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[WifeCrazyHubby]

Hello all-

My name is Zolman and my wife is Nomi. I am 52 years old and she is 48. I am from Israel and she is from Michigan. We have been married for almost 25 years with two children—one is married and the other is going to Graduate school on the other coast. When we met, Nomi was 23 and I was 27; she was a virgin but had few boyfriends and had given blowjobs to them. I only had one girlfriend before her. We dated for about six months before first having intercourse—six months later we were married. A year later we had our first kid and two years later another.

Sex before the first pregnancy was around 8-10 times a week. After the first pregnancy, sex was down to once a week and after the second child it was down to once every other week. The moment we bought our dream house, sex became a once in a month affair to eventually a once in a blue moon thing. She always had a reason and I ultimately stopped pestering her, which she really appreciated and made her actually happy. On date nights even when the kids were with the grandparents, we would make out and get totally turned-on for sex but she would orgasm and fall asleep right after foreplay. She never reciprocated me sexually but compensated in other ways. She’s a fabulous mother to our kids and is a very health conscious individual. Financially, she’s managed our money well and I plan on retiring in the next three years. She has also kept herself fit and very sexy through diet and exercise.

In our life together, since the birth of our first child, she has sucked my cock less than ten times and never for more than five minutes. Not once have I ever ejaculated in her mouth. When we had intercourse, she really did not like for me to ejaculate inside of her but she did like it on her boobs and stomach, even on her ass and the back sometimes, but she hated it if my cum got on her face or in the hair. Throughout our marriage, she has barely touched my cock but she loves spending time with me. It is as if she loves me but hates sex with me. In her words, I am her protector, her provider, her caregiver, her best friend, her life partner and her soulmate. I also see her the same way.

At 39 years of age, Nomi’s FSH level dropped and per her doctor she was in peri menopause. Those were the tough years. She went on HRT but was always in a bad mood, she didn’t even touch me and neither did she allow me to touch her, except on certain occasions when she was super horny and needed an oral from me. She never even tried touching my cock; I just took care of myself as I have done most of my life. Over time I stopped feeling ignored and accepted the cards I was dealt with, because I absolutely adore and love her. Plus, I really love to see her happy. In addition, I started to volunteer for travel assignments at my job—worked more and harder to provide us with a good life. By the time she was 45, her periods stopped and two years later, at the age of 47, she was in full post menopause.

As it stands, the last time I actually had sex with completion, where I ejaculated on or with her, was almost 10 years ago. Though whenever she orgasms from my oral or finger stimulation, she enjoys it very much. She usually holds on to me real tight and even tells me how much she loves me. In the last year, she has become more sexually demanding and aggressive. For some reason, the rejections I received during my life have made me into a guy who does not want to have intercourse with her. My cock gets super hard but I usually lose it when I am about to enter her or after a few thrusts. To be frank, I do a better job of reaching an orgasm through masturbation.

Two years ago, while we were in lockdown due to COVID and pretty close to getting a divorce, she intimated to me about having an on and off affair with a friend, Joe. This affair started when she was 29; we had a few MFM threesomes with him where I mostly watched them or heard them from the room. After four or five times, she told me that she wasn’t feeling up to doing threesomes, but kept fucking him behind my back. It lasted for about eight years, until she was 37. Apparently, they were having sex almost everyday and sometimes even two or three times a day. She also told me that she enjoyed sucking and fucking him, and even likes the feeling of his thick cock and hot cum inside her. Though I was pissed at her and at Joe, but rather than yelling at her or at my friend, I for some reason upon learning that she had been cheating for all those years got turned on. I wanted to know what and how they did it? How he felt? I masturbated and must have ejaculated five or six times that night before I fell asleep.

Recently on one night while I was playing with her pussy, I asked if she ever thinks about Joe. She replied with an enthusiastic, “Yes,” and I could feel her pussy getting so wet that she came hard a few times.

I’ll continue the rest in another post if there is any interest.

-Z

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum WifeCrazyHubby.

[superb101]

I am very interested!

[Nothing2see]

Welcome aboard from a other interested party.

[WifeCrazyHubby]

Welcome to the forum WifeCrazyHubby.

