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Minnhotwife wrote: ↑

Sun Apr 24, 2022 10:47 am

Excellent replies everyone. We are officially poly as my wife is in love with another man. She has planned out dates with him and they are not simply in it just for sex. Still sorting through my feelings but am okay with it and happy for her.

I’ll keep anyone up to date who wants to know how it progresses over the next few months or maybe years?

I love my wife and very happy to be with her. Excited to take this journey into something beyond FWB or even a stag/cuck dynamic.

tito123177 wrote: ↑

Sun Apr 24, 2022 7:32 am

I really want her to be in love with another man and do couple things with him, the more romantic the more exciting it is for me…

00rdster wrote: ↑

Sun Apr 24, 2022 10:58 am

We've also changed over the course of our journey. My wife actually exchanged rings with her boyfriend/lover. She wears it most of the time and all the time they're together. They are spending the day together right now planning a trip to Mexico where they will have a commitment ceremony. I couldn't be more excited.

cuckoldcpl4fun13 wrote: ↑

Wed Jun 30, 2021 7:40 am

I only want long term relationships with people period. Having sex is good for an orgasm but the best sex I have ever had was when I had a connection with my lovers. I have said this before, my lovers become boyfriends and when they do, I open up to doing much more for them then just getting them off. We can explore their fantasies, enjoy trips, hang out all night, etc and the comfort allows for us to truly enjoy the bond that we form. Plus, we learn each other's bodies, likes and how to groove together in bed. Yes sex is good but without a connection I prefer a dildo since I can make it get me off much faster than sex with somebody I have no interest in.

On top of that, I like being vocal in bed, not loud or yelling but talking as we are having sex. Being more than a one time sex toy allows for sex talk that just sets me off. I have had boyfriends that could get me off in less than 5 mins because we were so in tune with each other and it was EXPLOSIVE. After that first orgasm my body was shaking with multiple orgasm until he had his orgasm. I know there is a certain ego trip tied to being with another man's wife but imagine being able to make her feel that way? haha, anyway, just my two cents.

00rdster wrote: ↑

Fri Apr 29, 2022 11:07 am

It's ceremony to celebrate their relationship. It's not legally binding but makes their relationship more formal. They will have an officiant and exchange vows. It won't really change much, other than they will consider themselves in a committed relationship. It's super exciting!

tito123177 wrote: ↑

Sat Apr 30, 2022 9:41 am

00rdster wrote: ↑

Fri Apr 29, 2022 11:07 am

It's ceremony to celebrate their relationship. It's not legally binding but makes their relationship more formal. They will have an officiant and exchange vows. It won't really change much, other than they will consider themselves in a committed relationship. It's super exciting!

That's the kind of stuff that excites me more than just sex, those little things about them going in a real relationship, congratulations, I hope someday I can achive something similar and my wife can have a boyfriend.

Please update us on how was that ceremony, I would love to read the details

tito123177 wrote: ↑

Sat Apr 30, 2022 9:41 am

00rdster wrote: ↑

Fri Apr 29, 2022 11:07 am

It's ceremony to celebrate their relationship. It's not legally binding but makes their relationship more formal. They will have an officiant and exchange vows. It won't really change much, other than they will consider themselves in a committed relationship. It's super exciting!

That's the kind of stuff that excites me more than just sex, those little things about them going in a real relationship, congratulations, I hope someday I can achive something similar and my wife can have a boyfriend.

Please update us on how was that ceremony, I would love to read the details

00rdster wrote: ↑

Mon May 16, 2022 8:51 am

They booked flights and a suite in Cancun for the 3rd week of July. They're arranging for a commitment ceremony on the beach. For some reason, the resort hasn't returned her emails or phone calls about the ceremony, so she's looking for local officiants to conduct the ceremony just in case. Thay are also shopping for matching bands and she has already purchased a light white cotton dress for the ceremony.

pixwellguy wrote: ↑

Mon May 23, 2022 6:09 am

00rdster wrote: ↑

Mon May 16, 2022 8:51 am

They booked flights and a suite in Cancun for the 3rd week of July. They're arranging for a commitment ceremony on the beach. For some reason, the resort hasn't returned her emails or phone calls about the ceremony, so she's looking for local officiants to conduct the ceremony just in case. Thay are also shopping for matching bands and she has already purchased a light white cotton dress for the ceremony.

That's wonderful! Will you be attending the ceremony? Wouldn't it be great to be there as a guest, or better still, to "give the 'bride' away" in some fashion? Then have them go off to the bridal suite together, and pay no attention to you for the rest of the trip?

