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[curiouschattycouple]

We had a long talk the other night about her having another guy to keep her company while I am gone for work, as I am sometimes away for weeks on end. She was suggesting having her initial candidate come over but just to keep her company and warm the bed and hold her, and in return she would be ok with over the clothes (pajamas) groping only. I told her to go ahead, because I know there is no way she can keep her clothes on after a back rub and some spooning. So I guess maybe he is back in the picture out of convenience, although she had ruled him out. Probably because she mostly trusts him since they had some previous interaction and because if I am not there he would go for it. I don't think she is going to move forward with it too soon, but I think she was feeling out whether it would be an option for some of my planned absences next year.

Initially when we were talking rules earlier this year, we agreed to keep this out of the house, but since we have a seperate entrance option for the master bedroom wing, she figures he could park across the road and sneak in after the kids go to bed, and she can kick him out by midnight or so.

Anyways, very exciting to talk about and she clearly has been thinking. We will need to go over this more, but it does seem like solo play is back as her preferred option.

[whosbeensleeping]

That's awesome. Fingers crossed for you two.

[snoogaloo82]

We had a long talk the other night about her having another guy to keep her company while I am gone for work, as I am sometimes away for weeks on end. She was suggesting having her initial candidate come over but just to keep her company and warm the bed and hold her, and in return she would be ok with over the clothes (pajamas) groping only. I told her to go ahead, because I know there is no way she can keep her clothes on after a back rub and some spooning. So I guess maybe he is back in the picture out of convenience, although she had ruled him out. Probably because she mostly trusts him since they had some previous interaction and because if I am not there he would go for it. I don't think she is going to move forward with it too soon, but I think she was feeling out whether it would be an option for some of my planned absences next year.

Initially when we were talking rules earlier this year, we agreed to keep this out of the house, but since we have a seperate entrance option for the master bedroom wing, she figures he could park across the road and sneak in after the kids go to bed, and she can kick him out by midnight or so.

Anyways, very exciting to talk about and she clearly has been thinking. We will need to go over this more, but it does seem like solo play is back as her preferred option.

If it floats your boat I say go for it!!

[curiouschattycouple]

We will see what happens. It's not the first false start.

[philxxo]

I think that is a promising idea. No guy is going to come over just to hold her and grope with clothes on. I'm sure she realizes that. She is probably just floating the idea and testing you. Just say yes, yes, yes. It sounds like a good start.

[snoogaloo82]

I think that is a promising idea. No guy is going to come over just to hold her and grope with clothes on. I'm sure she realizes that. She is probably just floating the idea and testing you. Just say yes, yes, yes. It sounds like a good start.

you'd be amazed at what some people will do to finally get inside of her!!

[trecital]

you'd be amazed at what some people will do to finally get inside of her!!

Yeah.