Our Hotwives

I am very curious to know if Pinky would be jealous and suddenly become protective over her turf. I believe she would do just that. Up until now, when anything comes into the conversation or scenario that threatens our life together (and, the unspoken element of lifestyle which is a high premium to...

XYAlpha wrote: ↑

Wed Dec 16, 2020 11:13 am

Pinky would lose her mind the second you bought your side-sex girl a nice Louis Vuitton bag or some Jimmy Choo ARI Crystal Pumps!

Just sayin'...



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I don't think she'd play it off convincingly either, but who knows, anything could happen right?

Thanks to both of you for your illuminating posts. I didn't want to hi-jack your thread with my discussion with Parsifal so I took it to PM. Thank you for responses. If I'm out of line or something please know it's just honest curiosity and naivety! Thanks again, I enjoy reading your posts and this...

Locked in this dilemma, I'm outsmarted by her. She gets her way guilt free. Go figure. You're forced to take the difficult path of calling her bluff I think. To pass on the offer would still give her the acknowledgement of extending the opportunity. If take her up on it then you face her reluctant ...

I like this question, it's timely. I truly am following and asking sincerely. ............ it's really a wild ride and is certainly unpredictable, but overall the big picture is working out, in that a) she is now open to having a lover and/or FB and really likes it; b) she is not ruling anything ou...

I really admire your sharing your analysis of your progression. You meticulously think things through. You have also been very open minded with the posters here and haven't taken offense when they differed with you. Have your original expectations changed in view of the path this has evolved into? D...

....When my marriage reached that phase, I slowed down the hotwifing, broke it into stand alone games, and let it evolve in smaller doses I could handle. My fear of losing control of the situation and losing her was too overpowering..... When you really know yourself well you know when you need a c...

My biggest question for any of the lifestyles here, whether it is way out there and wild or if it is an occasional thing, has been "Where does this go over time?" Everything that was once "new and different and unknown" becomes the opposite over time. If any behavior becomes a repeated pattern, a ro...

In your style 1) Admitting she had the dream is not to be ignored. 2) She "crossly" characterized you as manipulative in the dream. 3) She didn't want to have THAT dream again. and 4) I agree it's tumbling around in her subconscious along with those OTHER things she CHOSE to share with you. Kind of ...

You have a lot to be thankful for! Congratulations on your marriage. I've heard you say that you would like more (a hotwife), but I don't think I've ever heard you bad mouth your wife. That's a testament to your love for her and your character in general. Farmgirl and I both think a lot of you. I d...

Her number 1 and Farmgirl is this your 1st marriage for you both? Yes, it is. ....... We dated all through high school and got married when she graduated. That's rare these days, congratulations. We had our 42nd anniversary this Summer. I have only one other friend that is still on his first marria...

Her number 1 and Farmgirl is this your 1st marriage for you both?

How did the "voluntarily pussy free" come about? If it was something they already wanted or knew was happening anyway, was it much of a gesture? Is this about wanting out of the cage and being able to masturbate? I'm curious about what you specifically think would be your ideal situation with your w...

Last night I asked our Bull if it would be okay for me not to be in chastity anymore since I have voluntarily agreed to be pussy-free. He said NO. He sees the chastity cage as a sign of respect. Why did you want to be out? Is it possible to ask if there are other ways you could show your respect? S...

SoFLCuck wrote: ↑

Tue Dec 08, 2020 9:01 am

Last night I asked our Bull if it would be okay for me not to be in chastity anymore since I have voluntarily agreed to be pussy-free. He said NO. He sees the chastity cage as a sign of respect.

Why did you want to be out? Is it possible to ask if there are other ways you could show your respect?

...... She knows how to push my buttons and shower me with love at the same time. I've had my share of women in the past, some I've written about in the earlier pages of our thread. But we reached the stage where she doesn't want me to play any longer, and that is fine by me. With her, I don't need...

We had a couple of friends over last night for a quiet take-out-eat-in dinner, to join us and the niece and her new boyfriend. These friends are red wine people. So it flowed, and SW ended up on the dance pole. I keep forgetting that SW is a pole dancer and that you have one at home. It takes a cer...

These kind of hook ups are usually not lengthy in time are they? I realize circumstances and situations are dynamic and there are no time constraints other than what Farmgirl prioritizes. Generally though, are a lot of her hook ups like she disappears for a couple hours at random times and comes hom...

Lots of advice huh? Everyone seems to have an opinion on the deletion of texts. Does she still ask for your help in composing email/text replies? I'm thinking that may be a good time to bring up the topic. Both of you need to know what is a "big deal" to the other and why, and what things you believ...

........... and lots to talk about. He did ask me a little bit about our situation, umm, so we'll have to talk about that. I did sort of maintain that it was an open marriage, which, though that's not the case but, umm, as far as umm, we know what it is, but umm that seems to be the most palatable ...

Farmgirl, was having sex with three men (hubby being one) in one day something you had ever done before? Was it something you had ever thought about before? When J called you, you had been busy earlier with A for a good session and then her#1. What all went through your head? Did you think what her#...

How about you COASTALKID? HAVE U SUCKED THE BULLS DICK YE? Not even in the same zip code yet! Would I do it? I admit it is something Id like to experience but not if it meant it relegated me to that form of sexual satisfaction. Now, if my wife was fired up about it that would change things too. If ...

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Wed Nov 25, 2020 6:34 pm

Am allowed to watch her, while am naked, and i must not touch my cock, and if i have an erection they kicked me out

How many times have you had to leave?

2/3

Two out of three huh? What would you guess that number to be this time next year?

John007 wrote: ↑

Wed Nov 25, 2020 6:34 pm

Am allowed to watch her, while am naked, and i must not touch my cock, and if i have an erection they kicked me out

How many times have you had to leave?

........... We don't keep secrets, we have no need to. It's like we laugh about to each other (though there's a lot of truth), "if you can freely discuss your wife's lovers with you wife, and her with you, then you should be able to discuss anything at all". BTW flakes are really annoying, another ...