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The feeling of angst that I get hearing she is going to spend the night almost kills me. I love and hate it. I don’t know how you handle it. I put my self in your place and it’s exciting and terrifying.

I agree. There is probably a middle ground between nothing in the lifestyle and she denies you with no communication about it for a week while she is actively doing things with someone else (not to mention the two nights away). In any event, I’m glad you’re happy and having routine sex with your wif...

W I really hope you can fuck her ass as well. If only once. Does she still have the plug?

tojanman wrote: ↑

Mon Jun 05, 2023 10:47 am

You need to fuck her ass at least once W. Just to reclaim all of Lana’s body again.

Ooh. Yes.

Congratulations. That sounds great. Very hot too.

mundyman wrote: ↑

Sun Jun 04, 2023 5:27 pm

One way or the other I bet W’s head is swimming and incapable of much coherent thought. Good or bad I’m sure he’s a hot mess right now.
God love you W, hoping for the best.

Agree 100%.

Do you get the feeling if there is no update until later tomorrow, that things went poorly? I sure hope not, but I would have assumed naps or showers where W might have updated. Of course any information is a blessing, and he has already shared enough for a lifetime. Hoping everything’s is going exa...

Will try and respond to the recent posts later today or tomorrow, time permitting. I really do appreciate all of the input in the last few days. It's been incredibly helpful. Update: she's on her way home now. Romantic breakfast with her favorite champagne ready to go with flowers, so thank you for...

I couldn’t handle it. Bananarama.

I hope she come home to you tonight after getting some dick this afternoon. I just want you to get release and fun.

Did she text at all last night. Wouldn’t she normally if she was with the girls - just to let you know what’s going on?

... Update: I'm having a hard time at the moment and drinking my way through this. Mostly because it's raining pretty hard in the city right now and I have an affinity for walking in the city at night in the rain. There's something about it that's always seemed comforting to me, and now Adam will l...

You are a braver man than me W! I honestly couldn’t stomach such a douche bag being allowed to have more fun with her after how he reacted to the rejection the first time round. But why oh why am I feeling all angsty as well?! If this was my L I’d honestly have had to tell her I couldn’t stomach it...

I hope so but the level of deception on her part through all this with Shawn and now Adam seems poisonous I tend to agree. That and my own tendency toward stag who participates leaves me fearful, but people have different goals. W’s feelings and desires on this are different than mine, and I am try...

BTW after she came back from office at night after her anal play with adam, did you fake being asleep and she simply went to sleep or was there any interactions between you. Good question. Guessing it was just goodnight stuff, but I would love to know. I feel bad asking, you do provide a lot already.

This is just my 2 cents, but the lying really seems bothersome. She's getting comfortable with leaving out key details and keeping you as uninformed as possible. Is she actually thinking that she is getting away with something without you knowing? Doesn't that sound dishonest to you? Unchecked, Lan...

I don’t love the cheating because I see this lifestyle as a joint thing we would both enjoy ( I’m a forever wannabe). I realize other people feel differently, but the denial, keeping secrets, etc. just hurts me to read. I love this thread. It is my favorite and hot, but it also seems unkind sometime...

I hate the cheating hall pass. I can’t think of anything good about it. Hall pass where I know, great, but I don’t like this. To each his own.

I don’t mean to pry, but if the libido dropped that hard, you might want to check with an endocrinologist. Taking estrogen or progesterone (even just a birth control bill) can really help this. Helped us.

This gets better and better.

Wow. Just wow.

I never PM folks but I would love to hear anything else that is going through your and her minds.

Haha. That is a bunch of questions but I would like to hear all the same answers.

Does the texting everyday (every other day) bother you? If she wasn’t so busy would she be playing with him much more? I assume both of these are ok with you, but some people might not be. Just wondering about the dynamic. Have you been having at least sex a couple times a week, taking her in differ...

Would also love a debrief or some kind of summary of feelings, future thoughts, etc., but quite frankly, w has posted enough interesting content for three people. I wouldn’t dare ask for more.