Babysteps,eating my own cream pie?advice?

[Sharedinnj]

What about this is arousing to women? Feels good? Cleans you up? Psychology? I almost tried it the other night but She said are you sure you want to, its all sweaty, then I back peddled. Is it one of those things where she will want it again? How do I make sure? Any special techniques? Seriously, im THAT VANILLA..LOL

[Nothing2see]

What about this is arousing to women? Feels good? Cleans you up? Psychology? I almost tried it the other night but She said are you sure you want to, its all sweaty, then I back peddled. Is it one of those things where she will want it again? How do I make sure? Any special techniques? Seriously, im THAT VANILLA..LOL

Can't say I ever gave it a thought before, I started doing it as part of our sex play in order to finish her off if I came first. Always loved the taste, and it offers a lead-up to round 2 (or 3 or 4).

[Stg-Vx-36]

I haven’t really tried cleaning her up yet. However, my wife shares the cum with me after a blowjob sometimes. We think is hot and suits well into the fantasy.

[Tracescuck]

I think it’s all 3 as you suggest. I’m not a woman, but I’m pretty sure it feels good. As good as any oral can feel if not better I would think. I think it’s probably also a psychological thing too. It’s hot! She’ll probably realize it’s hot too. I had seen it In some of the porn we’ve watched and thought it was hot as well. Ultimately, in my mind, me doing it to her after another lover should signal to her my total acceptance of her enjoying the gift of this lifestyle and her taking a FB.
I will say this, for me, it takes very little to talk me out of doing it after I’ve cum, the excitement of the idea dies exponentially with time. So, eat up while it’s still hot! I’ve even told her about this and that if she wants me to do it, tell me or make me do it as my interest in it drops pretty quickly. I actually enjoy the taste, what a pleasurable mix of us both. As far as sweaty, ahh, I don’t know about that. We are usually freshly showered when we play, so she’s pretty fresh other than my zesty secret sauce.
I think once you do it once, she will like it. She might not tell you she does, or maybe she will, just let her know you enjoyed it should you decide to make the trip to Snack Canyon.
Surprise her and go for it and report back. That is your mission should you choose to accept!

[Bent_n_Twisted]

What about this is arousing to women? Feels good? Cleans you up? Psychology? I almost tried it the other night but She said are you sure you want to, its all sweaty, then I back peddled. Is it one of those things where she will want it again? How do I make sure? Any special techniques? Seriously, im THAT VANILLA..LOL

My wife says that having her pussy licked when it's full of cum feels much better than when it's not. She also enjoys 'being naughty' and the feeling of power she gets from sitting on my face and *making* me do something so 'naughty'. She has done it to me quite a number of times, she likes it a lot. She was the one who started it. When she wants it, she always makes sure that I am tied/cuffed/restrained before she tells me she's going to [make me] do it- I don't get a choice or a chance to 'backpedal', she wants it, she's going to get it, and if I resist she pulls my hair or pulls/slaps squeezes my nuts until I start licking.

She was the one who started it, and when she wants it she doesn't let anything stop her from getting it. Maybe you should ask your wife to tie you up first, so that you *can't* 'chicken out'. She can ride your cock and then ride your face. I find it extremely exciting when my wife has me restrained and she tells me that she is going to make me lick the cum out of her pussy, it's an incredible thrill to know that she wants it, she's going to do it, and that I can't stop her or get away.

[HottieTrace]

What about this is arousing to women? Feels good? Cleans you up? Psychology? I almost tried it the other night but She said are you sure you want to, its all sweaty, then I back peddled. Is it one of those things where she will want it again? How do I make sure? Any special techniques? Seriously, im THAT VANILLA..LOL

Hi! I remember the first time I told my hubby to clean me up after we made love. It was so hot and he was amazed that I asked! I did not think about being hot and sweaty but rather the control over him while he tasted us both was amazing! I think he was still hard for an hour after and thanked me for allowing him to pleasure me again. He kissed me deeply when he was done and I knew the clean up was for us!

My thought is to not back peddle! Sweaty or not You need to do this for her. If she does not like it, fine, but it’s hot!

