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Sorry, but I just don’t understand this “shame” thing with meeting someone my wife has sex with. With the exception of one of my wife’s old lovers that she hooked up with more than a year ago, I know all the guys Susan has had sex with. In fact they are still good friends’s with us. We have similar ...

Wesley Hudson Valley wrote: ↑

Fri Apr 26, 2024 12:33 am

If many of the first time creampie experiences were not planned with the wife how many of those the wife was not on any form birth control like my first creampie experience?

Our first, Susan was not on birth control, but he and I had vasectomies.

A word of caution if texting with “new” people you want to meet on line.

Unfortunately scammers, fakes and flakes can get your personal information from your phone number and certain other texting sources.

In our experience…a Burner phone app, KIK may help prevent some of these issues.

It wasn’t discussed or planned. It happened more than 30 years ago on an overnight trip with Susan, me and her old boyfriend who also happened to be a good friend of mine from high school. We shared a hotel room with him. After dinner we were headed back to the hotel and stopped off at a grocery sto...

My wife spent the night with an old lover that she had not been with for many years at a beautiful 5 star resort when this happened.. She walked naked up to the double doors leading to the balcony and told him “I’d like you to fuck me on the balcony, but the doors are locked”. I asked her what his r...

For once…we would love to see a realistic series on NM relationships and/or hotwives. All the shows we have watched show us in a negative light that results in relationships being destroyed.

We have been at this for more than 30 years and always kept it private to the extent we could. As time went by we found out several friends and family members suspected or knew we were in the lifestyle. We finally got to the point that when innuendo’s or other questions were made about us being swin...

I only have one more question…what type of vibrator did Josephine likey have? Was it an UL rated electric plug in or battery operated? I may have found an answer to your light question: "The practice of massaging women’s genitals to stimulate orgasm and treat various “problems” said to be caused by...

I only have one more question…what type of vibrator did Josephine likey have? Was it an UL rated electric plug in or battery operated? Great question! I'm sure that she must have done a thorough Internet search before deciding. :) Stupid me! I never thought about that..I bet Napoleon searched the i...

I only have one more question…what type of vibrator did Josephine likey have? Was it an UL rated electric plug in or battery operated? Great question! I'm sure that she must have done a thorough Internet search before deciding. :) Stupid me! I never thought about that..I bet Napoleon searched the i...

Geeze…I posted this Napoleon with a little humor in it primarily because there was one scene in particular between Napoleon and Josephine when she made a comment in response to his remark, which suggested she was a hotwife. I asked our good friends (active in hotwifing) what they thought and they se...

Tank: “ My opinion is sexually confident women who are comfortable naked are the creme de la creme of women, probably because I married one.”

I agree!

The history channel reports that they both had affairs and if you search, it’s an interesting and short read. Here is short bit of what is reported for those interested. “When Napoleon visited her Milan apartment in November 1796, only to find it empty, he started to become suspicious. One letter re...

Parsifal “ Joachim Phoenix, though a fine actor, wasn't right for the role of Napoleon.” Interesting comment. My wife and I were also expecting a shorter rougher guy, with a Napoleon complex…LOL. Phoenix in spite of his baby face did a good job however. Isinlarsa, thank you for this bit of history y...

Susan and I watched the movie Napoleon, which was recently released. We were surprised to learn that his wife was a “slut wife”. It was a time when wife’s that cheated were beheaded, but somehow his wife continued with her extramarital affairs (and narrowly dodged a beheading) and Napoleon aware of ...

Happened about 20 years ago… I still can’t believe we didn’t get arrested. One night my wife, one of her old boyfriends and I went out to dinner and on the drive back home she wanted to stop at a city park in a residential that is closed at sunset. When we got there she put on a song that she loved ...

Most taboo - My wife had sex with a guy in front of his bisexual. My wife isn’t bisexual at all. The man’s wife was hoping for a threesome with my wife. My wife wouldn’t allow the wife to get close to them as they had sex. My wife made the husband stop whenever his wife tried to join in. Finally th...

aglee wrote: ↑

Tue Feb 20, 2024 3:47 am

Most taboo was with a relative.

Most risky--a few might qualify. One turned out very bad.

Well do not just leave us hanging..tell us about that vey bad experience!

Hello from Kelly, Wesley’s wife and best friend Here is my quick list of benefits from being in a Hotwife lifestyle as a married couple. Who knows this list might motivate other couples to try this lifestyle. My marriage is not one of husband and wife, it is a marriage of best friends. My husband's...

One year ago today, my wife Susan walked in our front door after spending the night with an old lover that she hadn’t been with in more than 40 years. I never met the guy until he walked in our home, looked me in the eye, shook my hand and said thank you. Susan had a glow about her. After he left S...

One year ago today, my wife Susan walked in our front door after spending the night with an old lover that she hadn’t been with in more than 40 years. I never met the guy until he walked in our home, looked me in the eye, shook my hand and said thank you. Susan had a glow about her. After he left Su...

Please post the link to the article. Sounds interesting: I sent you a message to a Research Article on CMN which I found to be very interesting. Especially when they discussed jealousy and compersion. It’s rather long but but IMO very well worth the read. It is published in the Cogent Mental Health...

Zorro, Re: “I have noted over the years you and Susan and I and Ruth have a lot in common.” I agree and there are others on here that I sense we have a lot in common with. I sent you a message to a Research Article on CMN which I found to be very interesting. Especially when they discussed jealousy ...

Zorro, My wife and I both have compersion for each other. We “don’t just think” we have compersion…we know that’s what it is because we have researched it, we live it, and realized that it is something that is very special. Jealously, which as you note, is the opposite and damaging to relationships....

My suggestion is just ask your questions here.

We have other friends in the Hotwife lifestyle and we talk often. I can tell you that although we share similar desires, each relationship is really very different.