good thing? It means she’s been thinking about it?

Quite possibly In our case, I believe the time between leggysandy pondering these questions, and her decision to go for it, was just a few weeks

[Fapster69]

Also a random semi-unrelated tip for people. My girlfriend was scrolling through instagram and on the tab where you see random things there was a ripped bodybuilder guy. I got her to click on it then insta started suggesting more and more of them because it was clicked on!

A black bodybuilder appeared and I started clicking on them for a laugh and now they keep popping up as suggested posts!

We were sitting yesterday and she said to me, “my phone is listening to our conversations! ”, she doesn’t realize it’s because we clicked on so many that it has conditioned her instagram to show ripped black dudes!

Hopefully she keeps looking when I’m not with her!

[Fapster69]

So another successfull weekend in trying to convert my girlfriend!

On Friday night when we were mid foreplay I smoothly made a comment about how I hadn't taken any pics of her booty in a while.

I asked if I could test out my new phone camera and she made me a deal this time! She said, "If we have normal sex tonight then I'll let you take some pictures tomorrow! " Success!

Well Saturday came around and we had an amazing day together. Night time came and we were both tired to the point none of us could be bothered having sex.

I couldn't even be bothered taking sexy pics of her so you know I was tired! I know she gets nervous about these things so I said, "How how about we postpone the booty pics till next week?" and she agreed!

I didn't want the night to end in a total defeat so I opened BlacktoWhite.com while we were lying in bed watching TV.

My girlfriend had drunkenly allowed me to post one of her nudes on here a few months ago so I opened the website on my phone and showed her some of the comments. There were multiple black dudes complimenting her ass, I could tell she was a little impressed at the reaction she had gotten.

I then started scrolling through the media section showing her the kind of people who post on the site. A couple of times she said, "There's no way that guy is real!" to some of the ripped guys and I clicked on their profile and it showed they had been verified as real!

I then went to the videos section and started clicking on random videos.

The first video I clicked on was this...
https://www.blacktowhite.net/data/xfmg/ ... 32ab67.mov

She said, "Whos's Gary? Oh, it's obviously the boyfriend! " A good reaction to the first video!

The next one I put on was this...
https://www.blacktowhite.net/data/xfmg/ ... 58003d.mp4

When the guy took the condom off she said, "Why even put it on in the first place!" An interesting reaction?

The final video I put on was this one...
https://www.blacktowhite.net/data/xfmg/ ... 009c8a.mp4

She seemed to perk up the most at this one. Probably because it wasn't in a dingy hotel room! She didn't comment much but I could tell she was watching curiously through tired eyes!

I actually have another WanderingWife video saved on my phone so when the one on B2W ended I sneakily opened the one on my phone and flicked through it to the action. I don't know if she released a series of videos on this boat but in the video on my phone she is in the same bikini and on the same boat but it's a different scene.

At the end of this video the bull creampies her in missionary and you see it drip out. I said to my girlfriend, "That's risky! She must be on the pill though so I guess it would be fine!" and she didn't say anything.

The entire time I was showing my GF these videos my cock was rock hard and she had rubbed her leg against it a few times. I said, "Are you doing that deliberately?" and she said, "No! ".

I was leaking precum from the excitement so I got up to go to the bathroom. When I walked back in still rock hard I made a joke saying, "Look at what you do to me!" and she laughed. I got in bed and lay next to her and said, "Well I'm looking forward to this photoshoot next week!" and she backed her ass into me. I could tell she was trying to initiate even though we said earlier that we were too tired!

The entire time I was showing her these videos she was acting as if she was half asleep only looking at them occasionally when I made a comment about what was happening!

Well I reached down and touched her pussy and she was SOAKING WET! I said, "I thought you weren't really watching!" and she just gave me a little smirk! I said, "You loved that speedboat one didn't you!" and she just kept smirking and let out the most insincere "nope" you've ever heard in your life!

Long story short we started fucking and when we were close to finishing I said in her ear "You wish you were on that boat don't you?" No reply.

I then said, "You wish it was you taking that load in your pussy don't you!" She moaned heavily and said she was going to finish then I came inside her not long after!

Another amazing success if I do say so myself!

Before we went to sleep she said she, "as long as you don't try and force me to sleep with another guy!" and I said, "I would never force you to do anything!"

[BBCfan]

Hot hot updates and great video selections. That last one was exceptional!