[bjn1]

What about this is arousing to women? Feels good? Cleans you up? Psychology? I almost tried it the other night but She said are you sure you want to, its all sweaty, then I back peddled. Is it one of those things where she will want it again? How do I make sure? Any special techniques? Seriously, im THAT VANILLA..LOL

I never eat my own creampie but I have eaten my cum before. But eating you your own cum is hard enough if you dont do it immediately. I would say that eating your own creampie is even harder. unless you have sheer will power as your hormones subsides after you cum.

[Cosmic]

Cleaning up after yourself is very difficult the first time, but it gets easier and easier the more you do it.

As I'm sure everyone here is aware, the difficulty comes from the fact that no matter how excited you were about it when you were horny, the desire to go down on your wife/partner evaporates immediately after you have just cum inside her. But it's definitely worth it, trust me, and once you have trained yourself to do it you will learn to love it. It's a win-win for both parties.

As ever, the key is communication. You must start by sharing your desire to do this with your partner, despite how the nuances of the post-coital comedown are going to make it hard for you initially. Tell her that you really want to do it but that you might feel differently in the heat of the moment, and you will regret it if you don't go ahead with it. This is all part of creating your commitment to go ahead with it, because the last thing you want to happen is that you've told her that you want to do it (especially if she thinks it's a bit icky but is going along with it anyway to make you happy) and then you get cold feet. I've been there and it sucks; half an hour later you feel like such a failure. In contrast, the feeling you get when you do push through and do your duty for the first time is one of elation. You'll be so proud of yourself.

The critical point, obviously, is when you have just finished cumming and you're both there waiting for what happens next. She's wondering if you're actually going to go ahead with it and at that moment it's not what you want do at all. If it's down to you to pull out and then go down on her then it's probably not going to happen, so part of the conversation you have beforehand is that she is going to make you do it. If she's not got much of a dominant streak that's not going to be easy for her, but you need to include this in the brief for all the reasons we've already covered. The best way is to tell her (in advance) to sit on your face afterwards. This way the onus is no longer on you to initiate the act but on her, and all you have to do is suppress the desire to resist, which is a hundred times easier.

This in turn is easier if she was on top when you came. All she has to do is shuffle a long a bit and get on your face. And it doesn't have to be right away either; I actually prefer it if we've been there enjoying the moment for a couple of minutes before she moves in for the cleanup.

I've been on the whole journey with this and I can't overstate how rewarding it has been. We've gone from her thinking it was a bit odd to genuinely enjoying it; she now tells me without any prompting that I will have to lick her out afterwards (partly because she knows that will make me cum) and it's become easy for me too. I can now go down on her afterwards without any hesitation because I know how much I've learned to enjoy it. My experience is that it tastes great too, because it's nothing like eating your own cum on its own. The combination of your juices and hers will have a very different flavour, one that I find to be tangy and almost fizzy. It becomes a craving in itself.

Best of luck on your quest!

[Bent_n_Twisted]

Cleaning up after yourself is very difficult the first time, but it gets easier and easier the more you do it.

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I've been on the whole journey with this and I can't overstate how rewarding it has been. We've gone from her thinking it was a bit odd to genuinely enjoying it; she now tells me without any prompting that I will have to lick her out afterwards (partly because she knows that will make me cum) and it's become easy for me too. I can now go down on her afterwards without any hesitation because I know how much I've learned to enjoy it. My experience is that it tastes great too, because it's nothing like eating your own cum on its own. The combination of your juices and hers will have a very different flavour, one that I find to be tangy and almost fizzy. It becomes a craving in itself.

No matter how many times I do it, it doesn't get easier for me. And I hate the taste. My cum tastes nasty enough on its own, it tastes even worse when mixed with her pussy juice.

But it's still super hot when she says she's going to do it again. I hate it, but it's a hugely erotic turn-on that she likes to make me do it anyway.

[beta65ohio]

Eating my own cream pie took years for me to work up the nerve. I didn't give my wife much of an option. During one of our sex sessions I came almost immediately after penetrating her. I apologized to her and told her I would make up for it with my tongue...which I did. She loved it and now almost everytime we have sex she lays down on her back, spreads her legs, and my tongue goes to work. I think she just expects it now, and I love it.

