Two Little Updates

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Two Little Updates

Unread post by Shantideva » Thu Oct 19, 2023 1:09 pm

I've said on here a few times that I'm unsure if I'm really a "wannabe"; though sharing my wife is a big part of my sexual fantasies, I've been skeptical that it would work out in reality, but some recent events feel like they are pushing us just a tiny bit closer to the possibility all the time.

One step was that I got my wife a lifelike BBC dildo. At first, she thought it was too big, but now we've used it several times and she seems to have adjusted just fine. One day recently I was especially horny for her, and after the kids went to bed, she asked me, as she does every night, what I wanted to do, and I told her point blank I wanted to see her get fucked tonight. "OK!" she quickly said, a bit stunned, and so we watched a bit of TV for a bit and then went up to bed. Our routine with the dildo is this: I go down on her to get her nice and wet while she sucks on the dildo or just holds it in her hand or against her body. Sometimes I eat her pussy through her first orgasm, but sometimes I just get her dripping wet. Then I take the dildo from her and I kneel by her head and I slowly insert the dildo into her while she jerks me off or sucks my cock. I talk dirty to her and she rubs her clit while I fuck her with the dildo. I love telling her how hot she looks getting fucked, and I ask her if he should wear a condom or fuck her raw (always raw, of course) and when she is about to come I tell her that he is going to come in her pussy. I love when she comes on that big cock while my cock is in her mouth. She sort of freezes up and stops actually sucking and just holds my cock in her mouth while she comes. Love it. Then we switch places, and I fuck her missionary while she puts on a good show sucking her pussy juice off the dildo. Gets me off so good.

I also got her to call the dildo by a name the other night, using the name of her "boyfriend" who I've mentioned before, a colleague in the same industry she runs into occasionally and flirts with. I fucked her spooning from behind after she came on the dildo and she turned back over her shoulder and asked "Did you like watching [name] fuck me? Did you like watching him fuck my married pussy and come in me?" Whew! I came like a freight train.

Finally, the most recent development. My wife has always been a big reader, but lately she has been reading more "beachy" stuff than usual, including romance, on her kindle. We have a shared library, and yesterday I saw a new book in there that looked a bit different than her typical romance, so I looked it up, and it's romantic erotica. My wife NEVER reads erotica or watches porn, so this was a surprise. And more specifically, the book was a type of dark romantic erotica with a reverse harem theme, in which the female heroine fucks a trio of brothers at the same time. She hasn't mentioned to me that she is reading it yet, but I hope it's at least good enough that she wants to read the other books in the series, and I hope she finds the smut hot and it opens a new world of erotica for her.

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Unread post by hubudig2 » Sat Oct 21, 2023 4:45 pm

It sounds like you're exploring the idea together which is a perfect way to go about it.
Maybe ask her about the book, in a positive way, encourage some honest communication, tell her how you like that she's reading that kind of thing.
Is it possible that she's got ideas that she's not telling you about?
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Re: Two Little Updates

Unread post by Wantsomefunto » Sat Oct 21, 2023 6:56 pm

Awesome update, stay on this path and she will be shared soon

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Re: Two Little Updates

Unread post by Shantideva » Tue Nov 07, 2023 8:24 am

Just a brief update here:

My wife DID tell me about what she's been reading, and the sex has been phenomenal.

In the couple of weeks since I last posted, she's probably read almost a dozen books, all reverse harem erotica. Two or three times we've had sex and I've made her tell me about a scene that turned her on the most or was especially naughty, including one where three brothers successively creampied a woman in a club backroom and another where they all fucked her simultaneously in her pussy, ass, and mouth. My wife can't do anal for health reasons, but she loves having her ass licked and teased, and she fantasizes about getting her ass fucked.

We've also been using her big black dildo a lot. She put on a great show a couple of nights ago going back and forth sucking it and then sucking me, making the most perfect eye contact with me. Then I fucked her with it while she fingered her clit and sucked me off. After she came on the dildo, I took my turn while she licked her pussy juices off the toy for me. Super hot.

Then last night I worked late, and when I got home she was wearing these cute little shorts and doing yoga to stretch out after her workout earlier in the evening. I told her how good her body looked and she started making the poses more teasing and sexual until I finally took her upstairs and bent her over the bed and fucked her really hard until I came in her like a man possessed. I can hardly ever come while I'm standing up, but I love fucking her from behind like that, and just had to have her after all her teasing. She couldn't get off that way because she couldn't reach her clit (her hands were fists in the sheets and she was drooling on the bed) so then I flipped her over and went down on her. Eating creampies isn't really my thing, and she was hesitant at first, saying "baby, I'm all messy down there now," which was really hot, but once I started tonguing her clit she was super into it and came hard in no time.

