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All good points

Luv2watchher wrote:I found this thread very helpful and informative, Thanks.

Positive feedback is great - thanks

BuzzG, Thanks for your honest and frank warranting of my threesome advice, you are a great man.

CdnHotWife7 wrote:This has been incredibly helpful as a new hotwife. Thank you!

thank you, that was always my aim

10. Most of all be doing it because you want to for you. 3682 Make sure you’re both absolutely sure that you know what you want out of this. Do NOT do this to just get it out of your system, do not just go along with it for the other partner, because it will go wrong if you are not doing this for y...

9. Understand that if you like it your emotions and sex life will never be the same again. Your sexual rollercoaster has moved from kindergarten to xxx. You have decided to have a man (or men) in your life that is in addition to hubby. Big deal? No, Massive fucking deal. You must have this conversa...

I wonder if people are reading this...

This is bigger than i thought it woold be ha ha. Two more to do.

Continued...... Finding a fuck buddy on line is tough because you are not seeing or feeling their personality, you are finding their impression of what their personality is. So planning to fuck on a first date is a tough one for you girls as the guy could be hopeless looking and a liar. Men that use...

Continued...... 1. People are usually 20% less rich than they say they are. 2. They often lie about their relationship status - Single can often mean - She doesn't know. Or I am just a little bit married. Top tip here If you are cool with marrieds it is important to say so, if not say so. 3. The mor...

8. Realise you will meet liars, cheats and players. Oh and other people's husbands, that also might be liars cheats and players. There will be some nice guys too. [/b] Girls - You have entered the lifestyle, please don't treat your new 'friends' the same as you would have treated a vanilla one. You...

Continued.... If You Are Thinking of Standing Someone Up If you are thinking of standing someone up…don’t! It’s a shit thing to do . You’re basically saying that you would rather give someone else an entire evening of discomfort instead of taking just one minute of discomfort you would feel by calli...

Continued... Do you give a second chance? Only you can answer that Your feelings and interpretations of the excuses of a no-show will guide you. My wife is in favour of it and I am never in favour of giving anyone a second chance after all they have stood you up. Take it further and risk it happenin...

... Continued Preventing that awful feeling of dealing with a no show Some of you will take your hubby along as a wingman on first dates, my wife and I still do that occasionally for lots of reasons. I have covered that before. However unless you are very lucky you will experience no shows in your H...

7. Expect to be let down by players and no shows There are many ways in which somebody might choose to waste your time, and after many years my wife and I have probably encountered most of the. Time wasters: Those who specifically go out of their way to waste time. For whatever reason, it is their ...

Continued I find it easier to do this in word, thanks wifey, top tip. You should never question your FB, whether they are sleeping around or if they are doing things you don’t approve of. They are free bodies and you have no rights over them. If you feel the need to question him, then you have start...

6. Expect your heart to be broken at least once, or your emotions confused. You are only human after all. Avoiding 'One Too Many' visits not drinks You got to pace yourself with your FB. Know how many times a week you can meet for sex to feel sexually satisfied? Remember the reason (your goal) why ...

Mine's a guide not rules, but I can see where you are going with them

5. Expect to have fun, but will need an open mind for that. Obviously, no two HWs are alike or are two HW couples alike, but there's a common thread among them. Most (in my experience) have a strong bond with their marital partners, and they're not afraid to explore. These couples who are confident...

4. Maybe not expect to be as choosy as you once were. Not all men are equal. Not all men live up to the dream. Dear wife, please excuse my spelling, I am not as good as you LOL. What does this mean? It means, remember your goal, you want to have fun extra-martial sex. You are not looking for a repl...

3. Expected to be "onced" from time to time. Some guys will fuck you because you are easy. Then never see you again. Don't take this to heart. For you first time girls, consider this, prior to hotwifery, the only time you likely touched a man's cock you had never met before within four hours was wh...

I'm on it but a little thing called my job gets in the way.
As for the chase. I don't mean all out, unless that is her style.

Natural works well when the girl being chased, sees the chaser and uses it to her feminine advantage.

2. Realise that you have to do some chasing, instead of the stereotypical boy Pursues girl. Before you get started Hot Wifery and hit the paddock and start looking for someone, you are going to have to be comfortable being ultra-sexual. Not pretty, not smart, not beautiful. You need to be ultra-sexu...

1. Get over her fear of rejection. No matter how you look, some guys don't want to share. You will, have your idea of what you want, George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Denzel Washington. Then you will also know about the guy from accounts at work, forty pounds overweight 50 years old and is the only guy tha...

Or maybe you think your wife wants to be one. The girl must 1. Get over her fear of rejection. No matter how you look, some guys don't want to share. 2. Realise that you have to do some chasing, instead of the stereotypical boy Pursues girl. 3. Expected to be "onced" from time to time. Some guys wil...