Hello from the Midwest USA - looking for advice!

[SharpTraveler]

Long time lurker, first post. I found this place looking for Jenna and James, because I used to enjoy their Reddit media and story so much and was overjoyed to find them doing well and still sharing here. They have one video in Vegas since vanished of him walking into the room and finding her on her knees that was literally my favorite video of a lifetime of porn consumption! If they trust this place, I guess I should too! We are a newlywed middle aged couple, both athletes, but she still competes, and I am trying to stop a transition to couch potato forced by injuries. I have been so lucky with this kink and have no complaints about my experiences. I started in my school days with my first serious girlfriend and continued to explore it with half a dozen other girls I was in relationships with. I never realized, however, that I had a mischievous party girl type that would continuously lead to relationship drama and break ups. It made operating in my kink easy, because these girls had the potential to cheat anyway by their nature and we often lived in environments with a regular hook up potentials. Generally, they would solo date and bring me back stories or media but I also setup some sexy special scenarios over the years. I loved the competition and the risk and savored the media becoming quite the addict to the general fantasy of having my own overwhelmingly sexy personal porn star I am absolutely in love with.

Fast forward to the love of my life and the absolute best lover I have ever had. We met long ago as a childhood crush, with her working for me as a lifeguard when I was the head lifeguard. Her family was intensely conservative and religious, but she was extremely sexual, being more passionate and intense than any girl I had ever been with. She also had a heart of gold and incredible grit, making her a dream fit for a man like me who grew up in general chaos. Her parents found out we were sexually active, and her home situation got tense. I didn’t have a tight nurturing family like hers, I didn’t want to take that from her. I vanished on false pretenses, and carried huge guilt for it later becoming obsessed with the thought she was the one that got away. Fast forward many years later and we are both successful professionals, her in a troubled long relationship and me in a shorter equally struggling one. It was magical when we reconnected and we never looked back, getting married earlier this year after years of amazing dating.

So, like I have done so many other times to mixed reactions, I shared my kink with her early in the relationship. In the overall catalog of responses from my various unsuspecting partners, hers would be in the A to A+ range. She got amazingly turned on and started eating up lifestyle stories, pics, and videos. The thing is she isn’t a party girl like the others. Men generally pursued her, and her sexuality takes a back seat to her wit, athletic pedigree, and art. In a strange way the most sexual woman I have ever met doesn’t wear her sexuality on her sleeve, she keeps it back then unloads it intensely. That said, she is a smoke show being amazingly fit with naturally perky breasts and an ass that only has to be flashed at me to start us up. She didn’t want her pics on the internet and all these guys in her sport that hit on her she soft flirts back with and won’t boldly open the door to. At one point she approached an ex and longtime FWB but he just landed a young foreign GF and they ended up getting married so the opportunity dried up. I really focused intensely on taking this slow because our sex is great, and our relationship is amazing. Then, not too long ago, she expressed a fantasy of being with a woman. I decided it was something I could easily set up with a safe FWB from my past. We flew in to meet her, partied around the town then retired to her house and my now wife was easily talked into her panties. Then it happened, she just pounced on my FWB like a fierce jungle cat. It was intense and so sexy! My conclusion is in the right situation she is green light go and would probably scare me with her intense loud series of enthusiastic orgasms on some lucky guy’s hard cock.

Here is my problem and I am looking for help. My hot gfs of the past did all the work, this time I must set the whole thing up. I know a lot of my fellow kinky brothers out there basically do all the work for their queen, any suggestions? Being tentative to share pictures is one hurdle – but I may be able to overcome this especially in a DM, video chat or private site situation. She has a very sexually active friend that recently divorced who she shared our kink and her hall pass status with. This friend constantly flies into NYC, my wife’s longtime home, to fuck a studly married FWB. I offered a sexy vacation for the two of them and even started planning it at hotel takeovers, nude beaches and clubs offering an all-expense paid hedonism package. She pushed back saying she didn’t want to involve her friend in the beginning and would rather it be just between us. She also expressed that she wanted me to be around or near the first time so we could reconnect right after. This being outside of how I usually operated (never finding the guys or setting up the situations), I fumbled, and we have coasted. She vacations constantly and frequently solo, so I have been hoping she might have an opportunity, but she literally books every waking minute with social engagements and exercise. I need to do the footwork here and set up an incredible scenario that gives her the choice to pounce or pause, because I know she will hardcore pounce. Thanks in advance for any ideas!!! Depending on the feedback I may show her this post and try to convince her to share some of my large collection of pics!

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum SharpTraveler. I am sure you are going to get a lot of ideas from our members. They love to help about as much as they love to screw.