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[WifeCrazyHubby]

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[WifeCrazyHubby]

PART 2

Nomi and I met in 1995 when she and her family were visiting Tel Aviv. Our fathers had served together in the Israeli Air Force. Unfortunately, my father was killed in action during the 1973 Yom Kippur War; I wasn’t even three years old at the time and my little sister hadn’t been born. We know him only through home movies and photos. My earliest memories are of growing up in my grandparents’ home.

My mother had invited Nomi’s family to our house for dinner. The very moment Nomi and I saw each other, we felt a deep attraction towards each other. We spent the entire evening talking with each other on the rooftop and when she went to her hotel, we were again on the phone until breakfast time. We saw each other almost everyday for two weeks. I drove her all over and showed her many parts of Tel Aviv she hadn’t seen. We started courting almost immediately. Nomi had made it clear she wasn’t going to have sex with me until married, but that changed. On the day she accepted the engagement ring from me that’s the night she first gave me a blowjob—it was glorious. A few weeks later we first had intercourse. She jumped off me before I could cum and I masturbated myself to ejaculation. Six months later we got married in Haifa.

My in-laws are probably the nicest people on the planet. When I moved to the US, Nomi wanted to work while I finished my MBA, instead her parents gave us some cash, a big wedding reception, bought us a starter house and a late model car, and even helped me financially while in school. This way Nomi didn’t have to hold a job and we started thinking about starting a family. After I earned my MBA, her father helped me get a job at his company. In fact, I just celebrated my 22nd year at the same company.

During both pregnancies, Nomi didn’t want to have sex. Simply put, she was scared. We were told that my semen was causing her repetitive yeast infections while the condoms were responsible for the UTIs. The easiest solution was to stop having sex. Around this time, I started giving her oral sex. We created all kind of plays and scripts for oral play. During the same time she started nauseous every time she sucked my cock. Again, the easiest solution was for her to not give me oral. Thus, oral sex in our sex life became quite unilateral. But I actually enjoy eating pussy. Even my first girlfriend, used to say that she could tell how much I enjoyed pussy. I like looking at women in the throes of sexual climax. Nomi is loud when she orgasms and she also squirts frequently.

After the second pregnancy, there were only a couple of times that she attempted to give me a blowjob. Retracting almost within a couple of minutes while making gagging sounds. It was pretty clear that there wasn’t going to be any more blowjobs for me. She made me ejaculate many times masturbating me with her hands and teasing my cock with her tongue and lips. We still did fuck back then, though not enough, but she did fuck me nonetheless.

She was 28 when we bought our dream house on 8 acres of land. In fact, we closed escrow on her birthday. We were watching a late night tv show when the main female character regretted only experiencing two penises in her life. I asked my wife, if she’s ever thought of experiencing only one cock. She slapped me on the knee and told me to shut-up. Months later, one night I was laying next to her and giving her a g-spot massage while cradling her head in my hand. I asked as she was approaching climax, if she would like to do a threesome? After a bit of haggling, she stipulated as long as I was there and that she could stop at any time she wished. I agreed.

More later.

-Zolan

[Mr1SexyGILF]

Welcome to OHW Zolan

I appreciate your taking the time to share your life story with us. I am looking forward to hearing “The Rest of the Story” as time allows.

Mr GILF

[jelly_banana]

Thanks for sharing your story.

[zorro]

Welcome, chaver.
From what you have said, Nomi likes having sex, just not with you.
And you sound pretty content with being denied while she fucks and enjoys other men.
Not for all of us, but there are other men who are like you on this site.

Does it create any issues for you?

[WifeCrazyHubby]

Welcome to OHW Zolan

I appreciate your taking the time to share your life story with us. I am looking forward to hearing “The Rest of the Story” as time allows.

Mr GILF

Thank you. I shall post the rest soon.

[WifeCrazyHubby]

Welcome, chaver.
From what you have said, Nomi likes having sex, just not with you.
And you sound pretty content with being denied while she fucks and enjoys other men.
Not for all of us, but there are other men who are like you on this site.

Does it create any issues for you?

