Our Hotwives

I am not sure if this is the right thread, but I'll try. I have already written about us in my thread but to quickly sum it up - we like cuckold arrangements that include dom/sub elements, denial, humiliation - not very extreme, but certainly cuckold LS rather than stag if I am to apply labels. My w...

The most erotic for me it is the ultimate proof a bull just finished the humiliating act of fucking my wife and my wife just gave herself to him ant there is nothing I can do about it at that point. Even better is the anticipation when you know he is about to cum, he starts grunting, deep in my wife...

Maybe I am wrong and I should just accept this as a transition period until we are in more sync. Maybe the edging doesn't have such negative impact on later events. What do you think? I have been successful in encouraging my wife to be more dominant and controlling in denying me. I started asking h...

Since we entered into cuckold mode I lost all of my stamina. Before I could fuck her for how long I wanted. Now since we are trying to live our roles as a hotwife and cuckold, I can barely last a minute inside her. That's why I rarely have PIV sex with my wife and she instead opting for my hands an...

Since we entered into cuckold mode I lost all of my stamina. Before I could fuck her for how long I wanted. Now since we are trying to live our roles as a hotwife and cuckold, I can barely last a minute inside her. That's why I rarely have PIV sex with my wife and she instead opting for my hands and...

My wife met her former FWB when she was out. I didn't know until she came home, jumped on me sleeping and started telling me details. She said they talked about past and he confessed she's too hot and he'd love to fuck her again despite him having family now. They flirted and kissed a little and he ...

When I read about how selfless a cuckold is, I can certainly relate, but at the same time it feels a bit selfish too because of the fact how much of a turn on it is, almost obsession like desire for it. Yes you are right that my wife has gone a long way since the moment I confessed. To the extent, ...

Over time, I learned to give less attention to bullshit societal messages. I became comfortable in my skin. I am a husband who enjoys watching/knowing that his wife enjoys the sexual company of other men. When I really try, I focus on blocking negative emotions and the crack starts to open where I ...

I have never got into trying to understand or figure out as to why I have the need to be dominated by my wife, serving as our house maid, truly enjoy hearing her tell me the details from her meetings with her lovers, verbal humiliation of me as a sexual partner in comparison to some of her previous...

I must agree with you. Overthinking is big factor in many aspects of my life. It's helpful in some situations, not so much in others. I certainly know there aren't two personalities within me, but the analogy was the most accurate to explain how it feels. When I think about and try to pinpoint what'...

I have been living with my kink more than ten years. At the beginning I struggled with the fact that it gets me horny thinking about my wife having sex with someone else. I overcame that struggle after some time and accepted it for what it is. We are still yet to find a guy for her, but as me and my...

We did have a longish pause with occasional pillow talk only. Was due to some health issues. Now we are back at exploring and trying to move forward. But the pause has allowed for thorough conversations and clarification. Now we both fully accept my cock size is not enough for her to be completely s...

We are at trying and tweaking stage right now. Hopefully we'll get to a point as you described, where putting me in a cage has this strong psychological effect on me. It does have an effect on me now too, but not that strong yet. The very first week was great because I was in the right mindset and I...

We started playing with chastity few weeks ago. Wife keeps me locked few days a time. It's all new to us and I am getting used to it. Wife likes it because it's exactly what she needs - something real and tangible that is between us that is part of the lifestyle and not just fantasies. It feels inte...

This might be good idea for the welcoming ourselves into the lifestyle. I mean in the ice breaking terms only, as I don't think this is something we'd be doing regularly since she's not too exhibionistict. Might be one of the reasons for her reluctance having me present. But I am not condemning any ...

Try to enjoy the angst of not being there. It's hard, but rewarding! Your mind will be racing like you're on speed and you'll never be harder in your life than the first time you SEND YOUR WIFE AWAY TO FUCK ANOTHER MAN! If your still too "angsty" after considering that, ask to meet him before hand ...

We discussed and regardless of how I have been feeling, she decided to not go to the date. She took time thinking about it and realized it would indeed be a hasty. She didnt expect his next day invitation either. What is positive is the fact she appreciated and acknowledged my concerns without thes...

We discussed and regardless of how I have been feeling, she decided to not go to the date. She took time thinking about it and realized it would indeed be a hasty. She didnt expect his next day invitation either. What is positive is the fact she appreciated and acknowledged my concerns without these...

By being careful you mean to not insist on my terms of being present? I don't intend to, I realize it might be uncomfortable for her and being uncomfortable is the least I want for her. What I am trying to do here is to avoid ripping off the band aid for the first experience for me. Or limit the anx...

BIG update. Wife texted to a prospect from the past. He learned we have kind of open relationship and texted my wife in past saying if she wants a discreet fun, she can just tell. To which she answered open ended then. He's not from within our close circles, but is a friend of wife's friend she met ...

In all honesty I would LOVE if her need to sleep with someone else was one of the initial and primary reasons why she is enjoying cuckolding. She said she will certainly enjoy the sex with someone else, but having a lover is not the primary driver for her now. Do you thing it might change as we pro...

Thanks for the suggestion, I'll keep it on mind, however, over the time I think I confessed to most of the fantasies of mine revolving about cuckolding. My wife loved and loves sex indeed, but I never got impression she was particularly kinky in past either. She had reasonable amount of sex partners...

Thank you, yes I am trying to express I really enjoy when she's like that. She also started being more verbally open especially during sex, about how good another bigger cock would feel. I love that. But I feel she's still very hesitant to admit or say things that would lead to direct comparison of ...

Just a small update. Not much has changed over the time. We talked here and there. Wife certainly needs time to get completely comfortable to assert the more dominant role. I am very careful with the communication as I don't want her to feel she is pushed or to push herself into something in order t...

But once, she rejected having sex with me even after I had taken viagra. She then told me that I need to understand that she still wants to have sey with her bf. I felt so hurt I seriouly considered divorce. I obviously don't know full background information so not going to judge, but if my wife sa...