[Lkncouple]

I have done this more than a few times. Like most after I cum, I lose the desire. I am not sure that my wife enjoys me eating the creampie as much as once she has her orgasm, she can just lay back and relax and not worry about me cumming. So when I decide I am going to do it, I tell her so that locks me in to do it. She normally only cums from oral (Specifically me eating her and blowing on her clit with my lips closed so it make a "motorboat" sound). When I do this she goes wild. Once I tell her I am going to do it and I cum, then there is not turning back and I have to take care of her. If I really lose my nerve, I can just stay on clit and a lot of cum doesn't get in my mouth. However, I have asked her to be on top when I cum, and afterwards she sits on my face, and I end up eating most of my cum. The first time is the hardest and you just have to push through it.

[dcdb]

Cleaning up after yourself is very difficult the first time, but it gets easier and easier the more you do it.

As I'm sure everyone here is aware, the difficulty comes from the fact that no matter how excited you were about it when you were horny, the desire to go down on your wife/partner evaporates immediately after you have just cum inside her. But it's definitely worth it, trust me, and once you have trained yourself to do it you will learn to love it. It's a win-win for both parties.

Tell her that you really want to do it but that you might feel differently in the heat of the moment, and you will regret it if you don't go ahead with it. This is all part of creating your commitment to go ahead with it, because the last thing you want to happen is that you've told her that you want to do it (especially if she thinks it's a bit icky but is going along with it anyway to make you happy) and then you get cold feet. I've been there and it sucks; half an hour later you feel like such a failure. In contrast, the feeling you get when you do push through and do your duty for the first time is one of elation. You'll be so proud of yourself.

She's wondering if you're actually going to go ahead with it and at that moment it's not what you want do at all. If it's down to you to pull out and then go down on her then it's probably not going to happen, so part of the conversation you have beforehand is that she is going to make you do it. I

Cosmic's post was great and spot on and I see these quotes I edited out as the key parts of it to my experiences.

Yup, it gets easier every time and the first time is nearly impossible if you don't get her to help you along. After the first time hours later you are like really elated. I started a whole thread that's in my signature of my journey and I have been cleaning up every time going on three years. I used incentives for her to help me push through and still do. Now it's expected every time and it makes me very excited to know that it is. I thank her up and down often and she loves the effects and control she has on me. I get worked up just knowing it's expected!

[feetuji]

I ate my first creampie some months ago. I would love to repeat that but I get really "out" after orgasm, so I also still try to learn what can I do lol

[PaNic]

I agree, get down there quick after cumming or you’ll lose the will.
Ive only recently tried this and found it hard to start but once my licking got her hips grinding I loved it!
A trick that worked for me was pretending it was another man she had just fucked and that I was reclaiming her. With that in my mind and my tongue in her pussy it wasn’t long before we were BOTH ready for round two!

[feetuji]

I agree, get down there quick after cumming or you’ll lose the will.
Ive only recently tried this and found it hard to start but once my licking got her hips grinding I loved it!
A trick that worked for me was pretending it was another man she had just fucked and that I was reclaiming her. With that in my mind and my tongue in her pussy it wasn’t long before we were BOTH ready for round two!

Going down right after cum...i can try that!

[Shantideva]

I half-assed this for the first time the other night; instead of actually eating her pussy out after I'd come early (we'd been apart and without sex for quite some times) I just went down on her and licked her clit while my cum oozed out of her. I didn't eat it or lick it up, just fingered her and rubbed her G spot while I sucked on her clit, which is usually what most gets her off anyway. Actually wasn't terribly messy, and broached the idea without full commitment. She was glad to have me go down on her since she hadn't got there yet, but wasn't especially turned on by having me eat her cum-filled pussy. Not sure if or when we will do it again; she usually comes multiple times before I do and gets off much easier than I do. Rare that we have a session where I come right away and then need to get her off after. Though, the other night we 69'd (I really wanted her to smother me with her ass and thighs) and both got off that way, and then after a few minutes she said she wanted to come again, and I fucked her while she used her vibrator for two more orgasms, so if she's going to want multiples in a night than maybe I'll be eating her cum-filled pussy more often.

