Am I the only one loving my wife doing anal?

[Farmgirl]

My question for those who say they do anal is: Do you use an enema prior to doing it?

I've never had a problem at all, and I don't use an enema before. I do no extra steps, I just know my body.
I really don't get the whole phobia of anal being dirty.

[Farmgirl]

That's why I stay away. It's great in porn but in reality there are execution risks I'm not willing to take.

One of these days, if you live long enough, one of you will have to wipe the other's ass.
My Number1 once enjoyed fucking another guy's wife all because her husband thought licking her pussy was too dirty.

[afagehi7]

That's why I stay away. It's great in porn but in reality there are execution risks I'm not willing to take.

One of these days, if you live long enough, one of you will have to wipe the other's ass.
My Number1 once enjoyed fucking another guy's wife all because her husband thought licking her pussy was too dirty.

If wife wants it, I'd certainly do it but generally it's the male pushing for anal. You're an exception to that.

[Mysecret]

Anal is not my kink, either; but somehow it is so hot to know other men have fucked my wife's willing ass, and have possessed her in ways I haven't. It made me hard when she described one guy she called "pencil dick" who preferred to fuck her in the ass. Even though her pussy is tight, he found her asshold tighter. I could never give up her pussy or mouth, but other men can have her ass.

This sounds hot. My wife and i recently started a bit of anal play after 10 years of marriage. But just a bit of light fingering. I have purchased a small anal dildo that I plan to use soon. I have never been into anal but she seems to respond well when we play gently. I am not sure if I eventually want to fuck her in the ass.....but the thought of another man taking her anal cherry is a huge turn on. The thought of her maybe only giving it to another man is also hot

[ucaneffher]

I’ve always wanted to try anal but none of my girlfriends have been up for it. Back when my then Gf and I atarted the lifestyle, she fell really hard for one guy who became her favorite lover. She had decided he was going to have the pleasure of taking her anal virginity and he was going to be the only one who would be getting her ass. In reality, I would have been happy knowing her lovers all got to fuck that sexy ass of hers but it never happened while we were together.

I can’t believe there’s guys who don’t care about anal… can you gentlemen elaborate as to what you don’t like?

[Outlaw]

When I was young, I watched a porn where it went badly. The movie, Yankee Subduction.

[Mysecret]

I’ve always wanted to try anal but none of my girlfriends have been up for it. Back when my then Gf and I atarted the lifestyle, she fell really hard for one guy who became her favorite lover. She had decided he was going to have the pleasure of taking her anal virginity and he was going to be the only one who would be getting her ass. In reality, I would have been happy knowing her lovers all got to fuck that sexy ass of hers but it never happened while we were together.

I can’t believe there’s guys who don’t care about anal… can you gentlemen elaborate as to what you don’t like?

Up until recently it basically just grossed me out. Plus I enjoy my wife's pussy so much. Do you also eat it? I don't think I could ever go there.

I am a butt guy and love my wife's ass and this prefer doggy style. When we make sex videos I almost always fuck her doggy exclusively as it's the best for me to watch. Having said that.....anal hasn't been my thing.

Do you mind sharing how you can get there physically? Like so far I am fingering (wearing finger cots as I cannot bring myself to stick bare finger in). I will be using a small dildo soon but to go from that to my cocktail is a huge difference. Do you suggest gradually progesssing to larger items or butt plugs?

Also what type of prep do you recommend before having actial anal? Should we be using some sort of device to wash out beforehand? The thought of prep is a bit of a turnoff.....I like sex to be spontaneous and unplanned. Probably why anal hasn't really been on my list....I doubt I could bend her over, add some lube and ram it in like I can with her pussy and also mouth

[ucaneffher]

I’ve always wanted to try anal but none of my girlfriends have been up for it. Back when my then Gf and I atarted the lifestyle, she fell really hard for one guy who became her favorite lover. She had decided he was going to have the pleasure of taking her anal virginity and he was going to be the only one who would be getting her ass. In reality, I would have been happy knowing her lovers all got to fuck that sexy ass of hers but it never happened while we were together.

I can’t believe there’s guys who don’t care about anal… can you gentlemen elaborate as to what you don’t like?