00rdster wrote: ↑

Mon May 23, 2022 1:32 pm

pixwellguy wrote: ↑

Mon May 23, 2022 6:09 am

00rdster wrote: ↑

Mon May 16, 2022 8:51 am

They booked flights and a suite in Cancun for the 3rd week of July. They're arranging for a commitment ceremony on the beach. For some reason, the resort hasn't returned her emails or phone calls about the ceremony, so she's looking for local officiants to conduct the ceremony just in case. Thay are also shopping for matching bands and she has already purchased a light white cotton dress for the ceremony.

That's wonderful! Will you be attending the ceremony? Wouldn't it be great to be there as a guest, or better still, to "give the 'bride' away" in some fashion? Then have them go off to the bridal suite together, and pay no attention to you for the rest of the trip?

Actually he and I have never met. It's like they have their own separate life and she likes it that way. They have their own routines, favorite restaurants, and shows like any other couple. She is great about sharing things with me though. So, unfortunately I won't be hanging out on the beaches in Mexico, but just staying home wondering how everything is going with them.

pixwellguy wrote: ↑

Tue May 24, 2022 7:21 am

I get that completely - it's the same with my wife and her lover; he and I have never met and never will. He knows that I know about their affair and that I am fine with it. He doesn't understand that, but he's quite willing to have my wife as his lover under those conditions.

Isn't it wonderful to know that your wife and her lover have their own "places" and their own routines together? It fills in the picture of them as a true couple, and of the intimacy they share.

00rdster wrote: ↑

Wed May 25, 2022 7:13 am

pixwellguy and Wooster, it sounds like we're on the same journey. I never thought things would progress like this, but it's been amazing.

As for us, she secured an officiant after asking her lover if he was sure he wanted to go through with the "nuptials." He said yes of course. So she's working with the officiant to write their ceremony and vows.

Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑

Wed May 25, 2022 11:41 am

Your situations all appear quite out in the open/public, with various other people who are aware. So I am wondering how the various individuals, you, your HW, her SSO (Second Significant Other, I just made that up) friends, relatives, co-workers, of this dynamic sort of works.

zorro wrote: ↑

Wed Dec 03, 2008 5:37 am

How many hotwives out there have found that after a while just having sex with other men is not enough and they want to have deeper, more emotional relationships with other men than hubby? In other words, for how many want more than just the sex?

Des 31 wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 26, 2022 8:07 am

zorro wrote: ↑

Wed Dec 03, 2008 5:37 am

How many hotwives out there have found that after a while just having sex with other men is not enough and they want to have deeper, more emotional relationships with other men than hubby? In other words, for how many want more than just the sex?

I don't know if it's common, but my wife prefers an emotional bond with other men. The sex is better, particularly when a friend with who she is already close when they get around to having sex. She is now 35. Since beginning our way of life when she was 28, she is open to short-term casual sex or fuckbuddy sex but finds the relationship more exciting and satisfying if the two are personally compatible friends who like each other in ways having nothing to do with sex.

For the reason it's better for her that way, I enjoy their fucking as well. She practices discretion so others don't know about our open marriage, and that works for the two of us. For the reason she has a relatively high-profile position in her work, she doesn't date them openly when they're in or near our city. Ours isn't really an open marriage in the sense most consider that way of life; she has more freedom to do as she wishes than I.

~ Des

zorro wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 26, 2022 11:59 am

Des 31 wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 26, 2022 8:07 am

zorro wrote: ↑

Wed Dec 03, 2008 5:37 am

How many hotwives out there have found that after a while just having sex with other men is not enough and they want to have deeper, more emotional relationships with other men than hubby? In other words, for how many want more than just the sex?

I don't know if it's common, but my wife prefers an emotional bond with other men. The sex is better, particularly when a friend with who she is already close when they get around to having sex. She is now 35. Since beginning our way of life when she was 28, she is open to short-term casual sex or fuckbuddy sex but finds the relationship more exciting and satisfying if the two are personally compatible friends who like each other in ways having nothing to do with sex.

For the reason it's better for her that way, I enjoy their fucking as well. She practices discretion so others don't know about our open marriage, and that works for the two of us. For the reason she has a relatively high-profile position in her work, she doesn't date them openly when they're in or near our city. Ours isn't really an open marriage in the sense most consider that way of life; she has more freedom to do as she wishes than I.

~ Des

Thanks, Des. We are exactly the same as you two. Fondness definitely makes the sex better -- for everyone involved. Not that good old-fashioned raw sex isn't fun sometimes too. With the pandemic, we are sticking with one long-term regular who has been reliable, fun, and provided plenty of cross-energy.