Thank you. She does like cuddling and kissing, caressing and massaging, oral and digital, etc. with me. She always cums hard…very loud and super gushers. She has only cheated on me with one guy, which was more like an on and off affair that spanned over eight years. I think she’s sexually attracted to Joe more than she is to me. But he’s completely gone from the picture. She loves me and cares for me, and for our life. Wouldn’t even think of a divorce. She never considered or fantasized being married to Joe; she just liked fucking him. I only recently learned that she had this affair years ago. I was very upset…but that night I was sulking away in the family room and my mind wandered. Even though I was at her and at my friend…I got turned on and masturbated five times with ejaculation (I was 50 then.) Since then it has become an obsessive fantasy for me to keep envisioning Nomi and Joe…and of course others. On the other hand, we have tried to fuck a few times…but I lose it in a few strokes or even before I enter her…she still makes me too anxious. Perhaps because I was rejected for so long by her that I rather make her cum and later take care of myself with myself on my own.

-Zolman

[sharebare]

I am so fascinated by your story! Thank you for sharing. You are a special kind of Zen, my friend.

I would hate to spoil any surprises in your desired story flow, but being that you still physiologically and psychochemically enjoy sexual gratification, have you been able (or even just desired) to have sex with another woman? I am curious how your heart, body and mind would respond if your senses told you that your new sexual partner reciprocated with genuine sexual interest.

Speaking from personal experience, if I get any inkling that my wife is not fully interested in me, or in some way disappointed, my body gets turned off… immediately. The same thing happens when my wife gets jealous at the thought of me being interested in women that make her jealous, yet all the while, she can trust herself while being interested in another man. The hypocrisy and dichotomy between these two truths kills my libido.

Once again, wow, thank you for sharing.

[WifeCrazyHubby]

I am so fascinated by your story! Thank you for sharing. You are a special kind of Zen, my friend.

Hello!

Thank you for your comment. I haven’t had the time to finish writing our story. I have desired a couple women but never expressed myself. Even when younger or before learning of her affair, my masturbatory fantasies only involved Nomi. I am so fixated on my wife that in order for me to ejaculate, I need to be thinking of her. To masturbate I normally watch porn and often pull up a sexy photo of my wife. In my mind, while watching at the porn on the tv/computer, I replace the woman with my wife. It is really her that I fantasize. Crazy thing I desire her (and she desires me now that we are older) but for some reason I settle for doing oral and digital on her. Love the taste of that pussy. Later I masturbate just fantasizing her. Weird, I know!

Never in my life did I ever think about cheating on her. I could never hurt her, our kids or her parents. Actually, it is more about my in-laws and of course our kids. The in-laws helped me out and have given us a lot. They are good people and they have always trusted me. I never did anything brash because I cannot hurt or embarrass them. So I’ve made my life to be as smooth, or as boring, as possible.

On a separate note, when we went to therapy this thing was discussed. The therapist interpreted the perhaps by replacing intercourse with outercourse I regain some control over myself. Because Nomi has a bit of an authoritarian personality and I am a very mellow, not quite submissive but with a lot of patience and consideration for others. Nomi is hot headed. I am cool headed. She’s the only child of her parents and has that take-charge leadership qualities. Also, back when we did fuck, I liked it slow and easy. She liked it hard and fast and a little roughness. I couldn’t do that to her. She talks nasty, I can’t address her that way. But I do and always have found her to be super desirable and sexy.

I shall cover more about this in the upcoming post.

-Zolman

[tit5atat]

Looking forward to the continuation.

[silky nylons]

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[joel68]

Yeah, been a while.

I wonder if he’s tried Viagra or Cialis.

[philxxo]

Wow, this story sounds painful. As others have said, seems like maybe she loves you or wants to stay with you for whatever reason, but she does not enjoy sex with you. She is happy to let you pleasure her though, but seems like she doesn't care about your pleasure. Seems ironic to me that you could never cheat on her, yet she was doing Joe behind your back for 8 years. I can see why you have issues penetrating her. If I get a hint that my wife is not interested in sex, then I am suddenly not interested either. If she stats acting like she is annoyed and looks at sex as a chore, then I am no longer interested. I don't want "service sex". My suggestion for you is find another woman who will enjoy sexual pleasure with you. If you want to stay with your wife then let her be free and have sex with who she wants, although seems like she will do what she wants regardless of your "permission". You deserve more than masturbation. Get a girlfriend and try that for a while.