[snoogaloo82]

Long time lurker, first post. I found this place looking for Jenna and James, because I used to enjoy their Reddit media and story so much and was overjoyed to find them doing well and still sharing here. They have one video in Vegas since vanished of him walking into the room and finding her on her knees that was literally my favorite video of a lifetime of porn consumption! If they trust this place, I guess I should too! We are a newlywed middle aged couple, both athletes, but she still competes, and I am trying to stop a transition to couch potato forced by injuries. I have been so lucky with this kink and have no complaints about my experiences. I started in my school days with my first serious girlfriend and continued to explore it with half a dozen other girls I was in relationships with. I never realized, however, that I had a mischievous party girl type that would continuously lead to relationship drama and break ups. It made operating in my kink easy, because these girls had the potential to cheat anyway by their nature and we often lived in environments with a regular hook up potentials. Generally, they would solo date and bring me back stories or media but I also setup some sexy special scenarios over the years. I loved the competition and the risk and savored the media becoming quite the addict to the general fantasy of having my own overwhelmingly sexy personal porn star I am absolutely in love with.

Fast forward to the love of my life and the absolute best lover I have ever had. We met long ago as a childhood crush, with her working for me as a lifeguard when I was the head lifeguard. Her family was intensely conservative and religious, but she was extremely sexual, being more passionate and intense than any girl I had ever been with. She also had a heart of gold and incredible grit, making her a dream fit for a man like me who grew up in general chaos. Her parents found out we were sexually active, and her home situation got tense. I didn’t have a tight nurturing family like hers, I didn’t want to take that from her. I vanished on false pretenses, and carried huge guilt for it later becoming obsessed with the thought she was the one that got away. Fast forward many years later and we are both successful professionals, her in a troubled long relationship and me in a shorter equally struggling one. It was magical when we reconnected and we never looked back, getting married earlier this year after years of amazing dating.

So, like I have done so many other times to mixed reactions, I shared my kink with her early in the relationship. In the overall catalog of responses from my various unsuspecting partners, hers would be in the A to A+ range. She got amazingly turned on and started eating up lifestyle stories, pics, and videos. The thing is she isn’t a party girl like the others. Men generally pursued her, and her sexuality takes a back seat to her wit, athletic pedigree, and art. In a strange way the most sexual woman I have ever met doesn’t wear her sexuality on her sleeve, she keeps it back then unloads it intensely. That said, she is a smoke show being amazingly fit with naturally perky breasts and an ass that only has to be flashed at me to start us up. She didn’t want her pics on the internet and all these guys in her sport that hit on her she soft flirts back with and won’t boldly open the door to. At one point she approached an ex and longtime FWB but he just landed a young foreign GF and they ended up getting married so the opportunity dried up. I really focused intensely on taking this slow because our sex is great, and our relationship is amazing. Then, not too long ago, she expressed a fantasy of being with a woman. I decided it was something I could easily set up with a safe FWB from my past. We flew in to meet her, partied around the town then retired to her house and my now wife was easily talked into her panties. Then it happened, she just pounced on my FWB like a fierce jungle cat. It was intense and so sexy! My conclusion is in the right situation she is green light go and would probably scare me with her intense loud series of enthusiastic orgasms on some lucky guy’s hard cock.

Here is my problem and I am looking for help. My hot gfs of the past did all the work, this time I must set the whole thing up. I know a lot of my fellow kinky brothers out there basically do all the work for their queen, any suggestions? Being tentative to share pictures is one hurdle – but I may be able to overcome this especially in a DM, video chat or private site situation. She has a very sexually active friend that recently divorced who she shared our kink and her hall pass status with. This friend constantly flies into NYC, my wife’s longtime home, to fuck a studly married FWB. I offered a sexy vacation for the two of them and even started planning it at hotel takeovers, nude beaches and clubs offering an all-expense paid hedonism package. She pushed back saying she didn’t want to involve her friend in the beginning and would rather it be just between us. She also expressed that she wanted me to be around or near the first time so we could reconnect right after. This being outside of how I usually operated (never finding the guys or setting up the situations), I fumbled, and we have coasted. She vacations constantly and frequently solo, so I have been hoping she might have an opportunity, but she literally books every waking minute with social engagements and exercise. I need to do the footwork here and set up an incredible scenario that gives her the choice to pounce or pause, because I know she will hardcore pounce. Thanks in advance for any ideas!!! Depending on the feedback I may show her this post and try to convince her to share some of my large collection of pics!

