Our Hotwives

The timbre of her voice is a half step down. It's a minor key, duskier. It's sexier.

Farmgirl is an oracle and, for me personally, a mentor. But I wouldn't mess with her. Politeness and respect in the South shouldn't be mistaken for passivity.

My wife loves climbing into compartments (or contexts or roleplay) depending on our mood for how she might satiate this desire or that. She has [affairs] in compartments. And she'll enact a BDSD demon scene on a variation of the Dream Sequence in Rosemary's Baby. [Gala's Dream Sequence] My life-init...

I get everything you said about your wife, and suppose it applies to most hotwives. :D On top of all of those things you spoke about, I love my wife's true confidence, a real confidence that makes her so sexy. It is also what attracted most of her guys over the years. She's got a lot smarts to back...

There is a fabulous screenplay yet to be written about Pauline Bonaparte, the Emperor's youngest and favorite sister. She was the Marilyn Monroe of the Empire, except with sallow complexion, Corsican, not Anglo. There is a story of her little engagement with a famous sculptor, Canova, who carved the...

All of commotion over Napoleon on this site of all places, when the better story for our purposes is that of his gorgeous hotwife sister, Pauline. She stayed quite warm and cozy while her megalomaniac brother froze his ass off poking the Russian Bear and getting poked back so hard as to return with ...

Napoleon I wasn't any chaste, monogamous spouse himself. Read about his affair with Marie Waleska. Maybe a stag, not a cuck. Also, Joachim Phoenix, though a fine actor, wasn't right for the role of Napoleon. Better casted would have been the young Al Pacino - except he's no longer young.

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When Farmgirl is actively seeing a lover, I have a sense of being loved deeply, a sense that all is right with the world.

Yours is a side of it I need to dig for in my own experience of it. It's getting better for me with time, so there's still hope...

My wife and I have lots of rules of engagement. But we don't use our rules as much anymore to confine her activities but rather to channel them. We set up "games," as we call them - structures and contexts in which we can live out a particular kink, and the rules are designed to accomplish that spec...

I don't think I have felt compersion yet. . . . Part of what makes hotwifing hot for me is seeing her desire directed at other men . . . . Some of us are talking past one another because compersion means different things to different people. I'm understanding it as eroticized empathy. So when you a...

Similar to Greg's, my experience of compersion isn't as a counterforce to jealousy. I don't view compersion and jealousy as opposites or even "directly relational" either, as he so eloquently put it. And I would add here that the word "compersion," as a number of us are using it, does not mean exact...

You might need to plan a bauble budget

This is the kind of question that in litigation draws the stock objection, "Calls for Speculation." The answer above about studies with results "all over the map" makes this point too. Who's the sample, how's the survey phrased, how to control for untruthful responses, ect. - all bear on the validit...

Well I guess one question that needs to be answered is “what is considered cheating”? I gave my wife unconditional approval to fuck anyone she wanted to anytime she wanted to. She just needed to tell me after the fact. Took a while, but she finally did it. Problem was she didn’t tell me about it un...

I love Amy being a Hotwife, and she loves the freedom I give her to fuck other guys. However, she'd go crazy if I got my hands on another woman. While I'm hot to see her with other guys, she's definately not fantasising about me screwing other chicks. I have no issue with this... we are wired diffe...

[S]he's definately not fantasising about me screwing other chicks. . . . [W]e are wired differently . . . So question for the Hotwives... what are your thoughts on hubby screwing around? Not a hotwife but I can articulate the consensus I've reached with mine on that issue. While there are many exce...

Hotwifing is a big enough tent to include some cheating scenarios, but these tend to be outliers. The most common, a few even posting in this very thread, are those in which a cheating wife came clean about an act of infidelity, and the husband, though hurt by her deceitful ways, experienced compers...

I'm not sure that we've covered any of the charming rhetoric that has been abused in pursuit of our hot wives. Does anyone have experience with terrible encounters with awkward men such as myself? I heard one just the other day. "I think I'd like to take you for a ride on my tractor!" ;). I can ima...

I have a friend of mine who I know is freaky...and ny wife was into him. I started by texting him and tried moving the convo that way. It eventually went well and ended up with me explaining our lifestyle and sharing pics with him. Turns out he always thought my wife was hot...just had no idea how ...

I'm having a get-acquainted date with my wife and a guy she met on line who's into playing with couples. How does the topic of sex first get started during one ig those first inpression encounters? Who brings it up, me, her, or him? What is the ideal leading in?

this takes time. For us it took 14 years! What was the turnaround factor for you guys? It's not so much a factor as a process. Freud calls it cathexis. The more she orgasms to the thought of it, the more it becomes wrapped for her in positive energy, and so the more at ease she becomes with it. The...

My wife's developmental phase was similar yours. Years of mixed messages, vacillating hot and cold attitudes. But mine never said never, and by Year 7 it was game on.

My sense of your situation is that it's not a forelorn hope. Yours just may take longer.

I'm morally at peace with it not mattering, and so is my wife. I recognize that in some systems of morality, deceit is evil per se. And hotwifing with married men makes the hotwife, and her husband too, complicit in the other man's adultery. But the system we apply to this situation is pragmatic. Th...

I am a clothes horse - for her. That totem animal fits my style better than stag. I was more of a stag when I was younger and prone to head-bashing other males over women. Every Christmas, her birthday, and other special occasion is an occasion for me to dress her as I want her to appear to others. ...

I can't help but chime in on these word games. The animal metaphors are of such common usage within this community of kindred spirits that I can't really knock them as a signifiers - the words do work as language. But all of the garbage and cartoonishness they pull in by association. Does anyone but...