[jjlooking4fun]

My wife and I love cum play usually lick the cum off her or she will lick the cum off my cock and always kiss. We do the same when I eat my cream pie hold some cum in my mouth and we kiss.

[philxxo]

I would say do it if you can. I think some women may think that is a little "gay" and get turned off by it. That's how my wife seemed to see it. She wouldn't let me eat her out unless it had been a long time since I came inside her last time. Like 24 hrs and she had showered etc. One time not long ago, we were hot and heavy. I came inside her and afterwards she wanted me to eat her out for her pleasure. Now I do it all the time if she hasn't cum from PIV and I am done. She is able to see that it didn't turn me off. I think if you show her you will eat your own cum, then maybe she will believe when you want to do cuckold cleanup. That's just one step farther.

[runaway]

Eating your own creampie is a bit of a Catch-22. If she cums first, then she’s too tender by the time I cum inside her. If I cum first, I’m not horny enough after that to do such a nasty - but hot - thing. I think that’s why otherwise straight guys consider eating a creampie out of their wives pussies after another guy blows his load. All conjecture on my part, since I’m a wannabe, but I could see being in that horny I’d do that.

[Bobs52]

The critical point, obviously, is when you have just finished cumming and you're both there waiting for what happens next. She's wondering if you're actually going to go ahead with it and at that moment it's not what you want do at all. If it's down to you to pull out and then go down on her then it's probably not going to happen, so part of the conversation you have beforehand is that she is going to make you do it. If she's not got much of a dominant streak that's not going to be easy for her, but you need to include this in the brief for all the reasons we've already covered. The best way is to tell her (in advance) to sit on your face afterwards. This way the onus is no longer on you to initiate the act but on her, and all you have to do is suppress the desire to resist, which is a hundred times easier.

This is spot on. My wife lacks the “dominant streak” you mention. She is very good about role playing while we’re fucking. She actually has had one hotwife experience (which although she had complete and explicit permission she hid from me for a period of time) and she now is very good at vocalizing when she wants me to cum: “Robby was fucking me so good and he was so hard the entire time! We did it in three different positions and he made me orgasm when he was fucking me from behind, my favorite position, etc.”.

She knows my creampie fetish from another man (yet to enjoy) and my desire (before I cum) to clean my own from her. She’ll even use that as well, “cum in me, I know you’d love to clean it up”, but after I cum, if I don’t make the move she just drops it and we move on. She has sat on my face once with my encouragement and I rather tentatively licked her pussy after cumming in her, and I’ve forced myself to slide down and lick her as well on a couple of occasions. I actually started to get into the latter one and stayed down there a bit longer.

What I need though is her encouragement! Without the dominant tendency, I think I will just need to tell her in advance exactly what to say. I’ve come up with two phrases that she can use verbatim that shouldn’t be too challenging for her:

1. Ok, now roll over on your back (at which time she moves up and straddles my face) or…
2. Remember, you promised to clean up after yourself (kind of teasingly…at which time I would slide down and do just that).

I’ve tried to explain the post-nut lack of desire and that it’s not really about the current time, but the build up and excitement of the next time. While I’m in the middle of fucking her, I can’t wait to get to that creampie. If she continually gets me to do it, it will have more strength to it because I know it WILL happen based on last time. I just need her to encourage it post-nut!

[ecrd]

I ate my first creampie some months ago. I would love to repeat that but I get really "out" after orgasm, so I also still try to learn what can I do lol

I posted this a few years ago, not sure if it is still on the forum, but here is what I have found makes it easier for me and very enjoyable for her.

We have never talked about it beforehand, not once. During? After? Yep! But never beforehand. Maybe we should, just haven't gotten there yet.

For us it is not an every time thing, just when the moment is right. What I do is to not try immediately after cumming. I wait. We both enjoy that postcoital bliss, still breathing heavily, just into the moment. Then I will lay down beside her and we will usually spoon or one will lay their head on the other's chest. For the first 3-5 minutes I usually have ZERO interest. But after 5-10 minutes of laying together, I will begin to run my hands all over her body. Her response is usually the best litmus test to see if she is in the mood. Sometimes it works, many times it doesn't. When it does it is amazing for both of us!