Like Army says there are a lot of people here willing to help. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us! Feel free to share anything you wish, or ask any question that has to do with hotwifing. There's even a special section in the hotwives forum that only confirmed hotwives can answer, so there's a lot of different people doing the hotwife thing differently all willing to give you advice. i hope you find what you're looking for and are able to even contribute your two cents worth! lol

[sky nothing]

Long time lurker, first post. I found this place looking for Jenna and James, because I used to enjoy their Reddit media and story so much and was overjoyed to find them doing well and still sharing here. They have one video in Vegas since vanished of him walking into the room and finding her on her knees that was literally my favorite video of a lifetime of porn consumption! If they trust this place, I guess I should too! We are a newlywed middle aged couple, both athletes, but she still competes, and I am trying to stop a transition to couch potato forced by injuries. I have been so lucky with this kink and have no complaints about my experiences. I started in my school days with my first serious girlfriend and continued to explore it with half a dozen other girls I was in relationships with. I never realized, however, that I had a mischievous party girl type that would continuously lead to relationship drama and break ups. It made operating in my kink easy, because these girls had the potential to cheat anyway by their nature and we often lived in environments with a regular hook up potentials. Generally, they would solo date and bring me back stories or media but I also setup some sexy special scenarios over the years. I loved the competition and the risk and savored the media becoming quite the addict to the general fantasy of having my own overwhelmingly sexy personal porn star I am absolutely in love with.

Fast forward to the love of my life and the absolute best lover I have ever had. We met long ago as a childhood crush, with her working for me as a lifeguard when I was the head lifeguard. Her family was intensely conservative and religious, but she was extremely sexual, being more passionate and intense than any girl I had ever been with. She also had a heart of gold and incredible grit, making her a dream fit for a man like me who grew up in general chaos. Her parents found out we were sexually active, and her home situation got tense. I didn’t have a tight nurturing family like hers, I didn’t want to take that from her. I vanished on false pretenses, and carried huge guilt for it later becoming obsessed with the thought she was the one that got away. Fast forward many years later and we are both successful professionals, her in a troubled long relationship and me in a shorter equally struggling one. It was magical when we reconnected and we never looked back, getting married earlier this year after years of amazing dating.

So, like I have done so many other times to mixed reactions, I shared my kink with her early in the relationship. In the overall catalog of responses from my various unsuspecting partners, hers would be in the A to A+ range. She got amazingly turned on and started eating up lifestyle stories, pics, and videos. The thing is she isn’t a party girl like the others. Men generally pursued her, and her sexuality takes a back seat to her wit, athletic pedigree, and art. In a strange way the most sexual woman I have ever met doesn’t wear her sexuality on her sleeve, she keeps it back then unloads it intensely. That said, she is a smoke show being amazingly fit with naturally perky breasts and an ass that only has to be flashed at me to start us up. She didn’t want her pics on the internet and all these guys in her sport that hit on her she soft flirts back with and won’t boldly open the door to. At one point she approached an ex and longtime FWB but he just landed a young foreign GF and they ended up getting married so the opportunity dried up. I really focused intensely on taking this slow because our sex is great, and our relationship is amazing. Then, not too long ago, she expressed a fantasy of being with a woman. I decided it was something I could easily set up with a safe FWB from my past. We flew in to meet her, partied around the town then retired to her house and my now wife was easily talked into her panties. Then it happened, she just pounced on my FWB like a fierce jungle cat. It was intense and so sexy! My conclusion is in the right situation she is green light go and would probably scare me with her intense loud series of enthusiastic orgasms on some lucky guy’s hard cock.

Here is my problem and I am looking for help. My hot gfs of the past did all the work, this time I must set the whole thing up. I know a lot of my fellow kinky brothers out there basically do all the work for their queen, any suggestions? Being tentative to share pictures is one hurdle – but I may be able to overcome this especially in a DM, video chat or private site situation. She has a very sexually active friend that recently divorced who she shared our kink and her hall pass status with. This friend constantly flies into NYC, my wife’s longtime home, to fuck a studly married FWB. I offered a sexy vacation for the two of them and even started planning it at hotel takeovers, nude beaches and clubs offering an all-expense paid hedonism package. She pushed back saying she didn’t want to involve her friend in the beginning and would rather it be just between us. She also expressed that she wanted me to be around or near the first time so we could reconnect right after. This being outside of how I usually operated (never finding the guys or setting up the situations), I fumbled, and we have coasted. She vacations constantly and frequently solo, so I have been hoping she might have an opportunity, but she literally books every waking minute with social engagements and exercise. I need to do the footwork here and set up an incredible scenario that gives her the choice to pounce or pause, because I know she will hardcore pounce. Thanks in advance for any ideas!!! Depending on the feedback I may show her this post and try to convince her to share some of my large collection of pics!

What's this Jenna and James video you're talking about?