Our Hotwives

Check out the book “The Faithful Hotwife”. Maybe someone mentioned it and I missed it. It is full of fun role-play scenarios and “methods” .

I can relate to this as I was in a similar situation 15-20 years ago with my gf back then. We never did the hotwife thing though, although it was briefly discussed. I understand the reasoning for going this way; however, I feel that if she wants a "steady" bull/lover there is a higher risk than nor...

So my wife and I enjoyed the Hotwire fantasy for a couple weeks and she suddenly backed off firmly. It has been 6 months since and she moved on. I was deviated at first and she still knows it’s my obsession but we both understood each other which as most of you know, is a good feeling albeit not wh...

Brought this up to my lady last night, I expected her to answer “intercourse, of course”, but nope, she said a blowjob is more intimate in her opinion. Hopefully she’ll stop by and give her explanation better than I could. I guess it makes sense after seeing a lady’s viewpoint. After responding to ...

I’ve heard of allergies, but I think sometimes our pH gets thrown off. A healthy vagina has a low pH, making it acidic. But semen is VERY alkaline. So, with frequent “deposits” it can really throw things off. There are boric acid suppositories that can help to restore the pH.

SensualDeviant wrote: ↑

Fri Oct 27, 2023 10:22 am

Also, sex isn't necessarily finished after we ejaculate. We can use our mouths, hands, and toys to continue pleasuring our wives and girlfriends. I think this doesn't even occur to most people.

Smart guy!

It’s not over til you both say it’s over!

Not sure how to introduce this to her, but reading erotica is always fun for me. There are a lot of apps that will let you read a few chapters per day for free. Check out Literotica. YouTube even has some audiobooks that she could listen to (earbuds!) while she’s working or driving. A fun thing that...

Just throwing in my two cents, from a female perspective. Some of the things I heard sound really familiar. You mentioned that you have young kiddos. Those years are TOUGH and take a big toll on marriage, sex and intimacy, and the way women (maybe not all, just speaking for myself) view themselves. ...

Bottom line she still says that “good wives” dont fuck other people and she is just playing for me. But is she? I feel where she’s coming from here. I have wrestled with this as pertains to embracing my sexuality as a whole, not just as pertains to HW. I can LOVE sex, I can still feel sexy, I can s...

I'm really enjoying your story Ky. Take your time and don't rush it. For me it's all about the ainst, the fear, and the jealousy. It's when the husband knows he's losing control of the situation as well as the confidence in his marriage and possibly the respect of his wife. Romance, vulnerability, ...

How I responded While thinking about our sex life, I did some self-reflection. Since M's time with Jesse, I could never accept that M didn't have interest in sex, even if it wasn't with me. For the first time, I considered that I might be the reason our sex life was dull. I always attributed the lo...

If I may expound on "communication". My wife and I have had some very deep conversations regarding Hotwifing as she's increased her desire. We were fortunate to have a 3rd party from within OHW ask us some very pointed questions, which we each answered privately then shared with each other several ...

If I may expound on "communication". My wife and I have had some very deep conversations regarding Hotwifing as she's increased her desire. We were fortunate to have a 3rd party from within OHW ask us some very pointed questions, which we each answered privately then shared with each other several ...

Adventurer and I realized on Saturday morning that we'd be home alone that night. While I was walking our dog in the morning, he sent me a text, "Will you have an at-home date with me tonight? Maybe collared and leashed, or tied to the bed?" LOL. What a romantic offer! It made me laugh. I said I'd ...

I’m there with you XRayGirl. Me and the hubs have been together since we were kids, so it has been a L O N G time since I have “flirted” and to make matters worse, I’m just not really a “people-y” person. We have had several convos about how I will need to learn to become more social.

It’s a shame that this LS gets the trash that it does. Where else in society do you hear of men who totally and completely love their wives and/or hear about bonds so strong? It’s refreshing to hear!

Happy to be here. Finding lots of great info already!

So refreshing to see a group of men be so open minded and embracing REAL women.

Evening, all! Wanted to reach out as the other half of the couple! Looking forward to drawing some wisdom from those who have gone before us. Very happy to be here!