Up until recently it basically just grossed me out. Plus I enjoy my wife's pussy so much. Do you also eat it? I don't think I could ever go there.

I am a butt guy and love my wife's ass and this prefer doggy style. When we make sex videos I almost always fuck her doggy exclusively as it's the best for me to watch. Having said that.....anal hasn't been my thing.

Do you mind sharing how you can get there physically? Like so far I am fingering (wearing finger cots as I cannot bring myself to stick bare finger in). I will be using a small dildo soon but to go from that to my cocktail is a huge difference. Do you suggest gradually progesssing to larger items or butt plugs?

Also what type of prep do you recommend before having actial anal? Should we be using some sort of device to wash out beforehand? The thought of prep is a bit of a turnoff.....I like sex to be spontaneous and unplanned. Probably why anal hasn't really been on my list....I doubt I could bend her over, add some lube and ram it in like I can with her pussy and also mouth

The furthest I’ve gotten is eating my girlfriends ass, yes, I absolute love clamping onto her anus as she is on four. My gf has an amazing ass and while it’s not fake, it did receive a little help from a surgeon a few years ago. He ass is huge. While it’s not disproportionate or funky looking, it she gets a lot of attention nearly every single time we are out at a bar/club/restaurant where she wears a tight dress or revealing outfit; women walk up to us and compliment her ass every time we are out snd men just outright break their necks looking. I love it.

We have played around with plugs once or twice and we are supposed to be playing around with her wearing one when we go out. She doesn’t wear panties or bras unless it’s something formal.

[UKDurham]

We are pretty spontaneous in bed and anal seems like to much preparation when there’s two perfectly good holes and K isn’t that bothered.

This seems weird in hindsight when I get pegged fairly often!

However I do like the fact it’s a ‘virgin’ hole, no ones been up there. I did have a strong fantasy of her tying me up/ gagging me when with a bull and then offering her rosebud to him while right in front of me.

N

[Her number1]

We are pretty spontaneous in bed and anal seems like to much preparation when there’s two perfectly good holes and K isn’t that bothered.

This seems weird in hindsight when I get pegged fairly often!

However I do like the fact it’s a ‘virgin’ hole, no ones been up there. I did have a strong fantasy of her tying me up/ gagging me when with a bull and then offering her rosebud to him while right in front of me.

N

We never prep, and never a problem.

[Mysecret]

Were you the first to take her anally? I would be thr first for my wife and I do worry about how to get inside her the first time and also what happens when we finish. I not at all into anything about the anus except penetrating

[Lookingforadventure]

We are pretty spontaneous in bed and anal seems like to much preparation when there’s two perfectly good holes and K isn’t that bothered.

This seems weird in hindsight when I get pegged fairly often!

However I do like the fact it’s a ‘virgin’ hole, no ones been up there. I did have a strong fantasy of her tying me up/ gagging me when with a bull and then offering her rosebud to him while right in front of me.

N

We never prep, and never a problem.

I agree, although I do want to point out that if a woman has never done anal that the guy should remember that an asshole is not the same as a pussy. You don't have to do an enema prep or anything (unless you want to), but do take some time to warm things up before you dive in. The warm up can be whatever you are comfortable with. Licking feels great, but if that grosses you out, fingers are good too. Go slow. Use lube. She should focus on relaxing and enjoying the feeling. When it is time to try your cock, I suggest the same advice: go slow, use lube, she needs to relax.

I love anal and can sometimes take a good anal pounding, but usually prefer my anal sex much slower than pussy fucking.

[Her number1]

We are pretty spontaneous in bed and anal seems like to much preparation when there’s two perfectly good holes and K isn’t that bothered.

This seems weird in hindsight when I get pegged fairly often!

However I do like the fact it’s a ‘virgin’ hole, no ones been up there. I did have a strong fantasy of her tying me up/ gagging me when with a bull and then offering her rosebud to him while right in front of me.

N

We never prep, and never a problem.

I agree, although I do want to point out that if a woman has never done anal that the guy should remember that an asshole is not the same as a pussy. You don't have to do an enema prep or anything (unless you want to), but do take some time to warm things up before you dive in. The warm up can be whatever you are comfortable with. Licking feels great, but if that grosses you out, fingers are good too. Go slow. Use lube. She should focus on relaxing and enjoying the feeling. When it is time to try your cock, I suggest the same advice: go slow, use lube, she needs to relax.

