Our Hotwives

We have been discussing entering the lifestyle for years now. There’s been plenty of fantasy talk and some light playing with others but nothing full on as of yet. We are a super busy family of 5 with all the commitments of running a business and raising 2 middle schoolers and a high schooler. Jugg...

This is such an interesting topic! wife's 44 and I'm 47, the first guy she fucked she was 39 and the guy was 33 (she enjoyed that meet).....and till date she's never comfortable even exploring with guys who are very young, her comfort zone is 35-50 (oldest thing she's fucked is 52). I do keep tellin...

TBH this kind of anxiety should never be there in the first place! so there's no question of it going away. I do feel your wife's giving you honest answers and you might be creating the smoke without the fire. When wife and I started out I would filter n introduce her to guys who would chat using my...

Very good thread....will try and answer the questions below Is having a hotwife everything its cracked up to be? Yes! It's something not for everyone though, although many husbands would want it, few lucky ones who have a plan and adventurous wives experience it :) Is it something that is over rated...

She's not rejecting the idea outright is a big thing in itself...the time line of things varies, a lot of factors internal and external. She may have a lot of apprehensions too which perhaps haven't been discussed yet. We started out exploring online chatting (that way its anonymous and she can stop...

Too much experience can be off putting. It sounds like he was only interested in the act rather than she and you as people. I can understand her rejection of what seems to be a single dimensional guy. Remember it's her body, so she gets to make the calls. Perhaps she needs to recruit the guys rathe...

Well, I mean yeah. I don't find guys attractive or whatnot. So there has been several guys where I'm like "This guy seems alright, I think she'll like him" only to have my wife look at him and go "nope." Trust the process, she knows what she wants inside her. Totally with ya on this....just we neve...

That you guys meet a single guy and like him but she shoot him down? lol :) So we are exploring a MFMM with wife and me and two other guys. One of the guys we have met multiples times and now come to trust and person at a personal level recently suggested a guy who he met in the Lifestyle while play...

Try telegram (free) on Threema (paid) but both dont need cell phone numbers so one can be anonymous initially

Looking for advice from experienced cpls n hubbys. Thanks for reading. Just to give a brief background wife and I have been a HW cpl (she's 43 and I'm 47) for over 3 years, played with 3 cpls and 8 single guys. She doesn't have anyone exclusive, its something we are not looking for. Out of the 8 gu...

Looking for advice from experienced cpls n hubbys. Thanks for reading. Just to give a brief background wife and I have been a HW cpl (she's 43 and I'm 47) for over 3 years, played with 3 cpls and 8 single guys. She doesn't have anyone exclusive, its something we are not looking for. Out of the 8 guy...

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All our play meets are vetted. Family and home circumstances make spontaneous meets ups unlikely, we would be open for one though. TBH feel vetted meets have a lil more plus than spontaneous ones, obviously there's only so much that should be planned after which it should be go with the flow honorin...

Wife's now 43, but in over the 3 years we have been lifestyle active she's fucked 8 guys so far (not bf, we do not have anyone exclusive or steady, its not what we are looking for) the oldest man she's fucked has been 12 years elder to her and the youngest 8 years younger. She says guys too young an...

Can someone please recommend some reading material from a woman’s experience and preference for BBC ? I’m thinking this could be helpful in at least sparking more interest in BBC for her . Some of our role play is BBC related and just want to encourage her interest even further because it’s a big t...

This is a concept that I've never understood. If a lady enjoys an activity, why would she not want to do it with both her husband and any lovers/FWBs she might be playing with? Maybe it's partly because of the reason why L and I are exploring this lifestyle but, I would be extremely hurt if she dis...

The one I have used successfully a couple of times...happy to share " Are you a magician? Coz when I look at you everything else just disappears" :-)

My wife and I have never searched by size. It’s always about chemistry and connection. We really look for someone we enjoy hanging out with at a bar, before bringing it to the bedroom. But as we’ve had more experiences, different fantasies and varieties have been discussed. One of which would be he...

My wife and I have a mutual friend named Ed. We have known Ed for many years and the one constant with Ed is that he has a major crush on my wife. He lets us know that if I croak he will be first in line...hahaha. Over the years he has asked if he can have a sexy pic of her. At first I didn't take ...

Sounds to me that she's not missing out on anything.....her ex is.... and why is that so imp to you? She's already fucked him once and it wasn't as good for her......so she's got it out of her system and it can remain a one off thing where you don't need to know! The thing about ex's is the sex most...

So this sounds sooooo much like my first time. The guy had met us for drinks before and I was instantly attracted. Fast forward to the evening of our meet up (a couple of weeks later) and he failed. Miserably. He would get hard for a few seconds, then go soft easy. Then after blowing him for what f...

To give you a brief background, we have been active for close to 3 years now and met many single guys and a few cpls so far. Earlier today Wife and I met a young guy (early 30s) for a first play meet. Usually we play on our turf, but since this guys visits from out of town and had a good hotel room ...

Wife and I have had a rare Anal sex......but not more than 10 times in the last 15 years, she doesn't love but doesn't mind it ether, for whatever reasons we haven't done it enough! Couple of times I ended up cumming inside her ass (that was super hot!!!!). Of all the guys who she's fucked since we ...

Bump....feel this need more vote!!

Not trying to be negative here.....Don't see too much potential with this guy, either nothing would happen and if it does it won't be the first WOW experience you want for her. You two are just starting out so I can sense her trying to build comfort but doesn't feel like its happening and just feel...