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AyupBreakerhymen wrote: ↑Thu May 19, 2022 9:41 amAgain pregnancy and raising a kid is a serious issue. Raising a child in this situation is the height of irresponsibility. It’s fact not judgement.
I think you are right. The last several decades in American society have not been good for children. But to me, having children in a cuckold/hotwife situation is .....unless the husband is infertile, and cannot impregnate his wife, AND they have checked out the health history of the Wife's lover, THEN .....I still don't think it' s a great idea. What happens if the marriage blows up after the child is born? Is the infertile husband going to be okay paying child support until the kid turns 18 for a child that is not biologically his?Tryagain wrote: ↑Sun Apr 02, 2023 11:18 amIt is my personal value system that the only reason to have a child is to create more love based upon the love that a husband and wife have for each other. They love each other so very much that they want to experience more of this love.
So all of this discussion about wanting some else's baby - or not caring if she becomes pregnant by another guy - demeans the meaning of procreation arising from love.
Why the hell do you think we have a huge proportion of children loving in single person households and growing up emotionally distorted? People having children for all the wrong reasons.
I'm not even sure if the story is true but in any case, how did you work that out?
Definitely happens more often than society would like to accept. If we really think about it, as long as the baby receives love from both parents, and all of the ingredients for proper development are present, he or she will have a proper upbringing.Robvanjan wrote: ↑Wed Feb 21, 2024 5:04 amSo, I read this post and maybe I can add something to this...
I have 11 kids with 8 different women over the last 20 years, most are cuckold couples that planned the pregnancy or took the risk with me. My current is 4 months along. I have a 14 month old at home and she is prepping for another one at the end of the year. I'm 51 yoa. Children and babies are the most beautiful things in the world. Once the baby comes, your mindset changes. Especially for the cuck. I strange thing happens with the cuck and a deep love for the mother occurs. A huge effort is made by the cuck to build a support system for the baby. I still see five of the couples from time to time and have a close relationship (poly) with one of the couples now (4 months along + 4yr old) and all of them say the same thing... they wish they started sooner with their cuckold pregnancy. A cuckold must come to terms with who they are and once that happens, embrace it and all that it entails; including raising offspring that is not yours. I give all of my cucks a tremendous amount of respect and love for all that they do for my offspring. All of this is more common than you think. Folks just don't talk about it. Peace!
Just beautiful and very intense!Robvanjan wrote: ↑Fri Feb 23, 2024 3:38 amWell stated! Thanks for the love brother!
PS: For the cuckolds out there...
hubby (4 months along one) was there during the entire (once a month for 6 months) insemination process. He held her hand, kissed her, felt my muscles in my back and butt flex, touched and massaged both of our bodies inside and out during intercourse, felt her orgasms and my ejaculation from inside my anus. His wife and I made love for a long time. The two of us held together, still connected and fell asleep while hubby spent a long time, pulled me out and cleaned us both. It was the most beautiful and intense sexual experience to date.
I hope you got to enjoy the wives during the changes as the baby bump grows.Robvanjan wrote: ↑Fri Feb 23, 2024 3:38 amWell stated! Thanks for the love brother!
PS: For the cuckolds out there...
hubby (4 months along one) was there during the entire (once a month for 6 months) insemination process. He held her hand, kissed her, felt my muscles in my back and butt flex, touched and massaged both of our bodies inside and out during intercourse, felt her orgasms and my ejaculation from inside my anus. His wife and I made love for a long time. The two of us held together, still connected and fell asleep while hubby spent a long time, pulled me out and cleaned us both. It was the most beautiful and intense sexual experience to date.
Well stated! Thank you.ucaneffher wrote: ↑Thu Feb 22, 2024 5:48 amDefinitely happens more often than society would like to accept. If we really think about it, as long as the baby receives love from both parents, and all of the ingredients for proper development are present, he or she will have a proper upbringing.Robvanjan wrote: ↑Wed Feb 21, 2024 5:04 amSo, I read this post and maybe I can add something to this...
I have 11 kids with 8 different women over the last 20 years, most are cuckold couples that planned the pregnancy or took the risk with me. My current is 4 months along. I have a 14 month old at home and she is prepping for another one at the end of the year. I'm 51 yoa. Children and babies are the most beautiful things in the world. Once the baby comes, your mindset changes. Especially for the cuck. I strange thing happens with the cuck and a deep love for the mother occurs. A huge effort is made by the cuck to build a support system for the baby. I still see five of the couples from time to time and have a close relationship (poly) with one of the couples now (4 months along + 4yr old) and all of them say the same thing... they wish they started sooner with their cuckold pregnancy. A cuckold must come to terms with who they are and once that happens, embrace it and all that it entails; including raising offspring that is not yours. I give all of my cucks a tremendous amount of respect and love for all that they do for my offspring. All of this is more common than you think. Folks just don't talk about it. Peace!
Dad is the man who raises and teaches you how to be a man (or woman) of values and integrity. Hell, there are biological fathers out there who can easily just be classified as sperm donors while there are stepdads who go out of their way to ensure that his children are number one, even if they're not genetically his. That is a real father.
I am not idolizing or pursuing the idea of my partner having children with other men (if we ever get into the lifestyle) but I can at least say that if it happened accidentally or she expressed wanting to have a child or children with a boyfriend or lover, then I would not fully shut the idea down. I'd need to sit down and have a serious talk about why and how things would be but I think that I would be open minded to it. Ideally I'd prefer to have my own but sometimes life goes in different directions.
Thanks for sharing your experience.