I love anal and can sometimes take a good anal pounding, but usually prefer my anal sex much slower than pussy fucking.

Very good point you brought up and one that I know Farmgirl wholly agrees with. I just did the quick version , which wasn't complete .
You sound like an amazing woman.

[Curioushubby99]

Anal was never my kink, but I got so hard whenever, some guy fucked my wife's bubble butt. She had a bf for about a year that loved fucking her ass. For some reason she loved his cock in her ass more than any other. I guess he was slow and easy but she always cum hard.

I love to fuck my wifes ass but she says I am to big and it hurts to much, therefore it is a rare treat. However if we are having an mmf and the other cock is smaller then she will quite often allow them to have a go. Her preffered method is have a DP with me in her pussy, whilst I do enjoy that I much prefer to sit back and enjoy the very arousing sight of the other guy fucking her ass.

[SRKnight]

My wife enjoys it with her long term boyfriend. We don’t do it. Sorta part of the forbidden taboo

[zorro]

For those contemplating using buttplugs: Be careful. During vaginal play while wearing a plug, the plug can get pulled into the rectum. It will eventually come out but then requires some fishing around in the toilet to retrieve it. So, have a good large rubber glove around as an emergency backup just in case.
Not particularly dangerous but disconcerting if you don't know it can happen.

[Farmgirl]

For those contemplating using buttplugs: Be careful. During vaginal play while wearing a plug, the plug can get pulled into the rectum. It will eventually come out but then requires some fishing around in the toilet to retrieve it. So, have a good large rubber glove around as an emergency backup just in case.
Not particularly dangerous but disconcerting if you don't know it can happen.

LOL Great sex is never had by the squeamish

[alexd4fun]

@zorro - most butt plugs I have seen have a wide base so they don't disappear.
I enjoy giving anal. It probably helps that I am an average 6" and thick - so she isn't trying to fit a quart into a pint.
I have been lucky enough to get the chance to deflower several 60 something anal virgin women thanks to one guy.
He has several women as lady friends. Since he has medical issues I am his stunt cock. He has lots of toys so he would give them something hard regularly, just not him.
For anal, he would make sure to give her an enema before I did her. He even enjoyed anal cream pies.
For one women he meet on POF, I deflowered and creamed her ass. Then he put on a strap-on, had her ride him, and I took her ass again - giving her her first DP.

[WifeLovesToPlay]

I kept my wife's asshole private until we were in our forties. Seems silly now, but I was the only guy who had ever fucked her there and I wanted to keep it that way. When she did give it up, it made me really jealous but extremely hot!
If she is going to take it in the ass, she will usually take a pic and txt it too me.
I get so hot waiting at home knowing she taking it in the ass from a young stud!

[OnlyTheBrave]

Me and Mrs OTB have only had 1 hot wife experience and we never got to anal with another guy there.

She enjoys anal with me, I think because we know each others bodies so well though.

She was keen on DP but the guy we chose wasn't very confident in what he was doing so we never got to it. I suppose it must be a tad intimidating being with 2 confident sexual people.

I'll get her that DP though. For sure.

[Outlaw]

Well, rock the DP.

[Tryagain]

Though we have never been in a situation to try DP out, I think it is just so difficult to carry out, it really is not about pleasing the wife but more about the kink of doing it for a minute or so.

[CnGMidwest]

When we began with this journey, it was assumed that my wife’s ass would remain mine. Given that we were seeing guys who were very well endowed, we both agreed that she wouldn’t be able to take them. As you’d guess, that didn’t end up being the case, as she’s had her ass used by a few bulls, including her current one. She had never been into anal for the first 15 years of marriage, but has really grown to enjoy it lately!

[oompaloompa]

I don't like doing anal myself, anything in the bum puts me off, I'm too sensitive when it comes to cleanliness and smells, just the thought puts me off, BUT I'm still very very into my fiancee getting anal from another guy, it's incredibly hot and she's always been quite into it.

[SammySigns]

We've had anal a few times and she really got into it, but haven't done it in a long time. She's never done anal with someone else, but it is a fantasy of mine to see her give it up.