[WifeCrazyHubby]

Looking forward to the continuation.

Thank you and I shall. Sorry for the late response.

[WifeCrazyHubby]

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Thanks.

[WifeCrazyHubby]

Yeah, been a while.

I wonder if he’s tried Viagra or Cialis.

Thank you. ED is not a problem. Neither it is hormonal or physical. We are both very active. My wife did start on BHRT to address joint pain, hair loss and vaginal itching/yeast infections. She’s been on it for about eight months. There’s testosterone in it. No yeast infections and her skin has cleared up. Her energy levels are higher. Her sex desire and drive have gone up. She’s been masturbating a lot and been asking me to make her cum. Her orgasms are better and she’s getting better sleep. Actual, wet dreams of having sex where she’s been waking up drenched. She has asked me to fuck her but I don’t really want penetrative sex with her or anyone. I am, in my own way, content not having sex. I am a voyeur and I truly enjoy watching her when she masturbates. I often make myself ejaculate this way.

-Zolman

[WifeCrazyHubby]

Wow, this story sounds painful. As others have said, seems like maybe she loves you or wants to stay with you for whatever reason, but she does not enjoy sex with you. She is happy to let you pleasure her though, but seems like she doesn't care about your pleasure. Seems ironic to me that you could never cheat on her, yet she was doing Joe behind your back for 8 years. I can see why you have issues penetrating her. If I get a hint that my wife is not interested in sex, then I am suddenly not interested either. If she stats acting like she is annoyed and looks at sex as a chore, then I am no longer interested. I don't want "service sex". My suggestion for you is find another woman who will enjoy sexual pleasure with you. If you want to stay with your wife then let her be free and have sex with who she wants, although seems like she will do what she wants regardless of your "permission". You deserve more than masturbation. Get a girlfriend and try that for a while.

Thank you. I don’t consider myself a masochist. So, for me it is not about pain—neither physical nor emotional. Nomi is definitely a sadist (goes overboard teasing me) and does have masochistic proclivities but I don’t go there. She’s loud and screams throughout sex. I do love exhausting her from orgasms and it is common for her to experience between 10 and 20 orgasms per session. She started on BHRT around 8 months ago. It contains time released testosterone. She also uses Estring. A time released estrogen ring for the vagina. Though that was to address her post menopausal joint pain, hair loss and vaginal itching. It is changing her sexual personality a bit. Has definitely become more demanding. She masturbates almost every night as we watch tv. Sometimes she puts on a show for me while she masturbates herself…with verbalizing one of her fantasies of fucking some guy. She gives them names too. Sometimes she does ask me to lick her and as I’ve written before, I absolutely love doing oral on her pussy. Often she calls me with names of guys she’s fantasizing about and I am fine with that.

Fact is I don’t really care for penetrative sex, but she’s been asking for it the last few months. We do a little, then I pull out or flip her over and get between her legs for pussy lapping. That’s what I enjoy.

-Zolman

[philxxo]

Fact is I don’t really care for penetrative sex, but she’s been asking for it the last few months. We do a little, then I pull out or flip her over and get between her legs for pussy lapping. That’s what I enjoy.

-Zolman

I can understand that. I enjoy giving orgasm by pussy licking more than most anything else. Something my wife doesn't really understand. As long as you are happy.

[WifeCrazyHubby]

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I can understand that. I enjoy giving orgasm by pussy licking more than most anything else. Something my wife doesn't really understand. As long as you are happy.
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Thanks. I love face she make when she’s horny and cums, but what I love the most is the ear-to-ear smile and a sense of airiness she carries with her after the orgasms—that’s what turns me on. I like being sexually turned-on and hard for her, rather than limp and spent. It keeps me hyper-vigilant…I take notice of everything she says and does. She does get upset when she catches me observing (staring as she puts it) at her. You asked me why she has stayed in the relationship? You summed up the answer to the question perfectly that Nomi gets to do what Nomi wants to do. There really isn’t any stopping to it.

Be well.

-Zolman

[philxxo]

Sounds like we married the same woman in some ways! LOL My wife also hates it when I stare at her. I love that same feeling of giving her a good orgasm, especially when I licked her all the way to one. Good luck to you both.