Not sure what's next. I've been perusing her books and saw that there was a double-vaginal scene in one of them, so I might suggest we get a smaller dildo so that we can give that a shot. We had a chat this weekend about actually sharing her and agreed that it's still better as fantasy than reality, so no plans for her to actually fuck another man at the moment, but she knows it's always on the table if she changes her mind. And I'm not disappointed by that in the slightest; on the contrary, feeling very satisfied!

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Re: Two Little Updates

Unread post by BBCfan » Tue Nov 07, 2023 11:52 am

Amazingly hot experiences.

My wife and I do similar play but not as hot as yours. You give me inspiration to work towards LOL.
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Unread post by Wife4Guys » Wed Nov 08, 2023 9:00 am

Introduce her to our library

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Unread post by inflorida94 » Thu Nov 16, 2023 8:08 am

I'd like to know the series of erotica books she's reading??

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Re: Two Little Updates

Unread post by Marksmall5 » Thu Nov 16, 2023 4:41 pm

Hi
Sounds like you are not sure you want this but you want to find out.
Might be if she takes a lover and one day you are eating cream pies you get used to it. Might be hard to go back ?

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Re: Two Little Updates

Unread post by Shantideva » Fri Nov 17, 2023 6:45 am

inflorida94 wrote:
Thu Nov 16, 2023 8:08 am
I'd like to know the series of erotica books she's reading??
I think the most successful read so far was "Twisted Game" by Eva Ashwood and the rest of that series. She also read a few by Lyx Robinson and Nicky Shivers.

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Unread post by Shantideva » Fri Nov 17, 2023 6:50 am

Nothing new on the erotica front; she's been reading some, but nothing especially great, she says. I was out for drinks with a few female colleagues last night, though, and when I got home she was still awake and horny. I think she gets a bit jealous and feisty when I'm out with other women, even though it's all platonic. I ate her pussy until she came twice, and then we fucked, talking a lot while we did so. She mentioned that she's been fantasizing more about getting fucked while I watch, and then I got her to go into great detail about her past cheating, including the first time they hooked up and the time she let him cum in her. She's very good to me!

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Unread post by hubudig2 » Fri Nov 17, 2023 6:59 am

Shantideva wrote:
Fri Nov 17, 2023 6:50 am
She mentioned that she's been fantasizing more about getting fucked while I watch, and then I got her to go into great detail about her past cheating, including the first time they hooked up and the time she let him cum in her. She's very good to me!
Did she cheat on you? Or was this in a previous relationship?
Was she ok about talking about it? Sometimes memories of cheating can be upsetting to bring up.
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Unread post by BBCfan » Fri Nov 17, 2023 12:25 pm

Was wondering the same.
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Unread post by snoogaloo82 » Fri Nov 17, 2023 4:11 pm

Shantideva wrote:
Fri Nov 17, 2023 6:50 am
Nothing new on the erotica front; she's been reading some, but nothing especially great, she says. I was out for drinks with a few female colleagues last night, though, and when I got home she was still awake and horny. I think she gets a bit jealous and feisty when I'm out with other women, even though it's all platonic. I ate her pussy until she came twice, and then we fucked, talking a lot while we did so. She mentioned that she's been fantasizing more about getting fucked while I watch, and then I got her to go into great detail about her past cheating, including the first time they hooked up and the time she let him cum in her. She's very good to me!
The first time cumming in a woman is an amazing feeling!!!

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Re: Two Little Updates

Unread post by Shantideva » Sat Nov 18, 2023 11:13 am

hubudig2 wrote:
Fri Nov 17, 2023 6:59 am
Shantideva wrote:
Fri Nov 17, 2023 6:50 am
She mentioned that she's been fantasizing more about getting fucked while I watch, and then I got her to go into great detail about her past cheating, including the first time they hooked up and the time she let him cum in her. She's very good to me!
Did she cheat on you? Or was this in a previous relationship?
Was she ok about talking about it? Sometimes memories of cheating can be upsetting to bring up.
Previous relationship. She didn't like talking about it when we first got together, but time heals all wounds. It's almost 20 years in the past, at this point, and although she doesn't get off on it, really, she doesn't mind talking about it these days.

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Unread post by snoogaloo82 » Sat Nov 18, 2023 3:33 pm

Shantideva wrote:
Sat Nov 18, 2023 11:13 am
hubudig2 wrote:
Fri Nov 17, 2023 6:59 am
Shantideva wrote:
Fri Nov 17, 2023 6:50 am
She mentioned that she's been fantasizing more about getting fucked while I watch, and then I got her to go into great detail about her past cheating, including the first time they hooked up and the time she let him cum in her. She's very good to me!
Did she cheat on you? Or was this in a previous relationship?
Was she ok about talking about it? Sometimes memories of cheating can be upsetting to bring up.
Previous relationship. She didn't like talking about it when we first got together, but time heals all wounds. It's almost 20 years in the past, at this point, and although she doesn't get off on it, really, she doesn't mind talking about it these days.
time really does heal all wounds

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