As I start to slide down to get between her legs she normally warns me that she didn't go and cleanup. That has never stopped me. But the best times are when she does NOT say anything, she just spreads her legs and begins to moan LOUDLY. I really love it when she puts her hands on the back of my head and shoves my face into her glistening slit!!!

[feetuji]

I ate my first creampie some months ago. I would love to repeat that but I get really "out" after orgasm, so I also still try to learn what can I do lol

I posted this a few years ago, not sure if it is still on the forum, but here is what I have found makes it easier for me and very enjoyable for her.

We have never talked about it beforehand, not once. During? After? Yep! But never beforehand. Maybe we should, just haven't gotten there yet.

For us it is not an every time thing, just when the moment is right. What I do is to not try immediately after cumming. I wait. We both enjoy that postcoital bliss, still breathing heavily, just into the moment. Then I will lay down beside her and we will usually spoon or one will lay their head on the other's chest. For the first 3-5 minutes I usually have ZERO interest. But after 5-10 minutes of laying together, I will begin to run my hands all over her body. Her response is usually the best litmus test to see if she is in the mood. Sometimes it works, many times it doesn't. When it does it is amazing for both of us!

As I start to slide down to get between her legs she normally warns me that she didn't go and cleanup. That has never stopped me. But the best times are when she does NOT say anything, she just spreads her legs and begins to moan LOUDLY. I really love it when she puts her hands on the back of my head and shoves my face into her glistening slit!!!

Thanks for your advice!
My problem is not only not being in the mood (the urge goes away) but the fact that she prefers to make love at night, and after my usual time to sleep, when I am even more tired. So, I am really not in the mood,after cum, and since is late, I just want to sleep.

[nks]

I ate my first creampie some months ago. I would love to repeat that but I get really "out" after orgasm, so I also still try to learn what can I do lol

I posted this a few years ago, not sure if it is still on the forum, but here is what I have found makes it easier for me and very enjoyable for her.

We have never talked about it beforehand, not once. During? After? Yep! But never beforehand. Maybe we should, just haven't gotten there yet.

For us it is not an every time thing, just when the moment is right. What I do is to not try immediately after cumming. I wait. We both enjoy that postcoital bliss, still breathing heavily, just into the moment. Then I will lay down beside her and we will usually spoon or one will lay their head on the other's chest. For the first 3-5 minutes I usually have ZERO interest. But after 5-10 minutes of laying together, I will begin to run my hands all over her body. Her response is usually the best litmus test to see if she is in the mood. Sometimes it works, many times it doesn't. When it does it is amazing for both of us!

As I start to slide down to get between her legs she normally warns me that she didn't go and cleanup. That has never stopped me. But the best times are when she does NOT say anything, she just spreads her legs and begins to moan LOUDLY. I really love it when she puts her hands on the back of my head and shoves my face into her glistening slit!!!

Thanks for your advice!
My problem is not only not being in the mood (the urge goes away) but the fact that she prefers to make love at night, and after my usual time to sleep, when I am even more tired. So, I am really not in the mood,after cum, and since is late, I just want to sleep.

This is the reason why someone else should fuck her. The problem goes away.

[feetuji]

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This is the reason why someone else should fuck her. The problem goes away.
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Oh that would be heaven!

[Johor]

Here is my technique to eat my cum.

First I have my wife pinch my nipples. This always get me going. Then I position her on the edge of the bed, get on my knees to eat her out. When she is close, I started to fuck her. She pinches me more, which makes me cum quickly. Before I am finished, I drop to my knees. That she hasn't cum already makes it much easier as I do feel a strong urge to give her an orgasm too and get great satisfaction from it.

Just go down and suck the cum out. If you don't enjoy the taste, you will begin to associating it with pleasurable sex and grow to love it. I like going to sleep with the odor in my nose. I occasionally will rub my face in her sloppy pussy and get juices all over.

Asking her to pinch my nipples also drives me to rim her, so be careful what you ask for lest you get more than you thought.